Psychologist Adler said: Happy people use their childhood to heal their lives, and unfortunate people use their lives to heal their childhood.
A happy childhood can be healed for a lifetime, while an unfortunate childhood needs a lifetime to heal.
Although we all understand this problem, there are still many people who cannot avoid it. Different environments, different families. Will bring a different life to children.
But if you live in a big gloomy house after the death of your parents, how can you overcome yourself and laugh at life?
The book " Secret Garden " I shared with you today is a child with a strange and lonely temperament. In a magical experience, he was reborn and reaped happiness.
Author Frances Hodgson Burnett is a well-known literary writer for children in the English-speaking world.
This book is closely related to people and environment. For living in a fast-paced era, whether adults or children, the magical environment of nature is the key to our spiritual growth.
Let us understand it together.
1 Behind the misfortune, there is hope
Mary was not seen since she was born, and her father worked for the government and was always busy. My mother is a great beauty, but she only pretends to be banquets and people who indulge in the social arena.
Mary was taken by a nanny since she was a child, and gradually developed a weak, violent, selfish character. Because there are no friends, I live very lonely.
Once cholera was forgotten, and only Mary was left. It was later discovered by the military officer and sent from India to the British uncle's house, in a mysterious and gloomy house, which is Misselswaite Manor.
Met her little maid, Martha, here. From Martha's description, Mary knew the different seasons in the wilderness. The wilderness is bare in winter, but in spring and summer it will be overgrown with various things.beautiful view.
When wattle, gorse and heather bloom, it looks very nice, you can smell honey, and there is fresh air everywhere. The sky seemed so high, the bees buzzed, and skylark was also singing, and the sound was also very nice. In these descriptions, Mary feels very novel and yearning.
Life in Britain is very different from that in India. Mary no longer depends on others and has learned to do her own things.
Mary likes to listen to Martha's sharing of stories around her, how the twelve children in their family grew up.
For example, Dickon, in the words of his mother, he was made strong by the air in the wilderness. I went out to play by myself since I was young and became friends with many small animals.
With the encouragement of Martha, Mary no longer stays in the room all day during the day, she will go out to play by herself, skip rope outdoors and run against the wind. My appetite gradually improved and my body gradually became healthy. The complexion is also rosy and shiny.
Mary saw all kinds of small animals in the manor. Through the robin, she discovered a secret garden that had been closed for ten years and found the key. There is hope in life.
2. Open your heart and find the joy of life
After Mary enters the secret garden, she enters the high wall full of climbing leaves of rose vines. They are densely packed, like they are spreading on the wall. There are some other trees.
The rose vines climbing everywhere on the tree, intertwined alternately, the branches spread from this tree to that tree, making itself a beautiful bridge.
But Mary doesn't know how to garden. She was walking and watching. In some places where green sprouts appeared, the grass seemed too thick, and the green sprouts did not seem to have enough room for growth. She tried to find a pointed wooden stick to weed the garden until she cleared small vacancies around the green shoots.
After Mary's labor, imagine that this garden will be like "thousands of snowdrops " described by Martha.When spring comes, they will become the most beautiful scenery in Yorkshire .
Because the garden has been abandoned for too long, Mary needs a small shovel and some seeds to plant in the secret garden so that there can be a small garden.
Mary asked how to buy Martha tools. Martha’s younger brother Dickon was a farm child who grew up in the wilderness. Robin, fox, lamb, crow, etc. communicate intimately, and also know plants well.
Then Martha wrote to ask Dickon to go to Sweet Village to buy. Then Mary saw Dickon, a little boy who was very beautiful in Mary's eyes and knew everything about plants.
Mary's first friend Dickon in life. Mary told Dickon the secret garden. With Dickon's help and company, they cultivated together, making the garden full of life and feeling the charm of nature.
Because Mary has something to do, her mentality has improved and her personality has improved. No more crazy thinking, people gain weight. His complexion was ruddy, and he was no longer a sickly and ugly child in the eyes of others.
3. Finally, you can also have your own secret garden
While living in Misselswaite Manor, Mary occasionally heard crying for a long time, and finally found her uncle's son through the crying. A sick young master Colin who has been kept in a dark room all year round.
Shortly after the birth of Colin, her mother died unexpectedly because of a swing. Colin's father lived abroad for years because he could not face his son who looked exactly like his dead wife.
Mary's sudden visit made Colin afraid that Mary would see him as he was. Because Colin was always sick and had to lie down, no one was allowed to see him and talk about him.
Colin has been kept in a house all year round. He has a bad temper. No one wants to chat with him. I have heard people secretly say that he will not live long. Even if he can survive, he is afraid that he will hunch back. Colin will be very tired if he lives like that.
Mary and Colin are very similar, they have never felt the love of their parents, because Martha and Mary have changed a lot.Become sports-loving. After getting acquainted with Dickon, I rescued the garden with Dickon. There was a pursuit in life, and his personality changed.
After seeing Mary, Colin and Mary chatted a lot. Talked about the garden that was locked for ten years. Talking about bulbs, they are narcissus, lily and snowdrops, they are growing in the soil-light green buds emerge.
Colin was very curious about Mary's description, and wanted to check it out. But Mary was afraid that after Colin told others to open the garden, Colin's father would know that he would lock the garden again and they would not be able to enter in the future.
In order to persuade Colin, Mary described the scene in the garden in detail. The rose vine climbed from one tree to the other and fell down; many birds may have made nests there because it is safe.
Then, Mary also talked about the robins and Ben Weatherstaff, and there is too much to say about the robins, and it is easy and safe to say.
The Robin's story made Colin very happy. He smiled, and finally managed to get Colin to keep a secret with her, and also agreed that Mary would chat with him every day.
Because of Mary’s company, Colin is no longer alone. He will fantasize about the secret garden where Mary and Deakin cultivated. In spring, all the flowers, leaves, green plants, birds and wild animals will dance together. , What kind of scene should it be.
Under Mary's infection, Colin defeated his own demons and didn't lose his temper hysterically. After entering the secret garden, Colin and Dickon became friends. Together with them, they participated in the hard work of the garden and finally witnessed the transformation of the garden.
Together they awakened the garden that had been sleeping for ten years, with flowers in full bloom and green grass, and the children grew up healthily.
Colin’s father, Mr. Craven, has been wandering in a foreign country for ten years, but he has a passion for mountains and rivers. In a beautiful valley in Austria, Mr. Craven has nothing to put on his mind and body. Soothing, for the first time I feel that I am alive.
was also on the shore of Lake Como in Italy. He felt that his body and soul were getting stronger and he heard the call of the mysterious voice to him. Returning to the manor, he witnessed the healthy growth of the three children, and Colin also won back the long-lost father's love.
The above is the content of this book.
Everyone will encounter such and such things in life. Chairman Mao said that there is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb.
The power of nature is magical. The fresh air, bright sunshine, colorful flowers and lush vegetation not only nourish their young bodies, but also wash away the haze of their hearts.
No matter what kind of difficulties we encounter, we must have hope in our hearts, think more about the better, and go outside more, maybe there will be a different scenery.
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