People who work to earn money have a sad side. And working at a relative's house is even more difficult to describe. In the last year of college, my father fell down one after another, and he fell down at home. Only then did I realize how heavy a man's shoulders are. My father wo

Everyone who earns money and works has a sad side.

And working at a relative’s house is even more difficult to describe.

In the last year of college, my father fell down one after another, and he fell down at home. Only then did I realize how heavy a man’s shoulders are.

My father worked with his brother-in-law, who was my uncle. My father used to farm and depend on the weather for food. He worked hard and could not make much money. As for my uncle, he was a contractor at the construction site. His business was getting bigger and there were more places to employ people, so he dragged his father and uncle to the construction site. He was thinking about how to work with relatives without mistreating his own people.

My father is a stubborn and "stupid" down-to-earth person. When he is responsible for collecting materials, he is meticulous and conscientious. Thinking that it is not easy for my uncle to start a business, he will not forget the "hard work" of his relatives if he succeeds in his career in the future.

I have been working for 20 years. I didn’t make a lot of money, but it supported me. As for me, I was a person with a good taste when I was young. I ate according to the season, and people in Tianjin also pay attention to food. People like us are described as "borrowing money to eat seafood, not knowing how to live." It's much worse when I put it on. Dabowen brand sneakers have always been my dream, but I have never worn them yet. A pair of shoes worth 23 yuan has become a hurdle that I can't get over. Now that I have the financial ability, it's not that bad anymore. To be precise, my dreams change with my experiences.

The heavy work at the construction site bent my father's back from exhaustion. The lumbar spine, thoracic spine, cervical spine, three vertebrae were narrowed in many places. As a result, the then 55-year-old father could no longer walk normally, and his hands and feet were numb, as if they were not his own limbs. And I still don’t know what my father’s illness means to the whole family. The game is still in my mind all day long, and it’s LOL!

Painful experiences always make people grow. It costs money to treat a disease, and it costs money to go to school. Money is really a good thing, and you really can’t live without it. Because it was not a fall at the construction site and the illness caused by it, my uncle did not care about it. He just paid off all the wages he had paid before. You will not be rich if you have a close relationship, and you will not be full if you look at your mouth. If there are difficulties, you have to fight them yourself.

I was ignorant, and with my father’s acquiescence, I dropped out of school and went to the construction site to replace him. When I first entered the society, I was at a loss, but I never looked back. Life on the construction site is like a big dye vat, and people are all colorful. Because they are relatives, most people are watching you do it. They will take a break when you take a break, and they will gossip with you. When my uncle saw it, he caught you alone and said that the others were selling favors, saying that the child was young and not sensible, and that the uncle's elder brother and uncle were short-lived. I felt aggrieved and didn't dare to talk back. I was afraid of losing my job, afraid of not being able to make money, afraid of not having money for medical treatment, and afraid that my father's illness would always be treated conservatively.

Only by experiencing darkness can we see the light. My uncle once told others that it is enough for my family to earn enough to eat and clothe themselves, but not to make a fortune. Is it okay for relatives to really not be able to see relatives? Or is it true that people can’t see others living better than themselves?

really lives up to the old saying, "Uncles and uncles are not relatives, and cow excrement and horse excrement are not dung."

expressed his feelings, to be continued!