Do you think that in this society where scumbags are rampant, girls who are afraid of scumbags will turn around and look for honest boys? In fact, this is a wrong logic. What girls like is the attractiveness of scumbag men, not scumbags. Girls want boys to be honest and dedicated, but they don’t like unattractive boys.
So the essence is still a matter of attraction, and many people have reversed this underlying logic. So similar questions will arise: Although I am fat, I have a good personality, why does no one want me? Although I don’t have any outstanding characteristics, I don’t cause trouble and I treat others generously. Why doesn’t any boss want me?
It can be seen that many people do not have the consciousness and habit of putting aside appearances and looking at the essence. If you speak carefully and politely, many people will classify you as "ordinary" and "unconfident" or even "not doing well" The equal sign, instead of thinking about it at the first time: Knowing how to speak through the brain and being responsible for yourself and others is a requirement for your own qualities, and it is also because you value the other person, not because of cowardice or anything else.
But most people will look at others, including you and me, with prejudice, consciously or unconsciously. This is difficult to avoid because it takes time to understand a person.
Going back to the original question, it is actually a question of expressiveness. By expressing yourself, you can amplify your attractiveness in front of others. This is the only way a scumbag will be liked by girls if he does this well.
The same goes for chasing girls, you have to show yourself. If you are very caring, share with her how you take care of stray animals. Don't hide it, she may not notice it, and she won't feel your attraction even after talking for half a month.
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