Huang Huixin, 52, never expected that her husband, whom she had been in love with for more than 30 years, would suddenly file for a divorce, and the reason for the divorce was extremely absurd.
The husband who has been in love for more than 30 years suddenly filed for divorce
Huang Huixin was six years younger than her husband Qian Chunsheng. The two met through a blind date. When they got married, her husband was in a poor family and was recruited by the Huang family as a home-in-law. .
After marriage, Qian Chunsheng was always looked down upon by his mother-in-law. The relationship between the two was very stiff. In order to avoid the deterioration of family conflicts, Huang Huixin decided to go out to work with her husband. The two lived in Changsha for a long time and depended on recycling waste to make ends meet. .
In the more than 20 years of going out to live, the two have been husbands and wives. They are loving couples in the eyes of outsiders. Six years ago, because the youngest son was in the entrance examination, the daughter gave birth to a child and needed care. For the sake of the children, Huang Huixin left her husband and returned to her hometown. Although they did not live together, the relationship between the two was considered harmonious, and Qian Chunsheng gave the money he earned to his wife as always.
Huang Huixin couldn't accept the divorce. She told the mediator, when her husband received a better vase outside, he would take it home for her to grow flowers, but would give her anything better.
Huang Huixin believes that the reason why her husband raised a divorce was because she was bewitched by a woman! And this woman is the landlady of the husband's house.
husband told Huang Huixin that will be levied by the hostess soon.He will get a house and a levy. The landlady has a deal with him, saying that as long as she marries her, she will get a house. The husband felt that such a deal was a good deal, and he persuaded Huang Huixin to consider the overall situation and agree to a divorce.
Huang Huixin believed that her husband had been brainwashed by the landlady and was dazzled by benefits. She decided to find her husband as soon as possible to prevent him from this absurd behavior.
The landlady denied the exchange of benefits, and everything was the man’s initiative.
drove more than an hour to the place where Qian Chunsheng rented. Six years ago, Huang Huixin rented here with her husband. She has since returned to her hometown. I haven't been here before, and now I am back here, everything is so familiar, but so unfamiliar.
Huang Huixin met the landlady Zhou Meiwen, with long hair and a few years older than her. The two did not quarrel when they met. Facing Huang Huixin’s questioning, Zhou Meiwen said calmly, , she is currently single, and denied that Qian Chunsheng’s money transaction has always been pursued by the man, and he said that she would be divorced with her.
Zhou Meiwen said that she did not want to get involved in Qian Chunsheng’s marriage, and she also urged her husband to think carefully about it. Who knows that Qian Chun’s ecology is determined and he is determined to divorce, saying that she is very unhappy at that home.
Huang Huixin asked Zhou Meiwen, Do you like him? When did you start to like it?
Faced with such a sensitive question, Zhou Meiwen did not shy away.She confessed that when her husband passed away, Qian Chunsheng often comforted her and cared about her. Only then did Qian Chunsheng gradually develop a good impression of Qian Chunsheng. She did not accept the man's confession, and showed her attitude: does not want to be a lover, she wants a legitimate marriage.
Just then, Qian Chunsheng came back. He seemed very indifferent to the arrival of his wife. In front of his wife, he vomited bitterly with reporters. has been a door-to-door son-in-law for more than 30 years. Her life is very depressing. His mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, and his wife has a strong personality. Sometimes he will be complained for a long time when he buys more meat.
" , to be honest, it’s too difficult to be a recruiter", Qian Chunsheng confided in his depressed heart for so long because there is nowhere to go.
The place where Qian Chunsheng rents is very simple, the house of more than 30 square meters is messy, and the recovered waste and clothing are piled up randomly. With a simple bed, an old TV, and no other decent appliances, the wife is not considerate of herself at all. She has never been here in six years.
Qian Chunsheng said that he and his wife have been separated for a long time, and their relationship has faded. The marriage has long existed in name only. Over the years, he has only sympathy and no feelings for his wife. Feelings are like wearing shoes. Only you know whether it fits or not. Over the years, he lived very depressed.
The reason for divorce was a white lie
The appearance of the landlord Zhou Meiwen made him feel the warmth of home. Compared with the strong wife, Zhou Meiwen has a gentle personality, and Qian has a good personality. Chunsheng tasted love.
Qian Chunsheng is very clear about his inner thoughts. For the first half of his life, he was entangled by his family and children and endured himself in this unfortunate marriage. Now he has met someone he likes in his late sixties, and he decides to live out himself. Be brave.
Regarding the reason for divorce with his wife, Qian Chunsheng said, was a white lie that he made up for fear that his wife would be too sad.
During the Chinese New Year, the husband asked him to come to Changsha to live together. Why did he change his mind in less than a year? Huang Huixin regretted not coming over at the beginning and gave others a chance. She expressed that she would send her granddaughter to her daughter to restore the relationship with her husband, but Qian Chunsheng resolutely stated that she did not want to die again!
Regarding the emotional entanglement of his mother, Zhou Meiwen’s son Wu Dong said that Qian Chunsheng’s desire to marry his mother has nothing to do with whether the family wants to collect it. If the two really like it, he will not stop it. I only hope that my mother will be happy for the rest of her life.
Zhou Meiwen’s father-in-law said that he had never heard of the family levy, and he did not want to talk about his daughter-in-law’s private affairs.
Seeing the attitude of Zhou Meiwen's family, Huang Huixin was angry and helpless. She spread all her grievances on Zhou Meiwen.Thinking that she was the one who broke her marriage, facing Huang Huixin's accusation and abuse, Zhou Meiwen stopped explaining anything, and let Qian Chunsheng choose her choice.
Seeing his wife making a lot of noise, Qian Chunsheng looked very irritable and urged his wife to leave.
Unwilling to give up, I will try my best to save her husband's heart
Huang Huixin returned to her hometown with a lot of loss, a three-story building looks very stylish, this is her and her husband A home built over decades of hard work. Over the years, she has been taking care of the family, and all the money earned by her husband outside has been handed over to her.
In a neat and clean home, a box of new shoes is placed on the shoe cabinet, and the closet is filled with all kinds of new clothes for men. These are all bought by Huang Huixin for her husband, but the husband is not willing to wear them and is worried about receiving them. The waste is dirty.
In Huang Huixin's heart, her husband has always been the pillar of the family. He is a man with a sense of responsibility and responsibility. She looked at the family portrait in the living room in a trance. She didn't want a crack in the house, and hoped that the family would be harmonious.
The next day, Huang Huixin came to her husband's rental apartment again and tried to persuade Zhou Meiwen to let go. Zhou Meiwen's attitude was also very clear. If Qian Chunsheng let go now, she would not stay.
Qian Chunsheng said that he did not live with Zhou Meiwen, but he developed affection for her during the day and night. He knew that this was immoral, but he knew himself. In his heart, being with Zhou Meiwen is happier and relaxed. In the second half of his life, he wants to change his way of life.
Although she did not persuade her husband to go home, Huang Huixin said that she would not give up and would do her best to save her husband's heart.
is written at the end:
When a man is a door-to-door son-in-law, he is under pressure from himself and the outside world. If the woman can no longer give respect and freedom of money, the depression can be imagined. What made Qian Chun angry was that he was looked down upon by his mother-in-law as soon as he walked in, and she often said, " is used to make money ". He endured the humiliation. He did it, and earned every penny. It was handed over to his wife, and it became the family's money-making machine.
For more than 30 years, Qian Chunsheng has fulfilled the responsibilities of a father and husband and endured the unsatisfactory marriage. The love for his wife has drifted away with the six years of separation. Suddenly it changed its appearance.
There is a detail. Huang Huixin has never been to her husband’s rented place for six years, but it is only an hour’s drive away. However, whenever she treats her husband with snacks, she will not give others a chance. Now, she also realizes that she is right. It's too late to regret her husband's neglect.
Qian Chunsheng feels that he is like a money-making machine, only the burden of the family is nothing else, sickness and daily life are all alone, and his wife's family only enjoys his dedication, but he cannot feel the warmth. He is a human being and not a money-making machine. He needs to be loved and respected, and he has found what he lacks in Zhou Meiwen.
Marriage is not the contribution of one person. It requires two people to manage it carefully, and requires mutual understanding and warmth. A happy marriage is: I understand your hard work,It is not easy for you to understand me.
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