My ex-boyfriend, in addition to being a scumbag, is also a scumbag. It doesn’t matter if he steps on a few boats at the same time. The key point is that his parents also help with him. It’s really unheard of and unseen.
1. I met on the blind date website
In 2011, there was a local blind date called Nanguo Zaobao blind date. We met on this site, we chatted with each other on QQ, and we felt pretty good in every way. It’s suitable, just make an appointment. I was 28 years old at the time. I went there for the purpose of getting married. After dating for almost half a year, he took me to his house. Uncles and aunts looked good, but I didn’t think anything was wrong. Together. After dinner, I came back. After going to his house again, his parents are also very enthusiastic, feeling that the relationship is stable, and thinking that he should also meet my parents.
But when I proposed to let him see my parents, he always evaded and said that there was something he couldn't do. Finally, on a certain weekend, under threatening circumstances, he promised to go home with me to see my parents.
2. Visiting the two old men
On Saturday, I waited for him all day, and finally hurried over at around 5 pm, and I forgot to take the belt, I don’t know if it’s not. I just came over from the shower, wearing denim shorts and a pair of beach sandals to join me. We drove home in a hurry. At that time, we didn’t buy a car. At that time in 2011, there were not so many people who bought cars like now. It took a two-hour shuttle bus back to my hometown.
When I arrived home at around 7:30, my parents’ dishes were cold. After eating in a hurry, he said something was going on. He rushed to the county to take a shuttle bus back to the city. During the whole process, he felt like he had a meal at a friend’s house. I patted my butt and left. I left with empty hands. I left my dad with a belt because when he left, he always said that the pants were loose and forgot to take the belt. He came in a hurry. I don’t know if he deliberately appeared to be in a hurry. It was also in a hurry.
My parents didn't say anything, but it is conceivable that my parents' faces are full of disappointment. They must be very worried about my future.
3. The cheating was exposed
At that time, I felt that when he was dating me,Always secretively, like dating a junior, every time it takes about an hour, it’s hard to eat a meal. Basically, he finishes the meal, comes over and chats with me for a long time, drinks herbal tea and then goes home to wash. Sleeping, it was quite satisfactory, especially a good-looking feeling.
Later, how did I find out that he cheated? To be precise, I was "little three".
I was in the middle of my relationship with him. For a while, I didn’t see him actively contacting me. The first week I felt okay. I don’t like clinging people. I am also busy. I am too proactive and afraid of falling prices. I have seen my parents, and I feel that it’s not too bad to be together at this point. It doesn’t matter if he enjoys a single life, it doesn’t bother him, but it feels wrong in the second week.
I couldn't help but QQ and asked him what he was doing, where he was.
I haven't seen him reply for a long time. After about an hour, I finally replied there.
The other person asked, who are you?
I wonder if his Q was stolen.
I just asked him, do you know ***?
He said: "He is my fiancé."
My heart beat to my throat, and I thought: Isn't it a liar?
asked her: "How many years have you known each other?"
just chatted back and forth, she really is the fiancée of her ex-boyfriend.
That night, both of us broke down, because the more we talked, the more angry, and the more we talked, the more chilling. As his "secrets" were dug up, the more our hearts hurt.
His girlfriend, let me call her Xiaoru for the time being. Xiaoru’s parents and his parents are in the same system, and they know each other, so they have known each other early. They have been together for 5 years. During my relationship, he and Xiaoru also had a stable relationship, and they often went to Xiaoru's house to show their courtesy. His parents considered the son-in-law by default and had bought a wedding house for Xiaoru.
In the past 5 years, he cheated at least two people, one is me, the other is a beauty from a college, he once sent me photos to brag and asked me if I was beautiful?
And this photo is not Xiaoru, that is to say, in the eyes of the ex-boyfriend, the relationship of 5 years is nothing, even in front of outsiders, he has not admitted the existence of Xiaoru.
The next day, Xiaoru and I had an appointment.
Why did you meet?
Because Xiaoru needs to get evidence to tell his parents.
This evidence is that Xiaoru gave him a bottle of perfume and a gold ring, and he gave me these two things. I am still very surprised. When he gave me the ring, what happened to this gold ring? It's a male model and it's old fashioned. It turned out that Xiaoru gave it to him.
If you say that scumbags are ranked, then he should belong to the lowest kind. He is not even a scumbag. The scumbag at least spends money, and he is a gift for a girl. Scratched from another girl.
I told Xiaoru, come and take it, I feel sick when I see it.
The next day, we made an appointment at a place, and his dad drove her with him.
Later, we added Q to each other, which is considered to be a broken-hearted alliance camp. We suspect that he cheated more than three girls at the same time, and there should be more girls victimized.
Actually, his condition is really only average. I don't know what we were blind to at the beginning. He should be more happy to make girls happy.
To say that his job is actually worse than me and Xiaoru, and his income is lower than that of the two of us. He is just a staff member with no establishment. This is what I learned from Xiaoru. She has always known. It's just that she doesn't mind this status, probably because her parents are both state-owned enterprise employees and the only child, so the family is pretty decent. However, he was high-spirited and didn't take things seriously. He had been notified of wrongdoing in his work, and he was always thinking about a rich woman.
Later, he really found a "rich woman", which Xiao Ru later knew to tell me. Why did Xiaoru log on to his QQ that night when the accident happened? Because she could not contact him for a week, she logged on to his QQ. She always had his QQ password. Later, Xiaoru said that he was going to Hong Kong with a rich woman to play two games. Weeks.
But he didn't stay with the rich woman afterwards. I heard that he was dumped. After all, he was not handsome, he was only 172 in height, and he couldn't work.It seems that a man who is not handsome and not tall enough to eat soft meals is still difficult.
Speaking of his parents, if the timetable between me and Xiaoru is correct, the next day he took me home, he took Xiaoru to his house for dinner, and that’s how it was kept. While socializing with at least two girls at the same time, or his parents are eating together at home, I don’t know if there is a problem with the three views of this family. I guess they are going to choose a concubine for his baby son. Look at this today and tomorrow. Calling that, isn't the purpose of picking a daughter-in-law who is richer, more promising, more beautiful, and better-tempered?
Oh! Xiaoru and I sighed. Fortunately, we weren't with him. What kind of son can such a family and parents make? Therefore, he is not motivated, works sloppy, loves vanity and loves to cheat. I don't know who will take him away. I hope the woman who accepts him can cure his cheating problem.
The above is the story of a female friend of mine.
4. Write at the end
When a woman only looks at a man’s person, not his money, once this person’s character has a problem, you are better than it. His money situation is even worse. If you only look at his money, at least your heart will not hurt so much. Besides, he has paid for you. The most fearful thing is that you have given your sincerity and money, and finally you were deceived.
There is no woman who didn't want to be with a man forever in the first place. Once you are desperate and have problems, your world will collapse and your life may change, either for the better or for the worse.
It doesn't matter if you fall in love with a man and give it wholeheartedly. The most important thing is that this relationship and this person make you give no regrets. Therefore, both men and women are shameful to deceive, because the result of this is that you are not even worthy of memories in his world.
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