Text/Oxygen Picture/From the Internet Zhou Guoping said: "Know yourself, everything in the past has an explanation, and everything in the future has a direction." If a girl wants to live a wonderful life, she must first learn to know herself before she can be sure What path will

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Zhou Guoping said: "Know yourself, everything in the past has an explanation, and everything in the future has a direction."

If a girl wants to live a wonderful life, she must first learn to Only by knowing yourself can you determine the path you want to take in the future.

Unfortunately, there are many women in life who always follow the crowd and have no way to remain independent.

They are actually born smart and beautiful. As long as they dare to face their own problems, they can start a different life.

But they often fail in the process of change and have no strength to persist.

Women with bad luck often lack this ability, that is, execution ability.

They are dissatisfied with the current situation and find the current life difficult. They want to be free, but they always escape and wait for others to redeem themselves.

No matter how much they sacrifice, it is difficult for them to be cherished by men.

01: Women without executive power can only be manipulated by men

Tang Xue (pseudonym) has a very strong mother who has arranged for her to do many things since she was a child and does not allow her to have independent thinking and abilities.

Even though she later went to college, her mother still controlled her all the time.

In such an environment, Tang Xue's character became quieter and quieter, and she was very well-behaved. After working, I dare not take the initiative to fight for my own interests, and I am also very afraid of conflict with others.

27 years old, her parents urged her to get married quickly. At that time, a relative introduced a boy to Tang Xue. She was not sure whether she liked him, but her mother was very satisfied.

As long as it was something she liked, Tang Xue would try her best to cooperate, and then they fell in love.

She did not have much love for her boyfriend at the beginning, but after getting along for a while, Tang Xue found that he was a very independent boy and very confident.

As long as it is something he doesn't like to do, he dares to refuse it in person. In front of his parents, his boyfriend can truly be himself, which is something Tang Xue has never been able to do in his life.

In the end, they got married successfully under the arrangement of their parents. But the situation changed a lot after marriage. Her husband realized that Tang Xue was a woman with no executive power and was afraid to make decisions on many things.

Human nature is very complex. When a man discovers your weaknesses, you have to endure his endless manipulation.

After 4 years of marriage, Tang Xue almost lost her own time. No matter how much she sacrificed for the family, it was all right in the eyes of her husband.

She was completely at the mercy of the other party. Even if she didn't get the respect she deserved, Tang Xue could only endure it silently.

Her husband had a bad temper and would beat her when she was unhappy. Tang Xue thought about divorce, but as long as her husband was gentler to her, she chose to forgive her.

The other party no longer loves her, but because of her lack of executive power and very well-behaved personality, most men will not easily let go of a woman who is easy to control, so her husband will not really let go of Tang Xue.

However, she can't even hope to get love and respect from the other party. In this life, Tang Xue will live a miserable life.

02: Women with weak execution skills are afraid of change and easily lose their charm.

There are some girls in life who are not good-looking and have average family conditions, but they can be cared for and cherished by men.

The reason is that girls of this type are very confident inside and have particularly strong execution ability.

Whenever a man does something that makes him feel sorry for himself, he will leave decisively without giving the other party any chance. Women like

have weight in men's hearts because they are not easy to control.

Women with bad luck often lack executive power. They are afraid of change and will pin their happiness on men, and they will soon lose their charm.

Women who have no executive power imagine love and marriage too simply. Although they are in their twenties and thirties, they are still as innocent as children in their hearts.

No matter what you do, you hope to get support and help from others, otherwise it will be difficult to act.

Boys need to have a sense of accomplishment in a relationship. When you first fall in love, he may like your weak look.

However, over time, if you have no execution ability and always rely on him to help you solve problems when you encounter problems, he will gradually get tired of you.

Once the novelty between you loses and you are completely controlled by him, the love will disappear.

Women with bad luck often lack execution ability, and men will not cherish them in the end. Even if you are very beautiful, but you are not confident, you will be easily disliked by the other party.

Stop relying on others. You should face reality honestly and strive to become an executive woman so that you can avoid being manipulated by men.

The reason why you have a miserable life is often not caused by others, but by your own inaction. Only by seeing this clearly can life turn around and hope.