Dickens said in A Tale of Two Cities: Intimate love, like distant estrangement, can be unpredictable, and the former is mysterious and elusive.
I agree. Men who fascinate women usually have unpredictable changes like rain, fog and wind. Women never know what men are thinking, but they are firmly conquered by men.
It is said that women are sensual animals, first fall in love with a man's soul, and then fall in love with his whole, but often when he falls in love with a man, the man is like a mystery, sometimes clear, sometimes hazy, but When there is uncertainty in men that women cannot control, it is the moment when women are most obsessed with them.
At this time, the man's strategy for women to be far and near is actually using " Beb's law ", firmly grasping women's hearts, and constantly relying on "routines" "To conquer women.
"Bebble's Law"
Bebbe's law is a concept in psychology, which means that after a person has experienced a strong stimulus and then applies the same stimulus, he will become negligible.
For example, when a man is often very considerate to a woman, the woman will take it for granted, but once a man treats her a little bit, it will cause the woman to be furious and fall into emotional conflict.
And another way,Men usually can't say good or bad to women, but when they are very attentive and caring to women for a certain period of time, they will make women feel very happy.
In this way, if a man is always nice to a woman, and occasionally ignores a woman's emotions one day, the woman will feel wronged, angry, and think that the man doesn't love her anymore? And when you have always been indifferent to a woman, you will feel pleasantly surprised and happy when you are very considerate to her all of a sudden. This is actually influenced by Beber's law.
A woman's emotional sensitivity to a man is like a 1-dollar lollipop that suddenly rises to 10 yuan, it will definitely be unacceptable, and a 100-dollar lollipop rises To 110 yuan, there is not such a big difference. The feeling is the same.
In other words, when the same thing is presented in different ways, people's sensitivity is different. Of course, under the influence of Beber's law, sometimes it will blind our eyes and make us fall into misunderstandings.
So many times, scumbags are using Beb's Law, usually being hot and cold to women, and sometimes they are very good, to hang women, make women obsessed with themselves, and even fall in love Unable to extricate himself from the cage.
The positive energy of Beb's law
Psychologists have done an experiment like this: there are two pairs of lovers, the first pair of lovers, every weekend the boy will give his girlfriend a bouquet of flowers; As for the second couple, the boy only sends flowers to his girlfriend on Valentine's Day.
The girl who collects flowers every week does not show too much enthusiasm, but complains that others are more beautiful than hers, while the girl who collects flowers for the first time is very happy and excited.
You see, the first girl doesn't feel much about flowers, but the boy thinks that girls should be excited and happy when they receive flowers. The same flower is given to different people at different times. People, have very different results, and this is the difference caused by Beber's law.
For the first couple, a man does not have to send flowers to his girlfriend every week, because she does not feel happy with this, but has a lot of opinions.
And Beb's Law tells men and women in love:
Because a lot of times, both men and women, think they want to give each other more love, think they understand each other enough, and don’t even ask what the other party wants, they just give it all, but these sacrifices are very difficult. Easily overlooked and ignored.
For example, men always think that women should not go home too late, talk too much with male colleagues, and should not socialize, but men limit women's interpersonal communication and social circles in the name of being good for each other.This will not only cause women's disgust, but also feel that they are being managed too "strictly" by men, which may eventually rise to emotional conflicts.
Therefore, for men, it is necessary to understand what women want, instead of just giving without asking, and to use the positive force of Beb's Law to face emotional problems.
Recognize love, can love better The boss let her eat for free.
The woman was very grateful to the restaurant owner and said: We don't know each other, you are too kind to me. My husband and I have been married for more than ten years, and they are so unfeeling towards me.
And the little boss said: I'm just treating you to a meal. Think about it, your husband must have invited you to dinner for more than ten years, shouldn't you be more grateful?
This story is very small, but it also shows a truth. It is because of the habitual selfless love of more than ten years that once it is slightly unsatisfactory , you will feel unlovable.
This is the negative side of Beber's law, so for each of us, don't take the advanced "routines" as love, and don't turn a blind eye to the sincere good.
Many times a man's strategy to conquer a woman is to create an illusion for a woman. With a little love, a woman can make a woman feel that a man loves her so much that she is so grateful that it is not enough.
In fact, this is the feeling that men use "advanced routines" Beb's law to manipulate women. It is worth noting that men who flirt with you will play "routines" for women, while men who really care about you will only Build a sense of security for women with grounded actions and care, tolerance and money.
Therefore, women must be immune to men's "advanced routines" and have the ability to discern, instead of falling into the "emotions" carefully woven by men with perceptual awareness. network".
Especially in the face of unruly men, men pretending to be sophisticated, women must be wary of their "routines", especially when they apply Beb's Law, hot and cold to women, be sure to Keep your eyes open and don't be actively conquered by "routines".
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