In life, we often hear news about breakups.
For example, a famous person broke up, or someone close to him broke up.
Relationships seem to be like this. Even if they were once very vigorous, the relationship between each other was particularly good, they said a lot of love words, and promised each other many times, one day, they may still not be able to go on anymore.
may not want to continue, maybe one of them does not want to continue, and the other party can only be forced to accept it.
No matter what, when we love each other deeply and like each other so much, of course they will not end without any reason. It is not easy to meet someone you like, and making such a decision is inevitable after all. reason.
No one will give up someone they love easily, and no one will end a relationship casually.
Generally speaking, every couple's experiences may not be the same, but the reasons for breaking up are generally the same.
is so hard that I don’t even love it anymore.
Getting along between people, no matter what the relationship is, is actually not easy.
Especially between men and women, when they spend most of their time together, experience many things together, and face many things together, they are bound to encounter many problems and conflicts in the process.
There are always times when neither of us understands the other that well, and both feel that the other is unreasonable.
also always has too many problems, and each other is simply unable to solve them, and they will only accumulate them little by little.
But when the problems pile up, the love at the beginning will really slowly disappear, and both parties will feel very tired and painful, and they will feel that the other person does not seem to be so suitable for them, and is not the right person.
Once you have this idea, you will be disappointed more often and resent the other person more. Gradually, you will really no longer have any feelings for each other, and you will start to feel that you are over with the other person, and maybe you will become more affectionate. good.
In the adult world, feelings never grow silently, but are constantly consumed, especially when neither of them knows how to love each other and how to manage the relationship, the love will disappear very quickly.
As the relationship disappears, they just see each other's shortcomings and no longer love each other. Then of course they will not be willing to waste time with each other, and will only want to end it as soon as possible so that they can start over early.
has a new love, so he leaves.
In this world, there are always many temptations.
Although it is said that after choosing a person, you should remain loyal and stop paying attention to people outside. However, many people simply cannot do this. Even if there is someone around them, they still have their own thoughts and always look for them. Looking for other excitement and possibilities.
Maybe some people just want to have fun and will not give up on the person in front of them, but there are other people, once they meet someone with better conditions and whom they like more, they will ignore it and directly abandon their other person. Half of them just want to have other fate.
will feel that that person is better and what he wants, and then he will break up without any hesitation.
doesn't care about the other person's efforts at all, nor does he care about the other person's reluctance, but is extremely ruthless.
In this situation, one person is determined to leave. Even if the other person is reluctant and wants to stay, hoping that the other person will not leave and continue to be with him or her will only be of no avail.
Of course, when you meet someone who is unfaithful to you, a relatively sober person will not keep trying to keep you, but will only choose to make it happen, because you know that forcing him to stay does not make any sense. Since the other person has already made a decision, there is Others don’t want to occupy that position anymore.
is also unwilling to hand over his life to someone who is not dedicated to him and does not know how to cherish his feelings at all.
After various considerations, I decided to let it go.
In the adult world, too many things are not so pure.
Even if it's love, even if you don't care about it at the beginning and think that as long as you like it, later on, you will still consider a lot, become more realistic, and want more than just that love.
will care about the other person's conditions, whether they are comparable to his own, whether he can help him in the future or whether he will be a drag on him, and whether his parents agree and whether they can bless this relationship.
will also start to consider whether each other's life plans are on the same page and whether the other party can keep up with him.
Any slight disturbance will often affect your decision and the direction of this relationship.
Under various trade-offs, whether he feels that the other person’s job is not good, whether he feels that the other person’s family background is not good, whether he feels that he will not receive the blessings of his parents, whether he feels that he cannot see a future in the other person, he feels that the other person has a poor future. Whether it drags you down or not, you will want to give up.
Everyone envies that kind of special pure love. There is no reason. Once you love, you will be very determined and want to go all the way to the end. But after all, that kind of love is hard to come by and it is not so easy to meet.
Too many people are just ordinary people who want to have an easier life and hope that the other party can be better in all aspects.
Therefore, if one day you feel that the other person has no way to fulfill you, it will only delay you, and you will think about it again and again. Even if you still have feelings, you will still not look back and run towards your own future.
The main reasons for breaking up are poor management, having someone else, or simply crossing out the other person from the future after weighing the situation.
Regarding breakup, to outsiders, sometimes it seems to be just a trivial matter and not serious, but to the person involved, it is really a relatively big matter. They all find it quite painful and cannot continue.
Actually, it is not a big deal when two people fall in love and break up in the end, it is just a normal thing.
Everyone can make their own decisions and choose their own future life.
It's just that it's okay to break up, but it's best not to hurt the other person or go too far.
After all, we are in love, so why not just get together and part ways, and be more respectable to each other.
just think of it as leaving a good impression on the other party and giving each other a less embarrassing ending.
text/Tan Meng
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