What is the most important thing in a marriage?
I have been married for more than ten years, and I always thought that I had met my love. As a result, I opened my husband’s WeChat account this morning and realized that I was the biggest joke.
html On the afternoon of June 30, it rained heavily in Hangzhou. I sent a message to my husband at around 3 p.m. asking him to pick up the children from school. He replied saying that he was busy and needed to finish the work that day and asked me to pick him up. When he saw this message I felt quite relieved and I thought I was quite motivated, so after get off work I braved the heavy rain to pick up my children and came home soaked to the skin. After I got home, I didn't even have time to change my clothes and started cooking immediately, just thinking that my husband would be able to eat when he came back. I think that if we all work hard together, we can live a better life.As a result, I opened my husband's WeChat account this morning and found that there had been countless transfer records since the afternoon of June 30, all of which were transferred bills, with amounts ranging from several hundred.
I looked through the records carefully and found that this time period was not exactly the time when I asked him to pick up the children. When I asked him, he said he was playing mahjong, but he said he was working at the time, and it turned out that he had been at the mahjong table since 12 noon. , played all afternoon, and the storm was fierce, so we didn’t drive to pick up the children. We would rather let my mother and I ride a battery car back in the rain. I think there should be no place for us in his heart. If we had an accident on the road that day, I don’t think he would be sad inside.
He likes playing mahjong and gambling. Over the years, he has spent more than 100,000 on gambling. I have forgiven him several times for one reason or another. For the sake of my children, I always choose to give him a chance. Now I I think that every time I forgive others, they have not cherished it. All my efforts over the years have been fed to the dogs.
I don’t want to be a resentful woman. I am only in my thirties. I have the ability to support myself and my children, so there is no need to wrong myself and live so tiredly. After all, I have to live happily for decades to be worthy of myself. The one I am sorry for is my child. Although I choose to separate, although I cannot accept it, I hope that after a few years she will understand how difficult it is for me.
I just don’t know about this situation now. What should I prepare if I want a divorce? Is there any lawyer who can help me with this?
