writer Tonghua said:
"If you really love someone, even if you give her the whole world, you still worry that you don't give enough and that it's not good enough."
honestly agrees.
When a man loves to the extreme, that's it.
As long as that person is you and as long as you want it, he will be willing to do anything.
Even if he doesn't have it, he will try his best to give it to you.
has obviously given you a lot, but still feels that it has not given enough.
And willingly is the highest state of a man loving a woman.
Below are three ways a man can love a woman in the highest state.
After a quarrel, they will take the initiative to bow to you
According to a survey:
"A couple will quarrel 189 times a year, once every 2 days on average;
If calculated based on a 40-year marriage, they will quarrel about 7,500 times in a lifetime."
Emotional writer Wenger once wrote in the book:
"Even in a good marriage, there will be 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses to strangle each other in a lifetime."
I think it is better to distance a relationship. It's not a quarrel, but the way to deal with it after the quarrel.
I remember that in a couple variety show, the host asked Chen Xiaochun:
"When you quarrel, who admits his fault first?"
Chen Xiaochun replied without hesitation:
"Actually, the quarrel is not about winning or losing, the big deal is me Just close your ears and stop listening.
Just go and coax her. Anyway, no matter what she does, I have never thought about getting divorced.
Then let her win. But it is enough to see Chen Xiaochun's deep affection for Ying Cai'er .
watched a video, and there was a conversation in it that impressed me deeply:
"The apprentice asked the master: "Master, why every time you quarrel with the master, you always go to the master first, isn't the master right? "Master
said: "Some things are right, and other unimportant things even if they are wrong, it doesn't matter. "
Indeed, if a man really loves you, then, after a quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, he will take the initiative to bow his head.
For no other reason than to lose you because of this.
Therefore, after every quarrel, He will take the initiative to coax you.
He will take the initiative to share the housework for you
There is a classic saying on the Internet:
"Sometimes a woman needs a man, just like a plane escaper needs a parachute;
If this If he is not here at this moment, there is no need for him to be there in the future. "
Indeed, when two people fall in love, they are actually more like comrades who support each other.
Only by fighting side by side can they be invincible and invincible.
This is the case for Xiaoru and her boyfriend.
The two of them are like this during the day When they are at work, they go to work separately.
When they get home from work, they cook and clean together.
Many times, the boys will take the initiative without Xiaoru having to say anything.
Although they will quarrel together. There has never been a quarrel about who should do housework.
Because Xiaoru’s boyfriend is very conscious and never thinks that doing housework is what girls should do.
Xiaoru talks to us about her every time. Your boyfriend will have a happy smile on her face.
"Housework" may seem like a small thing, but if it is not handled well, it can destroy a relationship.
And a man who truly loves you will be able to do it. When it comes to housework, he will be particularly proactive and conscious, and he will take the initiative to share it with you without you asking.
will never let you be busy all by yourself. Then you can just play games and play with your mobile phone.
A man who will take the initiative to spend money on you
He says he loves you to death, but is reluctant to give you money.
In the final analysis, he actually doesn’t love you.
There is a saying that goes like this:
"A man who is willing to give you money may not necessarily love you;
but a man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you."
Indeed, although love cannot be bought with money Measurement can measure the thickness of a relationship.
People who really love you will be willing to spend money for you no matter how poor they are.
He would rather nibble on steamed buns and eat instant noodles than be reluctant to part with you.
As long as you like it, he will not be stingy, but will try his best to satisfy you.
Just like this sentence says:
"No matter how poor a man is, he is still willing to spend money on the woman he loves."
So, when a man loves you to the extreme, he must be willing to give you up.
Especially when it comes to money.
Maybe he is not rich enough, but he is never stingy with you.
He would rather wrong himself than wrong you.
In the vast sea of people, if you meet a man who loves you like this, you must know how to cherish it.
