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Introduction:
A 70-year-old man hired a nanny, which cost him 8,000 yuan a month. When his son found out, he yelled: You are too selfish. What happened? Let's take a look.
Uncle Ji, 70 years old
I have a son and a daughter. My daughter is very filial to me. My son is not as good as my daughter. Because my son is playful, he did not learn well when he was young and often interacted with some unscrupulous people. They got mixed up and were even arrested and taken to the police station once. My son only got married when he was 38 years old. Because his son had a criminal record, many people were afraid to introduce him to a partner.
Later, because my daughter-in-law’s brother needed money for medical treatment, we gave her a gift of 100,000 yuan, and then my daughter-in-law was willing to marry him. After my son got married, he often quarreled with his daughter-in-law over trivial matters. The relationship between the two couples was not good, and it was not easy for me to get involved in their affairs. I had to let them handle it themselves, and I lived with my wife.
But when I was 65 years old, my wife passed away due to illness, and I had no savings at this time. I was thinking about moving to my son's house and letting him support me in my old age. I had already made plans. However, I didn't expect that my son wouldn't want me to move there. He found many reasons, but he just didn't want to live with me.
I was very disappointed with what my son did. After my daughter found out about this, she came back from leave and told her brother a lesson. However, no matter what my son said, he was still unwilling to let me move here. My daughter told me that she would give me 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses. Now she has made some money by opening a company. This moved me very much and I felt that my daughter was the best for me.
When I was 68 years old, my hometown was fortunate enough to be spotted by a real estate developer, and they were compensated 2 million in cash for demolition. I felt that my future pension money was secured, but before the demolition money had arrived, my son came over to say good things to me. He said: I am getting old and my health is not good enough. If you ask me to move in with him, he will do it. Be filial to me.
Although I am old, I am not confused. I know that my son is thinking about the demolition money, but now this attitude has changed completely. The demolition money was at my disposal, so I gave 500,000 yuan to my son, 500,000 yuan to my daughter, and kept 1 million yuan for my future retirement.
My son was not happy when he received 500,000 yuan. He quarreled with me, saying that I gave him too little. Even his sister could get 500,000 yuan. As a son, he should get more than his sister. I was very angry after hearing this. Over the years, my daughter has been filial to me and sincerely been kind to me. I felt that my son was just a white-eyed wolf.
I thought that I would not be able to rely on myself to take care of myself in the future, so starting from last year, I paid for a nanny. I didn’t want my son to know, so I only told my daughter about hiring a nanny. My daughter also helped find the nanny. Her monthly salary was 6,000 yuan, plus 2,000 yuan for groceries, the monthly expenses were 8,000 yuan.
I have done the math myself. My 1 million savings is enough to hire a nanny. After I hired a nanny, I live a very comfortable life. I can eat delicious meals every day. The environment at home is clean and tidy. I feel like spending money It’s worth hiring a nanny. However, later my son found out about my hiring a nanny, and he came to scold me, which made me very angry.
My son said: "You would rather spend 8,000 yuan a month on a nanny than live in my house. You are so selfish!" I said: "This is my own money. You don't have to worry about what I use it for." , I can get good care by hiring a nanny. If you are not filial to me, I will not dare to live in your house. I have to worry about my savings every day. "
I know my son, and I want to move to his house when I have no money. He didn't want to live there, no matter what I said. Now that I have money, he asked me to move there again. I knew that his intentions were not pure and he just wanted to save my 1 million yuan deposit.
Although I am old, my brain is not confused at all. I have lived a very comfortable life after hiring a nanny. My daughter also supports me. I think this is the right thing to do. Since I can’t rely on my son to support me in old age, then I will use myself. way to live the life you want in your later years.
