It is understood that extramarital affairs in families: No one can understand the heartbreaking pain without personal experience.
netizen shared that no one can understand the heartbreaking pain without personal experience. Some people say that you should let go after being betrayed, but in terms of emotions, how many people can afford it and let it go? How could a relationship of decades be broken off so easily? Because I can't let go, I feel so painful and resentful. // @ Heyou Nai bE: Me too, it’s too painful... I don’t know what to do, I can’t see the light, and I don’t dare to think about the future.
I chose to forgive and accept. I crushed it into my eyes and swallowed it in my stomach. I hoped that she would truly realize her mistakes and understand my pain. It would not happen again. It was very painful and could not be forgotten. After 12 years of marriage, I always thought they were mutually supportive, but I didn’t expect it to happen! I don’t smoke, drink, or gamble, and my financial ability is pretty good. My main focus is on work and family. My relationship with my wife is also very stable. I go on dates with my wife twice a week and travel once a month! And a lovely son! She and her family's finances all depend on me! There is housekeeping around the house, and I spend a lot of time with my son! She also cheated on me and used my money to buy things for dates and gifts. We dated for 15 days in 3 months! Now I have all kinds of regrets and guilt, and shed tears all day long. I want a firm divorce, but she doesn’t agree, and now she begs me every day! what do I do? It's all your favor, it's too idle! Let her do the housework and take care of the children! This is already the case, she doesn't hesitate to be blessed, let her get clean and leave the house! Find another good woman! Otherwise this is unsolvable!
After being cheated on, I cheated many times to seek revenge. I still feel uncomfortable when I find out... Never try to forgive. Two words will cause pain for a lifetime! Those who can get divorced must get divorced! Every time I think about it, I feel like I've gone crazy, collapsed, and died. Only people with the same experience can understand that kind of heart-wrenching pain, and I will never forgive him for hurting me! ! ! Although the marriage is still going on. If you still want to continue the marriage, you can only force yourself not to think about it and let the man's compensation for you in reality be offset, which may be better. Of course, the premise is that the man returns completely.
I need to forgive my husband for cheating. Maybe it’s not just for the sake of the children. Maybe I’ve been used to living with him for more than ten years. Although it really hurts my heart, I really can’t bear to let him be with that woman. Isn’t this right? Are they torturing each other or are they just torturing themselves? I’ve been very anxious lately. Just like what the article said, my heart aches every time I have a flashback. I always want to understand the scenes and chat records when they were together. I know it’s useless but I can’t stop it. It’s really tiring to think about it by yourself.
I don’t know if I can really move on after I choose to forgive? My heart is already riddled with holes! I can no longer withstand the slightest storm! He is back, but I feel like I can no longer accept him! Although I chose to forgive, I still get very angry every time I think of those images in my mind! I don’t know how a good person became like this? He was so wonderful! People who want to get back together are usually not allowed by financial issues. If they are financially independent, why bother entangled with each other and torture each other? Letting others go is equivalent to letting yourself go, right?
My husband is chatting, and I feel like I can't accept it. I feel so tired. I want to get divorced from time to time. This is the first time I feel so tired living like this. My husband also chats. Go home on time every day and hand in your salary. Ben Liu old man. Likes to avoid my sight while texting. So painful. I also feel very tired and have thoughts of divorce from time to time, but he is a good son-in-law, brother-in-law and father. There is no way to escape.
