Introduction Many elderly people like to hire live-in nannies to take care of them, because they cannot avoid getting sick in their old age. Therefore, in order to make themselves feel more at ease, they can only ask a live-in nanny to come back 24 hours later, so that they do no

Introduction

Many elderly people like to hire live-in nannies, because they cannot avoid getting sick in their old age. Therefore, in order to make themselves feel more at ease, they can only ask a live-in nanny to come back 24 hours later, so that they do not have to worry about showing up, because No one knows, so hiring a live-in nanny is also a good option.

A 65-year-old aunt hired a 43-year-old man as a live-in nanny. After working as a nanny for two years, the young man said frankly: "The female employer respects me very much and treats me very well. I live a very happy life."

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43-year-old Mr. Qian

I am 43 years old, my surname is Qian. When I was 35 years old, I chose to be a nanny. I didn’t want to do it because I felt that being a nanny was embarrassing.

But thinking about my poor conditions and my wife running away again, I had to work as a nanny in order to support my family.

Before I became a nanny, I worked in a factory. At that time, my monthly salary was only 3,000, while my wife’s monthly salary was 6,000. My wife was a civil servant, so her salary was relatively high. After marrying her, the salary was reduced. It put a lot of pressure on me.

But I didn’t expect that she would choose to divorce me and run away with someone else. When I think about this, I feel very sad because I don’t know what I did wrong. Except that my family is a little poor, everything else is good, and I do it every day. I dote on her like a princess and never let her suffer any injustice. After she comes back from work, I will also care about her and greet her. After all, I have paid a lot for this family and earned money to support the family, so I don’t Maybe he won't cherish her.

After living for a long time, she felt that I had no ability and could not bring her a good life. Although she already had a stable job, she did not want to work so hard. She also wanted to be more relaxed, but my conditions It's too bad, I can't make any money at all, so I can only support the family. Because of this, she becomes more and more disgusted with me. She always feels that I am worthless. I am already married and need a woman to support the family, so she looks down on me. , so she was special and gradually became more and more indifferent to me. Coupled with the instigation of her colleagues, she finally chose to betray me and ran away with her colleagues.

Her male colleague’s family is very rich, and he is also the leader of their company, so she particularly admires her male colleague and feels that her male colleague is very capable. Later, the two of them got close. After they were together for a while, , my wife filed for divorce, because she didn’t want to continue living with me, and she didn’t want to earn money to support the family. He felt that he should find a man who loved her and wanted to earn money to support herself, so that her life would be perfect.

I didn’t blame her at that time. Although I was very angry and sad, but thinking that I was a person with no future, I didn’t dare to complain. After all, it was me who had no ability and failed to bring a good life to others. So no one else would be able to accept it.

After the divorce, she immediately married her male colleague. I heard that she lived a happy life after the marriage. I was relieved to see her living happily.

But since then, all the responsibility for the family's livelihood has fallen on me, and my salary of 3,000 yuan is simply not enough to support two children. In order to earn more money, I do several jobs a day. But even so, I still can't make much, and I'm very tired.

Later, I really had no choice, so I chose to be a nanny for others. Although I was only in my thirties at that time, and I shouldn’t do such a job in my thirties, otherwise I would only be laughed at by others, but I I can’t take care of that much anymore. If I don’t think of ways to make money, my children will starve to death. So in order to prevent my children from starving to death, I have to put down my body and do this job.

And there is nothing bad about this job. Not only is the salary high, but food and accommodation are also included. As long as you keep doing it, you can earn a lot of money.

What I didn't expect was that after I became a nanny, I realized that the job of nanny was not that easy to do at all. Not only was I wronged, but it was also extremely hard.

I met a bad employer and silently endured his bad temper, so this job was really frustrating, but the salary was very high, and I could get several thousand a month, so in order to make money, I could only Accept it silently. I later worked in

for many years, and over the years, I took care of many employers, some young and some old, and these employers were good and bad, but I never took the initiative to resign, even if they were again No matter how difficult it is to serve, I will not resign.

Why I can persist is because I feel that the job of nanny is not easy to do. After doing it, you have to endure the grievances in order to make money, so I will never choose to resign just because I feel a little grievances. , Not only will I not be able to make money, but it will also make me less and less patient. In order to prevent myself from becoming that kind of person, I will persevere no matter how hard or tiring it is.

But fortunately, I later met an employer who was very good to me. She treated me well and respected me. After serving so many employers, I found that she was the best to serve me, because only she would give me dignity. , so I am very satisfied with this employer.

Although she is a woman, she is really good at life, so I like to serve her. Now I have been serving her for two years. Since serving her, I don’t want to change to another employer because of serving her. , my life has become better and I live happily every day.

The employer’s name is Aunt Chen. She is only over sixty years old. She hired a nanny because she was too lonely to live alone, so she could only hire a live-in nanny to stay with her, so that she would not have to worry when she got sick. no one knows.

When I served her at her home, she never treated me as an outsider. She usually took me with her when she went to parties. After meeting her friends, she never told anyone that I was her. nanny, because she didn’t want me to be laughed at by others, so she was very considerate of my feelings.

She also doesn’t arrange work for me randomly. As long as I finish my work, the rest of the time is mine. Working at her house is not only easy and free, but the salary is also very high. I used to serve I have never enjoyed such treatment with other employers, so this employer is really good.

To be honest, if she hadn't been too old, I might have pursued her, but thinking that she was too old, we weren't suitable, so I always treated her like a sister.

When my children come here to play during the holidays, she doesn’t mind. Instead, she frees up two rooms for my children to live in. I am very grateful for her pass card. I usually take care of her in every possible way and try not to Let her down.

Now I plan to serve her until she is a hundred years old or doesn’t need me anymore. Because she is so easy to get along with, I am not willing to resign at all, so I want to wait until she doesn’t need me. In this way, not only can I I can make money and live happily, because only she can make me live such a happy life, so I am very grateful to meet her in my life. If I hadn’t met her, I might still be wronged now, so this The employer is really nice.

Conclusion

Only when people compare their feelings can they get the sincerity of others, so no matter who you are, you must treat others well, so that you can get rewards from others and live a happy life.