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any sound is made of soul. It is a carrier to convey your inner thoughts to the other party. We can use this carrier to strengthen our own advantages and make up for the shortcomings in other aspects. . I think each of us has this experience. When someone you don’t know calls you for something, his voice, tone, and speaking speed will immediately leave a mark in your heart and draw a picture, and this picture The quality of a call all depends on the voice he delivers to you on the other end of the phone. We also have this experience. When you communicate with him on the phone many times, because you are not satisfied with his voice, and you "paint an unflattering picture" of him based on this voice, you end up meeting one day. , you are surprised, it turns out that you have wronged him, what a delicate and kind face this is, but the opportunity has been missed because you have previously rejected some of his requests and cannot make up for it.
We need you to be different as soon as you speak, because the control of sound can not be restricted by the outside world. It is invisible to the outside world, but your own feelings are tangible. For a master speaker, he will not encounter the dilemma of not being able to increase his vocabulary, nor will he encounter a situation where his imagination is broken. All that remains is to learn the skills of speaking and shape his own speaking style, that is, pay attention to his volume and pitch. changes and speed of speaking.
When a person becomes an adult, he or she has developed a certain way of speaking. For example, some people speak too loudly and are gesticulating; some people speak very fast and cannot pronounce words clearly; some people speak too slowly and are garbled. Long-winded; some people are very effeminate and annoying, etc. Generally speaking, the voice should be effortless and the words should be clear. We often see this situation. After one party finishes speaking, the other party will ask: "What, what did you just say? "This is often caused by unclear articulation, which will make the speaker feel very uncomfortable, and may not want to continue communicating with you because of this discomfort. On the other hand, if you speak too loudly, others will think you are quarreling. These family members may have become accustomed to it and won't care. Although outsiders are not used to your tone and way of speaking, they can't point it out due to human feelings. The result will only make the other party alienate you. Your tone of voice is really a human face. It can make you laugh or jump. The right tone is the lubricant between people. This also means that we must emphasize that different tones should be adjusted on different occasions. Changes in tones can highlight the key points you want to express.
