Wen丨Tao Xiaojing, the spring breeze is not as good as yours, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you! The difference between women is really huge. Some women can be loved by others, while others can only be envied and jealous. When you are envious of others, have you ever thought about

text丨Tao Xiaojing

The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!

The difference between women is really huge. Some women can be loved by others, but some women can only be envied and jealous.

When you are envious of others, have you ever thought about why others can easily get the happiness you want?

Maybe you will feel that other people's success comes from God's favor, and everything you suffer is God's stumbling block for you.

From the moment you pass the responsibility to others, you lose even more completely. You think God is being unfair to you, but in fact everything is your own fault.

We are also women. There is a reason why others can compete for your love, but you can only watch the one you love go to someone else.

Whether a woman can get the love of the opposite sex depends not on how favored God is, but on how hard she works.

If you have never worked hard and do not have any strong chips or capital, how can you be better than others?

No matter how jealous you are of others, you must understand that there is a reason why a woman can make others vie for love.

Because she is very charming

The charm of a woman can not only conquer men, but also women.

Even women can be moved by her charm, let alone men. The more attractive a woman is, the easier it is for men to compete for her love.

In the eyes of men, an attractive woman is like an ever-blooming flower. Although she may not have a gorgeous appearance, she will definitely be able to maintain a dazzling posture for a long time.

Men cannot resist such a woman. Once they meet such a charming woman, it is difficult for a man not to be moved.

Men are attracted by the charm of women. They will not only take the initiative to approach women, but also try their best to capture women's hearts.

This is a common feature shared by many men. Therefore, one of the main reasons why a woman can make people compete for love is that she is very attractive.

If you also want to be loved by others, if you also want to be the envy of others, then improve yourself and make yourself more attractive.

You have to know that charm is a woman’s best business card. An attractive woman, no matter what age she is, will make people compete for her love.

Because she is very capable

Although many people pursue physical beauty, physical beauty can never be as good as ability.

A woman with beautiful appearance may look charming, but she cannot win people's hearts at all. A very capable woman may not be so beautiful, but it is easy for men to compete for her love.

The reason why such a situation occurs is actually because men value women's abilities more and more. Only women with outstanding abilities can completely conquer men.

Men like beauty, and men also pursue beauty, but they will not keep a vase by their side for a long time. When he gets tired of aesthetics, he will turn around and leave.

What a man really wants is not an empty vase, but a helper with outstanding abilities.

In the eyes of men, being with a woman with outstanding abilities will affect him and become more capable.

The best love is actually when two people grow together and become better. Once a man meets such a woman, he will not let her go easily.

It can be seen from this that a woman can make people compete for love, largely because she is very capable.

Because she understands men’s hearts very well.

Whether it’s charm or ability, it’s just a bonus. A woman’s greatest asset is actually her understanding of men.

A man spends his life looking for a woman who truly understands him. He doesn't care whether the woman is beautiful or not, and he doesn't care whether she can bring him goods. He just hopes that the woman can understand him.

For a man, a piece of understanding is so precious, and he will never let it go after finally getting it.

In the eyes of a man, a woman who understands him is an interpretive flower. No matter what thoughts he has, he can be understood by women.

Men dream of getting such understanding and understanding. Therefore, a woman can make men compete for love precisely because she understands men's hearts.

Understanding a man's heart is a very valuable quality. If you can also give men such understanding, men will definitely surround you.

Xiaojing’s emotional conclusion:

Whether a woman can let men compete for her love has always been decided by herself.

If a woman is charming and capable, she will be more attractive in front of men. Women understand people's hearts and are more precious to men.

Once you meet such a woman, even if you ask him to give everything he has, he will work hard to fight for her.

observed that it is not just one or two men who are obsessed with such women, but most men are like this.

Therefore, there is a reason why a woman can make people compete for love.

If you also want others to compete for your love, then first see if you have these capitals. If not, please make changes promptly.

You have to believe that when you become more and more charming, more and more capable, and more and more understanding of men's hearts, you can also experience the feeling of stars over the moon.