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1. People with the characteristics of " Sherlock " get information
His ability is very strong, information is everything, and he can guide his next actions by mastering all the details.
People with high emotional intelligence can often infer valuable information from other people's body movements, words, and environment.
2. "Pretending to be confused"
Don't think he doesn't know a lot of things. It's just that he deliberately doesn't say it out loud. His emotions and anger are invisible. He can see through the thoughts of everyone present. He knows everything very well. This kind of person has extremely high emotional intelligence and is very deep.
3. On the surface, you get along with everyone, but in fact, you have already identified your own circle.
Who is a friend, who is a close friend who can be deeply friends, who is an acquaintance, and who should be kept away from. Make a clear distinction and do not trust others easily. Mouth does not run the train.
4. They are all very efficient.
This is not because people with high emotional intelligence work hard, but because they know how to use "skillful energy".
Don’t do anything in areas that you are not good at. You will certainly not be pushy and will be good at asking others for help. There is also a psychological trick here. If you want others to like you, your approach is not to help others, but to ask them to do a small favor.
5. Steadiness from the inside out
Ordinary people will complain, feel sorry for themselves and worry unfoundedly. People with high emotional intelligence will not panic even if they encounter major problems at work, but will look for solutions as soon as possible. This is the calmness after taking precautions.
6. Have a backup plan when doing things.
With plan b, you will never have no way out when doing things. You will always have a backup plan for yourself and always be prepared for danger in times of peace.
7. In social interactions, there are two types of people with high emotional intelligence:
One is a person who doesn’t like to talk and is always silent, and the other is a person who makes you feel comfortable when you get along with him without any pressure.
Most people will naturally regard them as introverts and extroverts, but they all have a common characteristic, which is to grasp human nature. People who are reticent are not socially afraid, but are accustomed to observing in silence, which makes you feel A comfortable person is just that his emotional intelligence is higher than yours, and he is downward compatible.
8. Maximizing the use of resources
is just like Ning Yi in the TV series " Son-in-law ". He can make comprehensive use of the knowledge and resources he has learned to make the business prosperous, and he can also fight wits and courage with the bad guys. The point of high emotional intelligence is not ability, but the utilization of resources.
9. Always full of curiosity
Such people are not necessarily smart people, but smart people must be curious. This characteristic of
will make a person always on the road of exploration and absorb new knowledge. Only with the input of this information can more powerful goals be achieved.
10. Good at using rules and favors
A smart person knows that 1+1>2, personal ability is far inferior to collective cooperation. He will not change the existing rules casually, but will use the rules to maximize his own interests within the established framework. .
Maximizing interests is not a derogatory term. In fact, each of us wants to live a better life for ourselves. It is a sign of maturity to use all resources to help ourselves get better without harming the interests of others.
11. Have an advanced understanding of things
Maybe we have to think about things for several days before we understand them, because smart people will not only look at the present, but look to the future.
Of course, cognition comes from constant input and output. Smart people will take time to read and study in their spare time to increase their knowledge reserves. Just like the students who study in super-vocational education, they constantly input new knowledge and deepen their understanding of it. Psychological understanding, constantly exploring the boundaries of self.
Those who take one second to see through the essence of the world are destined to have an extraordinary life!
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