In fact, it is inevitable that you will meet some bad people in life. Because they give you different pains, you will choose to hate someone for a long time.
Under what circumstances would you hate someone?
may have deceived you, may have cheated on you in a relationship, or may have made you suffer because of his betrayal, etc.
has various answers, but can your hatred make up for the mistakes he made? If you torture yourself just because of hatred, then such hatred is actually meaningless.
Hate someone, not to torture yourself, but to re-plan your life and use those humiliations to inspire your life to slowly get better.
When you are constantly improving and leaving him behind, then this is the best revenge.
When you are shining brightly, what do you do if you don’t have to do anything? He will naturally feel regret and remorse. This is the most rational revenge.
01, Wrong feelings, leave quickly
I once heard this sentence, I thought that when I met love, I met happiness, but in the end, I found that all the wind and rain in life were given by him.
Marriage is not the tomb of love, but the person around you has changed. He has no dedicated mind, so he is unable to manage emotional happiness.
Love is not a stable substance in the first place, and as time and people's hearts change, some emotions will change.
doesn't have a single-minded mind. When faced with some new things, he always gets involved, which eventually leads to cheating.
People often say that there are only zero and countless cheating times. Facing a cheating lover, if you blindly give in, they will come in.
When faced with a lover's change of heart, in fact, the best counterattack is not to tie him up or trap him, but to leave quickly. Only if you continue to grow can you make the other person regret it.
02, Strengthening yourself is the best counterattack
In interpersonal relationships, you can never satisfy everyone. No matter how good you are, there will always be people who hate you.
If a villain stumbles you and you insist on pursuing it, you will not get the benefit. Only by continuous growth can you seize the initiative.
Don't associate with villains. Villains have their own enemies and time is limited. Instead of wasting time complaining about someone, it is better to use your time to improve yourself. When your abilities increase, the other person will naturally not be as arrogant as before.
Why you and I work so hard is to escape from things and people we don’t like. Only by running as hard as we can can our lives be happier.
Learn to be a smart person, reconcile with life, and don't let those bad emotions affect you all the time. When facing those things and people that make you painful, you must learn to let go, and don't let them torture your spirit.
Hate someone, you don't necessarily have to keep it in your heart and mouth. When you continue to work hard to live a better life, this is the most powerful counterattack. The author of
, Ranxia Yingzi, is a freelance writer born in 1995. He focuses on self-media operations, writing and sentiment analysis. He achieves financial independence through writing. Welcome to pay attention and consult.
