Flowers and romance will not be the main color in marriage life. The ordinary life filled with trivial things such as firewood, rice, oil and salt is the norm in marriage.
The couple will inevitably rub against each other in the trivial daily life, and then conflict will arise. If they want to maintain the stability and happiness of a marriage relationship, the couple needs to understand and tolerate each other.
But for many people, admitting their mistakes in front of their lovers is not an easy thing. They will feel that admitting their mistakes to their lovers is a detriment to their face.
In my opinion, it is actually a very naive thing to be afraid of losing face in front of your lover. Our love partner should be one of the people closest to us, and there is no need for us to maintain our so-called face in front of our lover.
Regarding the issue of love and face, the writer Maugham once said this:
In love, if you consider your self-esteem, it means that you still love yourself.
Love is a selfless emotion. When we fall in love with someone, we should understand and tolerate him more. When conflicts and differences arise with our lover, we should let go of the so-called face and actively resolve conflicts with our lover.
Many times, in the face of love, caring too much about your self-esteem and face will not only make you fall into pain, but also make the originally harmonious love relationship full of dangers.
In a love relationship, if a person cares too much about his own face, he will miss love; in a marriage relationship, if a person cares too much about his own face, he will not be able to maintain the stability of the marriage; when a couple gets along, if a person cares too much about his own face, it will be difficult for the couple to get along well.
1. If you take self-esteem too seriously, you may miss love.
Love is a wonderful fate, it is something that is hard to come by. Perhaps a person who has never fallen in love will suddenly meet an object that can make his heart moved at some point.
At this time, this person has two choices. One is to muster up the courage to go to the other side to meet him. The other is to be worried that under the influence of self-esteem, you will be rejected by the other side and hesitate in the face of this fate and dare not step forward.
In a love relationship, if a person cares too much about his own face and takes self-esteem too seriously, he may miss love.
Only those who can show their frankness and sincerity in front of their lovers can show courage in front of their love and then gain a happy love.
2. In married life, it is difficult for people who care too much about their self-esteem to make the marriage relationship harmonious.
The couple will inevitably have conflicts in their daily lives when they have differences with their partners. When some stubborn people have to distinguish who is right and who is wrong. Even if they are wrong themselves, they will be at hindered and will not admit their mistakes to their marriage partners.
This practice will only make the conflict between husband and wife increasingly bigger. In fact, it is not a shameful thing to be willing to bow your head in front of your partner.
Most people who are willing to admit their mistakes to their marriage partners have a tolerant attitude towards their partners. They can create a harmonious marriage relationship with their partners. People with too strong self-esteem like to be petty in everything, and it is difficult for them to gain the understanding of their lovers.
In married life, it is difficult for a person who has too strong self-esteem when getting along with his lover.
3. When a couple gets along, if a person cares too much about his own face, it will be difficult for his marriage to live in harmony.
Regarding love, someone has put forward the view that it is easy for couples to fall in love, but it is not easy for them to get along.
When a couple has conflicts due to differences in their opinions, those who are willing to make concessions will not only not harm their own face, but also reflect a behavior of loving each other deeply.
is like a couple pulling a rope with difficulty, not giving in to each other, and evenly matched. The person who is willing to let go of his hands first often loves each other more because he is worried that the other party will be hurt.
One of the ways couples can get along well is that they know how to tolerate each other and give in to each other.
The meaning of marriage lies in the tolerance and understanding of the couple. If a couple often likes to argue endlessly in their daily lives, it will be difficult for their marriage to be happy and harmonious.
Smart people will not care too much about their face in front of their love partners. When they have conflicts with their marriage partners, they will know how to take the initiative to make concessions and admit their mistakes. This will not make them feel detrimental to their self-esteem, but will make them feel happy, because tolerance for their lovers is a manifestation of their deep love for each other.
For people in a love relationship, they value their own face too much and must distinguish right from their partner in everything. This is actually a very stupid thing. In a love relationship, you will not be underestimated by others.
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