Introduction: When people get old, the most important thing to keep in a happy mood is good health. With health, everything will be fine. You don’t have to worry about your children. You can take care of yourself, live happily and comfortably.

Introduction:

As people get older, the most important thing to keep a happy mood is their health. With health, everything will be fine. You don’t have to worry about your children. You can take care of yourself, live happily and comfortably.

It is impossible for the elderly to be healthy every day and never get sick. The older they get, the worse their physical condition becomes. However, no matter what the circumstances, there are three things that must be protected. This is your last confidence and your last dignity, 82 The 20-year-old Uncle Wu spoke his mind.

1. Don’t hand over the house you live in easily

I have two children, one boy and one girl. They are very filial to me. They call and care about me almost every day. I feel very relieved. I believe that my son and daughter are filial. mine.

However, everyone has selfish motives. They also have children, and they have to think about their children and want to provide the best living conditions for their children.

The house I live in has 120 square meters of children. My son has been home very frequently in the past two years. He cares about me, is filial to me, and persuades me to live with them in retirement.

said that I should simply sell my house, and then buy a bigger house, be filial to me, and enjoy family happiness together as a family.

I'm used to it in my hometown. I won't go out and live with my son thousands of miles away. If I don't have a house, I have to live by other people's eyes.

In fact, I know his thoughts very well. I have seen too many sweet-talking children coaxing the elderly to sell their houses and live with their children. Their end was not good.

There is no regret. Without a house, there is no confidence. They have to obey their children in everything, and they have lost their dignity. They live with their children. As they get older, they are like a ball, being kicked here and there. The old man suffered a lot and his life in his later years was miserable.

I made it clear to them in front of my daughter and son that the house will not be handed over to them before I die. They will inherit it only after I die. Don’t even think about it before I die.

2. Don’t hand over your salary and savings to your children easily.

My health has not been very good in the past two years. I was hospitalized twice in two years. During the hospitalization, my children took care of me. I am very grateful to them. of filial piety.

I will not let them take care of me in vain, I will compensate them, although my son and daughter did not clearly tell me that they need money.

From their conversation, I know that their life is indeed not easy. My grandson is getting married soon and wants to buy a house. Although I have savings, it will belong to them sooner or later. Of course I can get two to three hundred thousand in one go. .

I must prevent unexpected situations. If I get sick and need 200,000 to 300,000 yuan for treatment, will they pay for it? I'm skeptical.

Having money in hand is the only confidence. If I hand over my savings to my children out of kindness and kindness, will they save me if there is an emergency one day? Although I believed them and would not refuse to save me, it was difficult and powerless for him to spend a lot of money to save me. Therefore, I clearly told them that I had a deposit of 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, but I could not give it to them now. I will give it to them when I die in the future.

If it is needed urgently, I can give them 100,000 to 80,000 yuan for emergency help. If I are asked to take it all out and let them keep it, I will not agree.

Although my son and daughter often say that I am afraid that if I forget my password when I get older, I will be in trouble if the bank cannot withdraw money.

I told them not to worry, my last words were clearly written, the password and deposit, I would only let them know when I die, and when I die, there is a key that can open one of my secret drawers and they can get it Everything they need.

3. Don’t leave your dignity and voice to your children.

People live a lifetime and have their own views and opinions. They have their own principles. They can decide what kind of lifestyle they like and how to provide for themselves in old age.

You should not leave everything to your children. A friend of mine used to leave everything to his children and let them arrange his life.

The house is given to the children, the pension and savings are given to the children, and all dignity and confidence are gone. Later, the children secretly sent him to a nursing home, and no one wanted to care about him, because he was no longer valuable and turned into a trouble and burden.

He was regretful and cried every day in the nursing home. I visited him several times and he passed away within a year. It was really pitiful. It was the good deeds of his filial children and he believed too much in their filial piety. , gave everything he had to his children, only to be rejected in the end.

The children always said that they had no time to take care of him and no money to hire a nanny, so he had no value and became a piece of garbage.

Therefore, if possible, the elderly should not live with their children and interfere with their lives. They should not trouble their children if they can do it themselves.

Some children, when they see the old man's money, try to take it for themselves, pretending to be filial, but really gnawing at the old man. The naive old man believes in the promise of his children, and it will be too late to regret it. When the old man is clear-headed, he The right to speak cannot be given up.

Summary:

Every old man wants to enjoy the happiness in his old age. Our happiness is not a gift from others, but something we strive for ourselves. When we are old, we must not only keep a happy mood, but also have three things: house, savings and the right to speak. , you must keep it in your own hands and don’t hand it over easily.

When you are old, don’t be confused or make big mistakes. Treat your wife and the people around you well. Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. No matter how filial your children are, if they are not by your side, they are powerless and do not know your daily life. condition.

If you are in good health but your wife is gone and you want to live alone, you can hire a nanny to take care of you. The home must be monitored so that your children can know their condition at any time. If you are really in bad health and cannot take care of yourself, you should go to a nursing home. No matter what Whether you want it or not, this is your final destination, so just accept it calmly.

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