Daniel Busy Marriage Emotion Case Series
Keywords: marriage, lover, tragedy
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There is a kind of affectionate man in this world, and he is affectionate to the point that many people cannot understand.
In a certain marriage case, there was such a man.
There is only a place for a woman in his heart, but that woman is no longer in this world. He did not forget the promise of love and rejected many women who wanted to get close to him.
Some people say that he is an infatuated good man who is worthy of his deceased wife. Some people say that he is just a scumbag who has been trying to redeem himself.
Some people say that he is deeply affectionate, while others say that he is unlucky...
If you were asked to judge based on the above paragraphs, would he prefer the former or the latter?
From a linear logic perspective, this issue is almost impossible to discuss. But psychology has a special logic, which is called the neutral principle of chaos.
Most likely, he prefers the latter. When it comes to emotional issues, he is likely to be the type of man who is unlucky.
In an ordinary world and an ordinary life, there are few things that come out of nowhere, and there are also few emotional logics that do not follow common sense.
In the secular world, it is difficult for a person's character to have polarized evaluations. If there is, the more controversies there are, the more complicated the plot behind it is.
This is the so-called salvation of the soul.
Some love is eternal because of regrets, and some people will understand the heaviness of love only if they miss it.
There are many debts in a marriage that cannot be remedied in a lifetime. All reparations are the redemption of the soul later, just like this man's marriage...
1. My wife is married for the second time, and her life is miserable
Let me tell you a brief story below The marriage case comes from the personal account of the man above.
Speaking of marriage, he regretted that he had let down the wife who loved him most. When it comes to love, he is filled with guilt, always feeling that he is in debt for the rest of his life...
This article is written as a marriage case, and the content is very profound for readers to experience for themselves.
will be told in this man’s tone. I will only describe it truthfully and make some adjustments to improve readability.
Now I have been wandering around with my children for 2 and a half years, and the place I miss the most is still the old place. It is the place where I was born and raised, the place that once gave me love, and the place that witnessed me giving birth to children.
That place is called my hometown, and it has been my lifelong concern. There were not only my parents and two brothers who were looking forward to my coming home soon, but also my wife, who had already been laid to rest.
To this day, the person I am most unforgettable and guilty of is always my wife...
My wife is a good woman. Although she is married for the second time, she is well-educated, hardworking and down-to-earth. No one has said anything bad about her since she married me.
It’s a pity that she had a hard life. She left me and my two children forever with regret at the age of only 34 years old.
I have never forgotten, and I dare not forget that fact. My wife’s death is entirely my fault.
I still remember that night we had another argument and my wife drank pesticide in front of me.
I sat on the sofa indifferently, watching her rolling on the floor calmly. It wasn't until she curled up and gasped for air, unable to move, that I realized that I had already burst into tears.
Her face turned "purple-white" color, and her eyes almost popped out.Maybe it was too painful, maybe it was a flashback, she said I hate you...
Those were her last words. After saying that, she stared at me like that, and soon stopped breathing in my arms.
I closed her eyes, and at that moment my mind was completely empty. I was willing to let her go, picked up the medicine bottle on the ground, closed my eyes and drank the remaining half of the bottle...
Later I lived, but my wife left forever.
Since then, living has become a pain. If it were not for the sake of my children, I would try again to find her there and continue to love her there.
2. Some debts will be kept in my heart forever
After my wife passed away, it became a lonely grave, standing alone in the wheat field.
It wasn’t until one night on the 53rd day of her burial that I mustered up the courage to quietly go to the grave and take a look at her. I burned a lot of paper for her and poured her a bottle of wine. I drank two bottles myself.
No one bothered us that night, and there were no relationship issues bothering us. I whispered a lot to her, but unfortunately she could no longer answer me or get up and quarrel with me.
I talked to myself until dawn. That night was my last farewell to her...
After bidding farewell to my wife, I took my two children and left for a foreign country. I have not been back home for more than 2 years, let alone seen my wife again. Only her family members visit her grave every year.
As her husband, I am very unqualified. Even our two children seem to have forgotten how their mother died...
I have been wandering outside for more than 2 years. The reason why I have not returned home is not because I don’t want to go home, but because I no longer have it. "Home". Since my wife left, all my dreams about life have been shattered.
Thinking back on those years, I have experienced too many emotional problems that I couldn't face, and I am still in pain today.
Everyone knows that life is short, and we have to look forward in life. Some things should not be taken too seriously. But some hurt in relationships lasts a long time. Even though I hid outside for 2 and a half years, I still haven’t forgotten those sad experiences.
There is no use escaping some things. All the debts are still hidden in my heart, and I will never forget them even in my lifetime.
After experiencing so much, I have gradually understood that it is time for me to go home at this moment. I want to see my elderly parents and my wife.
Those things are a long story, so I’ll start from the beginning. It can be regarded as confronting the past, and it can also be regarded as the final salvation of the soul...
3. Love is initially about "sexual attraction"
I have two brothers above me. Due to family difficulties, they are not married yet. I am the third eldest child in my family. Under normal circumstances, it is more difficult for me to find a wife than it is for my two older brothers.
If I hadn’t met my wife back then, if my wife hadn’t fallen in love with me, maybe I would have been a bachelor like my eldest brother and my second brother.
Thanks to the love of my wife, she gave me a family. Otherwise, I would not understand what marriage is, let alone have children of my own...
Fate cannot be explained, and love cannot be stopped when it comes.
That year I was delivering express delivery on the street, and by chance, I met and got to know my wife. At that time, my wife had just divorced her ex-husband. She liked to buy things and had several packages almost every day, but she never came to pick them up.
For the sake of delivery rate, I had to deliver it to her door in person. My time is precious and I dislike her very much. I never give her a good look.
With my personality, if she were a man, I would have lost my temper. But she is a woman, and even for the sake of her image as a man, I have to suppress some emotions.
Maybe I have been restraining, and she thought I was honest.
That day I knocked on the door, and she opened the door with red eyes, smelling of alcohol, as if she had just cried. I threw the package into her hands and turned to leave.
She stopped me and thanked me for taking care of me during this period. I said you're welcome, and she said she was celebrating her birthday and drinking alone for the first time, so she asked me to have a few drinks with her.
When did a worker at the lowest level like me get so much attention from others?
Men's psychology is similar, and some feelings are only related to gender. Like a touch to my soul, her "thank you" made me feel like spring breeze.
That sentence resolved all my negative emotions towards her. I always thought she was very cold, but it turns out she is not cold at all.
I couldn’t resist, so I had a simple meal with her.
I was very reserved that day. I felt like we were from two different worlds and I didn’t know what to say. But she talked a lot, maybe because she was drunk, and sometimes she cried and sometimes laughed.
I gradually learned about her past, and it turned out that she had been divorced for half a year. Her husband cheated on her and had a child with someone else. She didn't want a divorce, but her husband beat her and abandoned her...
She had no defense against me and recounted those past events one by one without treating me as an outsider.
I was flattered, but when I couldn't help but want to hug her, she seemed to have sobered up. He clearly rejected me and cried loudly on the table.
She said: Don't get me wrong, I just want to find someone to talk to. You are very honest. On my birthday, I will tell you all the pain in my heart...
I am obviously full of blood, but I have to let go of my hand. From then on we became friends and although we chatted often, we always respected each other.
Is that love?
Yes, it started out from my lust, and the willingness to be with each other...
4. I only regret that I didn’t have my own opinion later
I won’t go into detail about the process of falling in love, falling in love because of knowing each other.
We chatted for half a year and got together. Then she became pregnant with my child, and we happily got married.
Since she is devoted to me and doesn’t even want a bride price, how can I not be satisfied?
Even if she is married for the second time, even if the bachelor buddies around me advise me not to marry a woman who is married for the second time, I still do not hesitate and swear to never let her down.
After getting married, with the support of my wife, I opened a small restaurant, and the business was getting better and better. After the eldest son was born, my wife didn't want to be idle and opened a small bakery next to the hotel.
The business of both stores is very good. Although it is very tiring to be busy, the more tired you are, the more fulfilling your life will be.
My parents take care of my children on weekdays, and we get together every weekend. Unknowingly, we upgraded from a family of three to a family of four, with a happy marriage and a harmonious family...
It was my wife who changed my destiny and my perception. With her help, I became prominent in just a few years and was considered successful in my family.
What should I say about certain things?
Even if the marriage is happy, the relationship between husband and wife will always become dull. I couldn't bear the loneliness and let down my wife's sincerity.
Yes, I was cheated.
That year, a woman came into my sight. She took the initiative to throw herself into my arms, and I couldn't help but have a little relationship with her.
I planned to say goodbye at dawn, but I never thought of loving her.But then she became pregnant with a child, and from then on she forced me to divorce every day and asked me to marry her...
We dated for more than a year, and until she became pregnant, my wife did not notice my infidelity. I hate myself for not looking back in time, and I hate myself even more for not having my own opinion.
When my wife found out, I couldn’t explain it. I hope my wife will give me some time, and I swear I will solve it. For the sake of my two children, my wife forgave me with tears.
But that woman was so aggressive that she even called my wife a second marriage and unworthy of me. She also fought with my wife several times.
My wife cries all day long, but I am obsessed with it and cannot bear to break up with her. I brought the blame on myself, and in the dilemma, I finally reaped the consequences...
5. It's too late to regret
Until she (my lover) gave birth to a child, our emotional entanglement was still unresolved. She came to my house many times with her child to make trouble, asking me for an explanation, and forcing me to divorce...
The reason why she is so aggressive is because I got used to it.
My wife was extremely disappointed with me and filed for divorce. She closed her bakery and moved out of her home with her two children. Fortunately, I still had some sense and didn't know who to choose until the last moment.
With the last glimmer of hope, I asked her (my lover) to take the child for identification, and she went confidently.
The result is so ironic, the child in her (lover) arms has nothing to do with me biologically. She was dumbfounded, and my heart became cold.
I was relieved to finally get rid of her. But because of that relationship, my marriage was already riddled with holes...
Later, after I begged again and again, my wife finally forgave me and took our two children back home with me.
After this ordeal, I know how to cherish my family. I thought life was back to normal and I would never be sad again.
But it didn’t take long for me to discover that during the time when the couple separated, my wife also cheated on her...
Although she refused to admit it, the content of her chat revealed her. In front of the evidence, the wife was speechless.
I asked her who that man was, but she refused to tell her until she died, so I beat her hard. No matter how much I beat or scolded her, she didn't say a word.
I really had no choice but to reluctantly forgive her for the sake of my two children. Forgiveness does not mean that peace has returned to the marriage, it just accumulates tragedy.
From then on, I began to hate my wife, and we had been arguing with her on and off for more than half a year. She said that I was endless and she even cried and apologized to me. She said she wanted to live a good life with me, and no one should mention the past again...
I know this, but I can't persuade myself.
Men care about different things than women, and emotional harm cannot be equated. Even if she forgives me, I can't really forgive her.
One night I drank too much and asked her again who that man was. She said if you want to live with it, leave it; if you don't want to live with it, leave it. I suddenly became furious and hit her again...
She said: You are really done, do you want to force me to death? I will die to apologize and leave the child to you.
I said: Then you will die and show me, a second-married woman, how can you have so many abilities...
I felt like I was possessed that night, or I felt like I was going crazy. I said a lot of heartless things, which broke my wife's heart.
were arguing and we were both like crazy, attacking each other. I thought she would jump out of the window and was always on guard against her, but I didn't expect that she drank the medicine.
She drank it in front of me and it was too late to stop her. I was so confused that I didn't wake up until she curled up and gasped for air.I picked up the bottle and wanted to follow her...
6. Is owed love still called love?
Later I lived, but from now on there was no one in the world who could quarrel with me.
When I came out of the hospital, my wife had already been buried. I was living like a year, and it wasn’t until 53 days later that I took the courage to see my wife. A lonely grave separated the two worlds. I whispered to her all night long, wondering if she could hear...
I slowly realized that the only meaning left for me in the rest of my life was raising children. I still love my wife, but unfortunately, is love with a debt still called love?
I once thought that I could start my life over in a place I was unfamiliar with.
But I can’t do it, and I can no longer find more meaning in life. I can only express my repentance and redeem my soul by rejecting others' offers again and again.
There are some things that I didn’t dare to face before. In the past two and a half years, my mind has been cleansed by time, and I have thought about it all...
This case has come to an end here. It was narrated by a man at the beginning of the year. He wanted to go home and be with his wife forever.
Later he took his children home. He told these few paragraphs a few days ago and sorted them out a little.
My whole family welcomed me home, and my brother said that I could find another wife based on my conditions. Although my brother meant well, I blushed with him for the first time in my life.
I will always only have a wife in my heart, and I will never look for her again. My parents prepared paper money and incense candles for me. I felt it was not enough and asked my children to run errands to buy cigarettes.
The child asked me: Mom has never smoked, she has been dead for so long, what cigarettes should I buy?
I said: In the last three days of your mother’s life, she smoked a total of 9 packs of cigarettes. In the dead of night, she often sat on the stairs crying and dazed. Maybe she had developed a habit in those days. She loves you very much, and she should live in your hearts...
This article ends here. This is a complex psychological case. Logically speaking, it is also possible to describe it as a marriage case.
Regarding this case, I don’t express too many opinions. Just state it truthfully, the article itself is the opinion.
Some people say that love is a matter of fate, and some people say that fate is a matter of love. In fact, fate is impermanent, but love is consensual and will last forever.
There are many similar marriage cases. There is always a reason for the most suffering in the world, and there are deep regrets hidden in the entanglement of love and hate.
Many people don’t understand until later that from the first moment you let down your marriage, you are accumulating regrets. Even if you look forward to the autumn water in the future, when the beauty is gone and your hair is gray, you will never be able to wait for that person again.
