Author/Xiao Zhi Two days ago, I saw a boy complaining about how he had recently been on a blind date with a girl. He originally had a crush on the girl, so he had always been more active, but the chat between the two of them had reached a deadlock. He sent two screenshots, roughl

Author / Xiaozhi

Two days ago, I saw a boy complaining. He recently went on a blind date with a girl. He originally had a good impression of the girl, so he has always been more active, but the chat between the two people once fell into various situations. deadlock.

He sent two screenshots, roughly speaking 5 sentences by himself, one in the morning, one at noon and one in the evening. The girl didn’t reply to him at all.

He must have felt very frustrated, but at the same time he still asked without giving up: Does the girl look like this mean that she has no feelings for him at all?

I think he already understands the answer, but he still has some luck. In fact, when two people are not together in the early stage, many clues can be seen through chatting. You can't hide if you like someone, and you can't hide if you don't like someone. This kind of emotion sometimes cannot be controlled by a person at all, but is just one's own instinctive reaction.

Whether a woman is in love or not, you can send 3 words on WeChat to find out at a glance.

01. What are you doing?

Before, I saw a girl express her dissatisfaction. She said that the boys she met on a blind date asked her questions that were not nutritious. She didn't want to answer. The most common question asked by boys was: What are you doing?

Of course, the meaning expressed by this sentence is very simple and has no implicit meaning. It is a simple way of asking the other person what they are doing now.

If two people are on a blind date, or are pursuing love and marriage, is there anything wrong with this sentence? First of all, there is definitely no problem. Since there is nothing wrong with this question, the problem must lie elsewhere. The most common one is that girls don't like him.

In fact, it's not just that they don't like each other. After all, the two of them are not very familiar with each other at this time. It's definitely not normal for you to say how much you like each other. To be precise, should be some external things displayed by this boy, and nothing attracts girls.

So as a girl at this time, she definitely doesn’t want to get to know the other person.

At this time, the words asked by boys are easily criticized by girls. They may even think that the other person is controlling their lives, so they are even more dissatisfied, or they think that he is talking completely irrelevant nonsense and did not say anything. Point of view, I don’t want to go back.

On the other hand, if a girl is also interested in the other person, and the boy asks such a question, the girl will definitely answer happily, because the question itself is a good topic to expand, and at the same time, it can be thrown back and ask the other person what they are doing. There is quite a sense that each other is sharing their daily life.

This obviously has a very good effect on promoting mutual relations.

I even have a friend who used to dislike boys asking her what she was doing. Later she discovered that she actually didn’t like the person asking this question because her husband, the person she finally chose, initially I also like to ask her this way. She is very happy every time she sees his news, and she also interprets this as: He is caring about my life.

So, it is really clear whether you love it or not.

02. Have you eaten?

Regarding this question, to be honest, if you don’t like the other person, it is basically a question that will not be answered. Some people may still choose to reply out of politeness, but the reply Time tends to slow down, and the content of replies becomes particularly concise.

After all, if you don’t like it, you will subconsciously regard this issue as nonsense.

However, if you are intentional, this question can actually lead to many topics that you can continue to talk about, starting from whether to eat or not, to what you eat, to what you like to eat, what you don’t like to eat, etc., and you can even talk to each other for a long time. It will be all right.

To be honest, doesn’t understanding a person start from these small details? If you don’t like the other person, you will often refuse to disclose these things. The more you answer, the more irritated you will be. But if you really want to, you will take the initiative to show these things in front of the other person. At the same time, you will also want to know more about the other person’s daily life. As a habit, the more we chat, the more speculative we become.

In short, no matter what you talk about with people who like you, they will not think it is nonsense. For people who don’t like you, no matter how many topics you rack your brains to think about, you may not get a corresponding answer.

03. Have you slept?

Asking this question at night is really the easiest way to test a girl’s feelings.

Why? Because if a girl likes you in her heart, even if she is really going to sleep at this time, she will find a reason to chat with you. But if she has no intention, she will definitely follow your words and end the conversation as soon as possible.

So, if you chat with a girl for several days in a row, and the girl's sleeping time basically matches the time you asked this question, then obviously, it's not that you guessed it correctly, but that the girl doesn't want to chat with you at all.

People who don't like you will say that they are going to bed at seven or eight o'clock in the evening, but they still haven't woken up at ninety in the morning. People who like you will talk until late at night, but they still say that they have had insomnia recently and are not sleepy yet. You can continue chatting.

To sum up, if you think about it carefully, many times when two people first get to know each other, they always have endless things to talk about, and they don’t feel sleepy even if they talk until very late. To put it bluntly, the content of the conversation is never very high-level or profound, but it is still the same. Some insignificant words just make everything more meaningful because of the other person.

also said before that you absolutely cannot hide the emotion of liking it. Even if you try to hide it desperately, it will still come out quietly and show itself in various details of daily life. So, often there is no need to deceive yourself.

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