Text/Wan Hongyun Tu/Platform Free Genuine Pictures If a couple can live together for more than ten years, that means they can get by. If they couldn't get along, they would have gone their separate ways within a few years and lived their own lives. To put it bluntly, the fact tha

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If a couple can live for more than ten years, that means they can get by. If they couldn't get along, they would have gone their separate ways within a few years and lived their own lives.

To put it bluntly, the fact that lovers can persist together for more than ten years proves that they are indeed more affectionate than before. However, they cannot come together out of a sense of responsibility.

We have lived together for more than ten years, and we always fall into the following "three cold spots". This life is really bad. These are the three biggest taboos between couples.

Cold War

Zhou Xiaohong and Qin Gang have been married for more than ten years. Whenever they quarrel, they will have a cold war. They ignored each other for half an hour. When the children come back from school, they find their parents like this. They are used to it. Therefore, if there is anything, I will ask them separately instead of asking them both at the same time.

A cold war between husband and wife hurts the relationship the most. You ignore me and I ignore you, we are just two strangers living under the same roof. Treating each other as dispensable too many times, this kind of relationship between husband and wife is simply a decoration.

What’s serious is that there have been too many cold wars between the two parties, and both of them will look for emotional sustenance outside. Therefore, the relationship between the two parties will never return to its original state, just like a beautiful piece of porcelain that was broken and then glued back together.

After Zhou Xiaohong and Qin Gang took their children to college, they tacitly went through the divorce procedures and started a new family.

Therefore, if both sides are willing to live together, it is best not to join the cold war. If a cold war breaks out, someone must break the deadlock in order to save the relationship.

Cold Stove

Professor Zhu and Professor Tian have been married for three years, and the kitchen is as good as new and has not been touched. There is a visitor, please come to the hotel. Usually, eating in the school cafeteria saves money and trouble, and it tastes good.

Although both of them are top-notch educated people, well-educated, qualified, and educated, when they go home to eat, they either go to a hotel or order takeout, but something is still missing.

Later, after the two of them walked around the house a few times, they discovered that the atmosphere of human fireworks was missing. Therefore, the two people agreed that the kitchen must be lively, and Professor Zhu would be responsible for the first, third, and fifth late-night snacks; and Professor Tian would be responsible for the second, fourth, and sixth late-night snacks.

In this way, the home is really full of fireworks. So, half a year later, the two of them got a pair of twins, invited an aunt to their family, and their lives became even happier.

A psychologist once said that you should never "cold stove" at home. It was a place with the strongest fireworks in the world, and it was also the place where love

had a cold nature

He Qing and Shi Xiaodong separated after a quarrel. Once the two of them had a fight, they didn't speak for three to five days. Sometimes, it’s about seeing who can beat whom.

Shi Xiaodong drank too much outside once. After returning home, He Qing felt upset when he smelled such a strong smell of alcohol. He said that Shi Xiaodong didn’t care about women. He drank outside and the smell in the house was so bad that he just wanted to vomit.

When Shi Xiaogang heard this, he quickly apologized. He Qing slept in a separate bed with him because he couldn't smell the smell of alcohol. In this way, it lasted three days. On the fourth day, Shi Xiaogang ran to the next room to express his reconciliation to He Qing, and then asked for tenderness. He Qing suddenly pushed him to the ground.

Later, both people began to ignore each other. Later, they both cheated on each other and each had a lover.

It is said that when couples quarrel, they quarrel at the head of the bed and make up at the end of the bed. Therefore, between husband and wife, try not to show indifference because of trivial matters. This can easily cause emotions to go out to find sustenance, which is really not conducive to family harmony.

Hongyun summary:

Therefore, in marriage, we must learn to accept and reconcile the emotions of both parties, and accept each other, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be more harmonious and happy.

The above "three cold" conditions in marriage are a major blow to the relationship between husband and wife. If this happens for a long time, it will inevitably lead to the breakdown of the couple's relationship and reach a point where they cannot be saved. Therefore, think more and be cold less.