Falling in love with someone comes from the initial impression. One look is enough to fall in love with someone, but it is not necessarily that easy to get along with them.
This is the so-called "it is easy to fall in love but difficult to get along with". Maybe you think that as long as you fall in love, you can be together. In fact, only those who are comfortable with each other can make it to the end.
Especially if you want a man to be truly obsessed with you, and you are the only one in his heart, that is very difficult and requires you to use some skills to do it.
Some women will only say that he has changed, but she has never thought that it is not that person who has changed, but that your relationship has changed in the ordinary day after day.
Therefore, if you want to avoid this situation, you still need to master some methods. If a woman wants a man to be "fascinated", she must be "hot and cold"!
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Be enthusiastic about feelings and let him feel your sincerity
We often say that you can't be too enthusiastic in relationships, otherwise he will feel that you can't do without him, and slowly he will cherish you less and less.
But in fact, this statement means that you should not be too enthusiastic about this person, and don't be too love-minded. Especially when the other person is very cold, you should not keep talking to him.
But you should be enthusiastic about a relationship. This is respect for the relationship, and it is also the best way to let the other person feel your sincerity. If you remain aloof, the other person will feel that you are not serious.
When should it be "hot" and when should it be "cold"? You also need to have a certain sense of proportion, instead of throwing out all your enthusiasm at once, which is useless.
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Be calm when dealing with men and don’t be carried away by love.
In a relationship, the most important thing is to be calm. After some women fall in love, they will always be carried away and think that as long as they have love, they will be enough. In the end, they often end up got hurt.
Just like the recently popular "Meng Hua Lu", Song Yinzhang is a girl with some love brains. After she was deceived the first time, she was deceived a second time. Although she finally woke up, she still couldn't avoid being hurt in her heart. .
If she could make a correct judgment when encountering a second relationship instead of following the other person anxiously, she would probably not be deceived again and end up no longer believing in love.
This also tells today’s girls not to be carried away by love, but to stay clear-headed and rational, and to be calm when dealing with men. Only by facing them calmly can you find out whether this person is sincere or not.
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A little indifference from time to time will actually make the relationship closer.
Another common mistake that women make is that they will throw out all their enthusiasm. She thinks that by doing so, she can get the other person's sincerity and make the other person love her more, but this is not the case. in this way.
If you make the other person feel cheap from the beginning, and you will always be by his side without even having to put in any effort on your own, then how can he want to cherish you?
Sometimes, a woman should learn to be indifferent, don't be too nice to him, and don't contact him all the time. Only by making him feel that you are sometimes near and sometimes far away, will he want to catch you, and your relationship will be closer.
And if you contact him every day and make him feel that you can't live without him, he will be hot and cold towards you and will not be sincere to you.
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Conclusion
No matter what you do, you need to pay attention to skills, especially in relationships, you need some small means to stabilize your relationship.
I believe that every woman hopes to meet a man who loves her all the time. It is not impossible to make a man obsessed with you, as long as you can master certain methods.
You have to learn to be enthusiastic when dealing with feelings and let him feel your sincerity. At the same time, you should also face feelings calmly and don't be carried away by love. Also, be indifferent to him and let him understand your feelings. importance.
When you do this "hot and cold", I believe you can firmly grasp his heart and make him obsessed with you. Relationships need to be managed, and these methods are the means of management. I hope every woman can Understand.
