It is understood that extramarital affairs: The betrayer does not not love the other half, nor does he love the mistress, but he is not self-disciplined.
netizens shared that some betrayers do not love their spouses, nor do they love their mistresses, or they do not love anyone, but they just lack self-discipline and like to cheat and mess around. It’s not that I don’t believe him, but I know that after the quarrel, he still continued to chat on WeChat. They dated secretly, and when they got home, they smelled of women’s perfume. On the surface, it was broken, but that was only a lie. Lie to me, I'm asking myself, do I have to endure this? Or just get divorced! I was also cheated on ten years ago. It was very painful at the time. I wandered in front of the Civil Affairs Bureau N times and I wanted to die. But when I saw the young child, my mother-in-law said all her good things, so I calmed down and gave the other person a chance. . I trusted him for the rest of my life and didn't mention anything about his cheating. He turned around. Now we are as harmonious as husband and wife as friends than relatives. Maybe the other person cheated because of obsession or impulse. Generous forgiveness will make him feel repentant and indebted to you...
Cheating is a betrayal of your partner. There is a rift in the relationship, it is not that easy to repair. Husband and wife are close at hand, but their hearts are apart. It's good. Some men do things they shouldn't do out of curiosity. If you don't do it again, you can forgive it. This is just a small episode in your decades of troubles. Men and women have different physiologies. Knowing your mistakes can greatly improve them. , if you make mistakes again and again, you should turn around and leave. Me too, but I always mention it. I'm not happy if I mention it, and she feels bad too. Now neither of us has the energy to love each other, but I don't want to get divorced... What should I do?
The painful suffering can only be understood by those who have experienced it. And those who betrayed are still complacent, it doesn't matter! Especially for families with children, what he (she) wants is to threaten them with children, because the other party is reluctant to break up the family anyway! Can't separate, can't be together anymore. This is the most broken couple. If it's just the two of us, of course it's better to separate. Only if we separate will the pain not last too long. You may feel distressed at the time, but time can dilute it. If there is a child in the family, what the book says is only for two people. So how should the baby be dealt with as the third person in the family? You are dispensable in his heart, and he doesn't care whether you are hurt, sad or not. If you have loved but been betrayed, deceived and fooled, it is best if you can convince yourself to let go. If you can't let go immediately, it means that you are heartbroken. ❤️I haven’t been hurt yet. As long as I have loved, there will be no reconciliation or separation. All the reconciliations and separations are just because there is not much love.
cheated on him once, let him go and forgive him, believe what he said, there will be no next time, and live a good life, but he cheated again when he had the chance, and the words he said before were used again, and the oath was used again, will such a person still be trusted? Let’s talk about your opinions. Don’t you have any opinions of your own? Betrayal is the bottom line of marriage. He has stepped on it several times. Do you think this kind of man is still worthy of your trust? What kind of woman is her fate? He doesn't believe it anymore. He still wants to enjoy the excitement of extramarital affairs. Family doesn't matter to him. How can a woman believe this kind of scumbag? You have to leave a way out for yourself the first time. Brother, go decisively the second time. You will stand up after a little hardship, otherwise there will be times in the future. You don’t have a heart and you can’t bear these blows.
