A person's mental state and living status can often reflect the kind of intimate relationship she is in.
When a woman enjoys beautiful love, the world in her eyes is colorful. Without the nourishment of love, a woman's eyes are dim and her heart is riddled with holes.
Loneliness is normal for everyone, but there are always some differences between a woman who has a partner and a woman who has been single for a long time.
Generally speaking, if a woman is single for a long time, she will have these three obvious signs, and most of them are unmistakable.
Emotions fluctuate greatly, either calm or hysterical
Women who are in the emotional window period have usually had their hearts closed for a long time, and it is difficult for them to open up to others and talk happily;
On the surface, they are always the same. With a calm demeanor, it is difficult for them to express their sadness and loneliness to outsiders, so whether in interpersonal interactions or in daily life, they are always able to control their emotions and behave calmly;
It can be seen that a person's ordinary external performance is not enough to explain the problem. In social situations, people will inevitably hide their true emotions in order to maintain their dignity and identity;
only when they encounter difficult problems and encounter emotional traumatic experiences, Only women can take off their "mask" and reveal vulnerability and uneasiness;
because a person has persisted for too long and is too helpless, he will become hysterical and leave people around him confused.
Often, the stronger the polarized emotional expression of a woman and the greater the emotional fluctuations, the greater the lack of love;
Because women who receive a lot of love, their inner order is not destroyed, they do not feel lonely, and they are always in a peaceful mood. It’s not that the weather is uncertain.
They have a resolute personality and do things neatly.
Children without an umbrella have to run hard. Women without a lover often have a resolute personality.
In the workplace, they do things neatly and even speak their mind. They are not easily persuaded and difficult to back down. ;
The impression given to people is that they lack the gentleness and weakness of women, and are more like being made of "golden iron bones", and they feel a little cold or strong;
Only when you get to know more deeply will you understand that their resolute appearance is their protective color;
As a woman, it is not easy for a person to withstand the burdens and tests of life alone. People in society basically serve others. If women make outsiders think they are weak and can be bullied, then their lives will suffer. Crisis;
Only by shaping their image to be strong and resolute, smart and decisive in doing things, can women avoid being bullied at will, keep their lives on the right track, and avoid suffering losses and deception.
There is always a sense of distance when interacting with others.
Women who have been single for a long time usually have one characteristic, that is, they neither take the initiative to show favor to the opposite sex they like, nor rashly accept the pursuit of other men;
Even if they long for love in their hearts, they will not They will enter a relationship hastily;
In daily interactions, these women always maintain a sense of propriety in dealing with others. They treat others politely and know how to keep boundaries;
Doing this is a plus in ordinary interpersonal interactions. Yes, because they are not familiar with each other and go beyond the rules, so as not to get too close, ask too many questions, and become annoying;
But in an intimate relationship, there is a sense of distance, but it is a demerit;
Women do not expose their inner needs , do not show their emotional world, no matter they are normally happy or angry, they try their best to restrain and suppress it, and their rigidity will give people a very boring and confusing feeling;
their slight sense of alienation is very It is difficult for others to get into their hearts. Even though at first glance they appear to be intellectual, reserved, and quiet, it is difficult for them to have a sense of existence and for men to connect with them and find topics to talk about.
Feelings are mutual. Just imagine if the roles are reversed, women will find that they will not easily fall in love with men who are too rational and rigid, but will be attracted to men who are energetic and emotional.
It is said in the movie "Heartbeat":
There are thousands of kinds of people in the world. Don't look for them in floating clouds. They are like rainbows. When you meet them, you will know they are there.
Women are a beautiful and indispensable landscape in the world, so please show your charm generously and confidently;
Don't be demanding about feelings, but you don't treat your own affection lightly either. Only by pursuing love bravely can you get love.
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