Brothers and sisters have grown up together and know each other very well. There are many contacts in life, and it is inevitable that they will encounter polite exchanges with each other. As the old saying goes, "It is not polite to come back but not to reciprocate." ".
Giving gifts to each other is not a simple matter, and gifts also have their own rules.
1. When giving gifts to brothers and sisters from good families who are in poor family conditions, you should have a sincere attitude of helping each other.
Xiao Zhang has just worked for two years. His sister lives in the countryside. When Xiao Zhang was in college, her sister worked outside and often sent her money. Later, her sister got married and returned to the countryside.
My brother-in-law has been working outside for 20 years, and the family has earned some money. When his brother-in-law was 50 years old, he returned to the countryside to recuperate. Unexpectedly, he contracted cancer. Over the years, his sister had to rely on his sister for treatment and recuperation in the village alone. Supported by income and savings from factory work. The family's financial situation is getting worse and worse.
Sister Zhangās son, who is also Xiao Zhangās nephew, was admitted to college this year. Xiao Zhang did not go back to celebrate, but he sent 20,000 yuan, which was 50% of all his savings. The 20,000 yuan was used as A gift for my nephew to go to college.
What Xiao Zhang wanted to do was to support her sister financially through this way of giving gifts, and also to repay the kindness of her sister for sending her money when she was in college.
Although Xiao Zhang did not come to congratulate her, his way of helping his sister was more able to solve the problem.
2. Always be courteous and reciprocate, donāt be fussy, and understand that suffering is a blessing.
Donāt worry about the courtesy exchanges between you and your brothers and sisters. When you receive gifts from others, be more generous in return. This will make the relationship between the two people better and make others feel that they have a brother like you. Sisters are so nice.
3. If you encounter brothers and sisters who are too greedy, you can only interact less.
Wang Lao Er and Wang Lao Er are brothers. Wang Lao was smart and studious since he was a child. He was admitted to the 985 University and worked as an engineer in a factory after he came back. Boss Wang has become the apple of his parents' eyes, and the Wang family's parents have a strong preference for Boss Wang.
Wang Laoer is his younger brother. He has been naughty since he was a child. Because of his poor grades, he was not favored by his parents. After graduating from junior high school, his parents sent him to learn to cook.
After the two people entered the society, Boss Wang took an iron rice bowl and lived an ordinary life.
Wang Laoer is very smart and a skilled chef. When he was 26 years old, he started to open his own restaurant. The restaurant did very well and the business was extremely prosperous. He opened three of the best restaurants in the local area. At the age of 20, Years ago, he has become a famous local restaurant owner.
Wang Laoer also married an educated and virtuous wife. After he got rich, Wang Laoer invested in shops and apartments. Large-scale business hotels and restaurants have been opened.
Wang Lao Er is an ordinary working class man, while Wang Lao Er has become a big local boss.
When Mr. Wangās son got married, Mr. Wang, as his uncle, gave him a big red envelope of 28,800 yuan.
Mr. Wang and his wife thought that Mr. Wang was a big boss and his nephew should spend at least one hundred and two hundred thousand yuan to get married. They only gave him 20,000 yuan, which was like sending a beggar away.
Mr. Wang and his wife said these words everywhere among their relatives and friends.
This makes Wang Laoer and his wife very sad. Wang Laoer has relied on his own hard work all his life. He worked as an apprentice outside at the age of 18. He earned his own money and did not get the love and support of his parents.
Wang Laoer's wife said to Wang Laoer: If you want to have less troubles, you should have less contact in the future.
3. Between brothers and sisters, we must cherish the friendship where courtesy is more important than kindness.
Brothers and sisters occasionally go out or go on business trips to other places. Bring some small gifts to the children of brothers and sisters to express their care and concern for each other. This is to connect brothers and sisters. What a great way to camaraderie.
We should also follow the rules when we follow the etiquette. Only when we have rules can we make a circle. Do things according to the rules. Hello, me, everyone.
