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If you find that your wife is trying to do both things. Will you choose divorce? I believe that 80 to 90 percent of men will choose divorce. After all, these are things that men cannot accept. But there is a man who does not want a divorce. This man feels that he did the right thing and is now very happy. What is going on?
When faced with this problem, would you choose divorce? Of course I don't want everyone to face this problem. Think about it, what would you do if it were you? Don't you want a divorce? Or divorce? Let's take a look at what this man said. 42-year-old man: I know my wife is in two different situations, but I still won’t divorce her, and now I’m very happy.
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42-year-old Mr. Song:
Many people think I am too ridiculous. I found out that my wife was doing both things, but she didn't want a divorce. If it's not discovered, it's okay. The problem is that everything has been discovered and there is evidence. Why not divorce? Do you think I'm not a man? But I want to say that I am very happy now, why should I get divorced?
Today I will tell you this. I hope this case can remind all men. It doesn't mean that divorce can solve all problems. Sometimes you have to deal with problems in a different way, otherwise tragedy will definitely be waiting for you.
Let me talk about my personal experience. I hope all men can learn a certain philosophy from my experience. Giving up is not the best option. I have been married to my wife for 15 years. We have two children, a boy and a girl. Logically speaking, he is very happy.
But 5 years ago, I discovered the affair between my wife and her male best friend. One more thing to say here, if your wife has a male best friend, you must pay attention to it. I regret it. If I had paid attention before, maybe it would not end like this now. I have noticed before that my wife has hints of male best friends, and I am as busy with work as other men.
Then I was cheated on by my wife again. That's why I discovered this. Five years ago, my wife told me, today is my birthday, can you come back to be with me? I hope you can come back. It has been many years since you spent my birthday with me. I reluctantly told my wife that I didn’t want to either. If I could come back to be with you, I would definitely come back to be with you.
But have you forgotten? Didn't I tell you a few days ago that I'm going on a business trip today? I don't know when I'll be back. If it's quick, it might be in a few days, if it's slow, it might be a week.
I know that I didn't do well enough. I also want to celebrate your birthday with you, but I can't ignore the business arranged by the company. There is 5,000 yuan here. You can buy something for yourself. I can promise you that I will come back after I finish the work. And I will give you happiness. I will give you everything you want. Didn’t you tell me last time that you liked a bag?
How about we go out and buy something together when I come back? My wife told me, it’s like this again, every time. Do you think I care about money? What I care about is you. We were all happy before when you had no money, but now that your conditions have improved. I found that I am not as good as before. I lived well before, but now I am not very happy.
Do you think money can solve everything? Money is of no use to me. I don’t need so much money, just enough. What are you doing making so much money now? You are out there every day just to make money, so just live with your money from now on. I told my wife helplessly, do you think I want to be like this?
I don’t want to, life is like this. If I don’t make more money, I won’t have money to spend on my children when they grow up. It’s impossible for them to suffer and get through like us. Have we suffered less before? No matter what, I can't let such a tragedy happen again.
Therefore, we must make more money. Only in this way can our family's life get better and better.After that, my wife told me, forget it, just live with money from now on. I don't want to talk to you anymore. After saying that, I went on a business trip. I believe that many men are like this. They cannot accompany their wives if they choose to work. These are very realistic things.
I can only choose between how to work and my wife. If I don’t work, how will I have money to spend on my wife? I don't go to work. Where is the money? In the past, when I had no money, I said I would not work. It's useless to say that I stay with him at home every day. Now that I have gone out to make money, my wife dislikes me for not being with her outside every day. What can I do?
I definitely have to work. If I don’t work and have no money, do I have to stay with you every day and then be rejected by you? In the past, we didn't have much expense to spend more time with you, but now it's different from before. Forget it, women can never understand men. I could only choose between companionship and work, so I chose work... I was really helpless in the face of this matter.
I just went to the station. But they told me that because I did not take the nucleic acid test and , I could not go to other cities. It turns out that someone here is infected with new crown ... I must get checked. Where can I get it?
also said it would take 24 hours. Then I had a check-up when I went back and rescheduled my business trip to tomorrow. It just so happens that I can spend my birthday with my wife today. Maybe this is God's arrangement. Until today is my wife’s birthday and she deliberately refused to allow me to go on a business trip. I told my boss about this, and he was very angry at first, but he finally told me, forget it, God is not as good as man.
After all, if you don’t have the market code and have not been checked, you can’t go anywhere else. Just follow the arrangements and discuss the business trip later. If it really doesn’t work, wait until the epidemic is better. Then I went home and bought a cake for my wife on the way back. And also bought gifts. Bought a bouquet of flowers.
I went home happily. But I saw a scene that I was afraid of. As soon as I arrived at the door of my house, I discovered that there were other people in the house. What is going on? Why are there other people at home? I saw my wife and a man on the balcony.
What on earth is going on? I quickly took out my phone to take pictures. Although I couldn't hear what they were saying, I could see what the two of them were doing. I saw the man hugging my wife.
If my wife didn't know the man, my wife would definitely resist, and that's my home. The man couldn't get in without my key or if it was opened by my wife. In other words, the man who knew my wife was definitely not the thieves who came in, or some gangster. Since it is said that my wife knows that person, then who is this person?
Why isn’t my wife disgusted? I am already married to my wife. How can my wife cuddle with a man? And it's also on a balcony. Isn't that embarrassing? The more I think about it, the angrier I get. Just as I was about to call my wife, I saw an even more extreme move. I saw the man kissing my wife. My wife didn't resist either. But they hugged even harder.
I couldn't bear it anymore and went home early. The cake fell to the floor, and I didn’t care. It’s so amazing, I’ve already captured their actions just now. Although the picture was not very clear, I could still see that it was my wife and a man. Who is that man?
When I got home, I found that there was no one on the balcony. Where did they go? There was no way he could have walked away. If he had, I would have seen it just as I was going up the stairs. I didn't see them. That means they are still at home. Open the door gently and go in.
After I opened the door and went in, I saw their clothes were in a mess. I saw them taking off their clothes on the sofa and on the floor. I didn't want to watch anymore when I saw this, I already knew what was going on. But I still turned on the camera and faced it bravely. After all, sometimes things have to be faced.I came to my room and I saw my wife with that man.
That man is actually my wife’s best friend. I never thought that my wife had not severed the relationship with her male best friend. Even if she had not severed the relationship, she would still have to do these things now. How can I endure this? Forget it... I originally wanted to disturb them, but I thought about it and forgot about it. I held back, why should I bother them?
If I tell my wife about this, or let them know that this happened to me. Then my wife will definitely divorce me. Even if my wife doesn't file for divorce, I won't be able to bear it. After all, once this matter is revealed. Not good for either person. Thinking of this, I silently exited the room. Then I came to the balcony to smoke...
Fortunately I didn't disturb them. Otherwise I will lose everything and my children will need my wife to take care of them. And I also need my wife to take care of me. If I tell my wife about this, will we get divorced? What will happen to my children if we get divorced? I still need my wife now. If I divorce my wife, will I be able to find a woman in the future? If
cannot be found, it will not be found again in the future. People have to face reality. In the past, I always gave my salary to my wife, and I would do whatever my wife said. But after this happened, I no longer want to care about my wife’s affairs. She can say whatever she likes. I usually answer When he came home, he beat and scolded my wife.
Because my wife didn’t dare to resist, she only said that I had changed. I told my wife, you can say whatever you like, that’s how I am anyway. I have already thought about it, if my wife dares to resist or say anything, I will send those videos to my natal family group and ruin my wife's reputation.
As long as my wife lives a good life with me. Then I will tolerate this matter for now. If he doesn't live a good life with me, it will be hard to tell. Thinking about this, I endured it. What can I do for this big issue, for my children, and for myself? What can I do if I have the energy? I'm living a good life now. I don't know if my wife knows, but I know this.
But what I am sure of is that my wife is very good to me and is obedient to me. My wife is afraid of losing me. I would give him a hint from time to time. Let my wife do better, otherwise don't blame me. It is precisely because of this that I am living a happy life now. Life is so good now, why should I get divorced?
If I divorce my wife, I will have no wife, and then the child will have no mother, and I will face an empty house when I return home. What's the point? Can the problem be solved after divorce? Wouldn’t it be nice to live a good life like I am now? Why must we divorce?
So sometimes it’s good not to get divorced, just like me. The first question is that a man must pay attention to his wife's male best friend. If I had paid attention to it from the beginning, maybe it would not end like this now. The second problem is that when facing these things, it is not necessarily a divorce. If it were you, would you do this? Anyway, I'm happy now.
Conclusion:
If it were me, I would probably do the same, but it doesn’t mean that every man can do this. Unless the man is very tolerant, like you. If you can be like this, you can be happy. If you can't bear it, it is very likely to cause domestic violence .
After all, sometimes there are things that cannot be forgiven if you want to, or you can tolerate if you want to tolerate them. Sometimes there are things that you cannot do once you see them or think about them. But this is indeed the best choice. Although divorce will relieve your anger, the problems you will face after divorce will be very difficult.
Only by not getting divorced can we live like this, and we can only do this for the sake of the family and the children.If you can tolerate it and live on, this is definitely the best way. If you can't bear it, then don't bear it. If you can't bear it, it will only make you suffer.
If it were me, I guess I would endure it, for the sake of the children, the family, and myself. If it were you, what would you do? As long as there is happiness in the future, as long as you live a good life in the future, then why should you care so much? This is how life is, isn't it?
