Introduction
The older the elderly get, the more lonely they will feel. If there is no one around to take care of you, you will have the idea of remarrying, find a suitable wife, and spend the rest of your life taking care of each other. When young people get married, they will pay attention to the match and the financial conditions of the other party. Similarly, when older people remarry, they will also consider the material conditions of the other party. But then again, although money is important, there are some things it cannot buy.
A 65-year-old man said frankly: I want to find a good-looking wife and give her 5,000 yuan a month, but she rejected me. What exactly is this matter about? Let's look down.
Narrator: Uncle Zhang/65 years old
My name is Zhang Dajun. I am 65 years old. I have a monthly pension of 8,000 yuan, a deposit of 3 million yuan, and a 160-square-meter house in my name. My son and daughter are already married and starting a business. They are working in the city and do not live with me.
Ten years ago, my wife passed away due to illness. My wife and I had a deep relationship. Over the years, I have not looked for a wife again. In the first few years, because I was very busy at work, I didn’t think about finding a wife. Later, I retired and had more free time. I missed the time with my wife more and more, and the loneliness in my heart became stronger and stronger. So, I had the idea of remarrying.
I came to a blind date conference and met a woman who was 10 years younger than me. My first impression of her was very good. She is a good-looking person. The key is that she is well maintained. She looks very young and does not look like her at all. People in their 50s. If it weren't for the age introduction in the information, it would be difficult for me to tell her true age.
Her name is Xiaohua, a very quiet woman. I sat down opposite her and started to praise her. I said she was very beautiful, with big eyes and very charming. Next, we got back to the point. I told her about my family situation, but she seemed calm.
So, I said to her again: "Don't worry, as long as you marry me, I will give you 5,000 yuan of pocket money every month, and I will also add your name to the real estate certificate." There are few small talk. But she nodded. I thought she agreed to date me, so I asked her when she would come with me to get the certificate.
Ke Xiaohua shook her head again. Then she said that 5,000 yuan was not enough for her. She has two sons, a daughter, and a mother-in-law in her 80s who is in poor health and needs to take medicine all year round. As soon as I heard what she said, I immediately felt sympathy for her. He comforted her and said, "Don't worry too much. Leave the tuition fees for your two sons to me. However, your mother-in-law cannot live in my house. After all, she is not your biological mother and has nothing to do with me. You can choose to visit often." She. "
At this time, Xiaohua lowered her head. But I really liked Xiaohua so much that I took a step back. "I'll hire a nanny or find a good nursing home for the old lady so that she can enjoy her old age. I'll go visit her with you." I thought I would impress Xiaohua, but she stood up and said to me categorically: " Sorry, I have to leave.”
I held Xiaohua’s hand and asked her if she had any other requests, just ask her. Who would have thought that she would actually say that I am a good person with a kind heart, but it is a pity that she has no feelings for me. She also suggested that when I go on a blind date in the future, even if I like the other person, I should not tell the truth, otherwise I will be taken advantage of by bad people.
I met the person I liked on my first blind date, but unfortunately it failed. I made her such a good offer, which is what many women dream of, but she turned out to be calm and calm. If I hadn’t dug into the details, I would probably She won't even tell me the truth. Xiaohua is really a good woman, not materialistic. Everyone said, should I continue to pursue her?
written at the end
Emotional matters are rare. If you meet that destined person, cherish it; if it is not consensual, there is no need to force it. When people reach old age, it is not easy to find a suitable and mutually agreeable wife. I think Uncle Zhang should not continue to pester. At this age, everything should be let nature take its course. The other party has clearly stated his attitude. No matter how much time and energy you spend, it will not help.If you really want to find a wife, then continue dating, and you will always find the right person.
What do you think? I am Bingxue. I like it and pay attention to it.
