Marriage is really important to women. A good marriage nourishes people and makes women rosy and healthy physically and mentally. A bad marriage is a kind of torture, exhausting all the expectations of women and making them live. In the dark.
Marriage is like a bet. No matter what the outcome is, you must learn to bear it, because no one will grow for you, and good and bad are all experiences.
Women have to survive on their own. If you put all your expectations on men, that is, put the initiative of destiny on others, most of them will fail.
You only live this time, so choose with your heart, and after choosing, you have to take responsibility, don't complain, don't give up, no matter what situation you are in, as long as you don't give up, flowers will bloom.
People's moods will change with their experiences. I used to think that there must be love, and regard feelings as the most important thing in life.
After experiencing some separation and some impermanence, I realized the importance of taking back my own sovereignty, and finally woke up and only wanted to live for myself.
When a woman reaches her fifties, she starts to stay away from her husband. There is no way to escape this reason.
After enough disappointment, despair
is born. Women always fantasize about having someone who can meet all their expectations and run the family wholeheartedly.
However, people who are sincere are easily let down, and people who keep giving are not easy to be understood, and resentment arises.
Men do not understand women's thoughts, and they tend to ignore women's needs during a long-term relationship, causing hidden conflicts and gaps between the two people.
It is true that not all men have a strong sense of family, and not all men are very careful. Most men are straight-line animals, and women are really hurt by this.
When a woman encounters a man who has no sense of family, she will accumulate enough disappointment until she has no hope in the man and becomes comfortable.
After despair comes new life. After fifty years of age, you are no longer so persistent. It’s not that you forget, but you don’t care. Why bother to get angry and argue with someone who can never understand you?
At the age when she knows her destiny, a woman starts to stay away from her husband, just because she forgets it, doesn't care about it, doesn't care, and feels relaxed.
No longer struggles with whether to love or not, but focuses on oneself.
When I was young, I always attached great importance to feelings. It was easy to rely on men, imagining that men would satisfy their needs and become what they wanted.
After half a lifetime of stalemate and mutual influence, the man is still unmoved, while the woman herself has suffered a lot of sulking, and her emotions have been dragged away.
The more you care, the easier it is to be restricted. Women spend all day struggling with whether to love or not, and when comparing themselves, they are actually not happy inside.
When a person is burdened with heavy ideological baggage, when he is over fifty years old, he suddenly understands it and decides to step away and focus on himself.
Children will grow up, leave you, and have their own lives. The other half's nature is easy to change but hard to change. In the first half of his life, the focus was always on the children and husband. Now he really wants to change his approach.
began to take a closer look at his face in the mirror and his figure, only to realize that he was so unfamiliar to him.
suddenly decided to be kind to himself and love himself. There is nothing more rare than inner peace. If you don't love yourself, it is useless to hold on to the people around you.
Returning to inner peace, I just want to live out my life.
The entanglement and uneasiness in the past, the resentment in the past, are always noisy. With the first half of my life, my heart is really overloaded and cannot bear it.
How long has it been since you took a good look at yourself? How long has it been since you got along well with yourself?
At the age when you know your destiny, you have to let go of some things. Nothing is more valuable than inner peace, just live your life.
The complicated emotions, excessive desires, and mixed comparisons in the past were all put aside. Once they were put away, my whole heart suddenly became relaxed.
At this time, women start to stay away from their husbands. This is just a change in their mood. They start to look inward and want to be peaceful. Every day life begins to be peaceful.
When you reach a certain age, you no longer yearn for excitement and want to stay away from the crowd. Even your significant other will not interfere too much, but respect your own space, leave a little independent space, be alone with yourself, reflect deeply, and be at peace. Have some leisure time.
Conclusion:
Women once wanted to put all their expectations on men, but they never expected to get only disappointment.
Women can only rely on themselves and dare to live out their own lives, and good luck will come to them. But in the past, they lived in a hazy state, with negative emotions and desires constantly rising. It can be said that they suffered a lot.
And when you reach a certain age, as your experience increases, you will suddenly become enlightened, and you will no longer be so persistent.
will not shirk his responsibilities, and dares to take back the control of his life, re-examine himself and his life. For the rest of his life, he just wants to live quietly and comfortably, and the opinions of the outside world are really unimportant.
html After 50 years of age, women stay away from their husbands just because their mood has changed. They no longer worry about whether they love or not, nor are they overly dependent. They just want to live by themselves and for themselves.
