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The biggest difference between women and men is that men are often independent, while women always long for the care and love of men. So in real life, we often see women's dependence on men and their pursuit of marriage. So how sad is it for a woman to stay alive? The words of the three women are worthy of men's reflection.
1. Ms. Li will suffer when she is a widow
Ms. Li and her husband have been married for almost 20 years, and the child has already gone to college. The two of them are considered to have completed their goals. Began to separate. Speaking of two people, there is no big contradiction. Ms. Li just feels that marrying her husband is like marrying a stranger.
Ms. Li’s husband is a very stupid person. He generally doesn’t care about Ms. Li’s mood, and he rarely talks to Ms. Li on his own initiative, even talking about the couple’s life. Sometimes Ms. Li takes the initiative . For Ms. Li, this marriage is like being a widow. Although she has a husband, it is no different from not having a husband.
In the past, Ms. Li had hopes for her child’s studies. Now that her child is admitted to university, Ms. Li is increasingly feeling that her life is boring. She has been living with strangers for more than 20 years, and it is really tormenting.
2. Ms. Mao really regrets getting married
Ms. Mao is online dating with her husband,The two chatted online for half a year, and then they were together. The two were not planning to get married soon, but Ms. Mao had a child, so she had to choose to enter the marriage.
For Ms. Mao, it was a great thing, but after getting married, Ms. Mao felt regret. Before getting married, her husband still cared for her, especially after knowing that she had a child. But after Ms. Mao gave birth to a child, she was a girl. Her husband became very indifferent, and the most important thing was that her mother-in-law was not very kind to her, which made Ms. Mao feel very chilling.
Not long after the two got married, Ms. Mao's husband chose to go out to work, and the two began to separate. This was another big blow for Ms. Mao. In the words of Ms. Mao, if she knew that marriage was like this, she would definitely not get married. But now, she can only choose to endure.
3. Ms. Lin, a woman still has to love herself
Ms. Lin also has the experience of being a widow. The reason why she stays a widow is not that her husband is out or ignores her. Your own choice. When he was young, her husband had cheated, so Ms. Lin felt that her husband was dirty and always rejected him. Even if he decides that the prodigal son will return, Ms. Lin still cannot forgive him.
The reason for not divorcing is actually because the child is too small. As a mother, Ms. Lin must consider the influence of her child, so in the end she still did not choose to divorce.
Nowadays, Ms. Lin and her husband have little communication, and she doesn't care much about her husband, just thinking about how to make herself happy. For Ms. Lin, the biggest experience of being a widow is that a woman still has to love herself.
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