It is very satisfying for many people to live this life steadily. After all, some people are not able to grow old with their partners. There are many reasons for this, perhaps because the other party is bored, or perhaps because he has a greater temptation.
Everyone has different moral concepts. In the eyes of some people, there is nothing guilty about doing something that is sorry for the other half. As long as it is not discovered, it’s fine. So it was precisely because of the temptation that he could not resist, so he deceived himself and stepped out of the moral boundary, thinking that he could hide from the sky, but people who knew about it were very disdainful of it.
But some people hate it very much, and think that since you have chosen a person, you should be with him and stay down-to-earth, not all day long. If you don't love anymore, why do you still seek excitement under the covers every day? What kind of psychology is this out of? As the saying goes, different ways of thinking do not seek each other, and the inconsistency of the three views between each other may also hurt each other's feelings.
for infidelity since childhood, she hated infidelity since she was a child _p1sp
She is a very conservative person, thinking that since she is married, she should not easily betray each other, and she hates and dislikes things that destroy other people's families.
This may have something to do with her childhood experience. When her mother started not going home all night, she was still young at that time and didn't realize what happened. I only know that his father's face is gloomy day by day. What she once liked most was being able to be taken to the park by her parents during her rest days, and at this time her parents' quarrels had become the norm.
She doesn't understand what went wrong, why the parents who once loved so much have become such a situation now. Gradually, from the quarrel between the two people, I also understood a little bit. I didn't expect that such bloody things in the TV series would happen in my own family.
The mother had a man outside. It was not a short while before she was discovered by the father by chance. The two people have had endless quarrels since then. The mother obviously did not want to divorce. Now there are children. Although the father feels as uncomfortable as eating a fly, he still chooses to forgive.
originally thought that my mother would live a steadfast life because of this, but I did not expect that she would still be secretly engaged in sex. The unbearable father couldn't stand being cuckold on his head and decided to get a divorce. At that time, Jie Yu felt that his family was gone, and the whole sky would collapse.
I have other hopes for the future
's mother is not happy after he has been divorcedIt is precisely because I think that all the faults are due to my mother, so I don't want to meet her at all. Until now, Jie Yu hated such behavior, and she yearned for a happy marriage.
Fortunately, she was lucky. After graduating from college with her boyfriend who had been in love with her for four years, she entered the marriage hall directly. At the wedding, she also saw her mother whom she had not seen for a long time. The vicissitudes of life are a bit regrettable.
But Jie Yu has been completely immersed in the joy of her own happiness, she began to dream about the future, even if there are many unknowns, but she will be happy. Unexpectedly, although there is no problem in the relationship between myself and my husband, the relationship with my girlfriend has gradually deteriorated. What is going on?
The best friends around me were married, and all four of them had a stable home. They still gather together from time to time. This is something that makes people happy. But Jie Yu gradually realized that the three of them seemed a little different from herself.
share with the group from time to time This made Jie Yu very puzzled. She was already married, so how could she still have too much contact and involvement with other men? If you put it on yourself, you can't accept it.
My girlfriend's behavior makes me puzzled
, come back to , I told my husband about my doubts, but the husband said to her: "No matter what the other person is, it is all other people's business. You should not be arrogant, as long as you take care of yourself. Everyone else will do everything with us. It has nothing to do. Sometimes it can make others unhappy.”
Although this is said, such behavior is indeed my own minefield. When I think of the years when I and my father struggled. , I won’t be angry. Why can't today's women cleanse themselves?
Jie Yu, who wanted to remain silent, did not expect things to develop more and more out of her own control. In just one year, the three of them all had lovers in unison, and they were still in the group. Of course, Di shared with her husband.
Has this world become like this now? Annoyed, she chose to block group news, but her silence turned out to be ridiculed by her girlfriends: "Do you think this is so shameless? You won't experience such happiness if you don't experience it."
This makes Jie Yu feel that she and them can't communicate at all. She has already done shameful things. Instead of having any guilt, she is complacent. Is this very honorable?
This kind of ridicule completely made Jie Yu completely forget her husband's instructions. She thought that she would be cowardly if she did not refute, so she quarreled with them directly in the WeChat group. Thinking of all the previous ones, can they really become friends if their three views are inconsistent?
used to be close and now part ways
you have nothing to be proud of.Is stealing someone with a man on his back really worth showing off? If you want me to say, you are destined to be out of sight, and you will be abandoned sooner or later when you are discovered. Your behavior like this is destined to have no good results! "
Jie Yu's counterattack really caused their dissatisfaction. As the anger on both sides grew, the weak Jie Yu quickly lost the battle, and since it has already been It was so stiff, the group leader said: "You are a chaste woman. "Then I thought that Jie Yu had kicked her out of the group by keeping herself safe.
The relationship that had been for so many years ended because of the dispute over tongues, and Jie Yu had mixed feelings in her heart. She didn't know that she was wrong. The world is still wrong. Why do people always don’t care about such things? Isn’t loyalty a necessary element in marriage?
Later Jie Yu slowly figured it out and said The differences do not help each other. Although it was like wearing a pair of trousers to say that four people were good at the beginning, it is already in the past. Since there is such a big difference between their three views, it means that even if not now and in the future Contradictions will also erupt.
After quitting the group chat, Jie Yu basically stopped walking with them, so she didn't have to watch them and her husband have a play, in fact, she was still thinking about other men in her heart. Such behavior made Jie Yu nauseous, and she was also relaxed, without the show-off and show off of her girlfriends in the group. Everything around her became okay.
I don’t care about outsiders, but they really offend. When you reach your own minefield, you won’t just sit back and watch. Now Jieyu just wants to live with her husband steadily. As for her girlfriends, it has nothing to do with her in the future.
There are some unseen feelings that are destined to be unhappy,But they are always immersed in self-deception and cannot see the truth of the matter. You know, how inspiring it is to live steadily with your partner and to fight for the future together.
Since you can't convince the people around you, it's better to be a solid yourself. Just like Jie Yu, she is the world sober, no matter what her best friend says in her ears, she is unmoved. After all, having experienced such a dilapidated family, naturally he is unwilling to let his children continue to make the same mistakes.
Many times, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, but sometimes they make mistakes and don’t listen to others’ persuasion. On the contrary, I am complacent because of what I have done, and I hope to be able to hide from the sky. Once your own affairs are revealed, it is not as simple as your partner leaving.
Today’s topic:
Can you accept a friend’s betrayal of your partner?
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