text|Xianxian’s original article, plagiarism must be investigated
"This QR code has been pasted on the bedroom door since my father passed away. Every time I enter, whether it is to fetch things or You have to scan the QR code and pay to enter when you sleep. Who can do this? But I always feel ashamed of him, so I rely on her, but I didn’t expect that my connivance made her even more unscrupulous, and even caught up. My father’s life.”
Yin Ruining pointed to the payment QR code on the bedroom door, and the middle portrait was that of his wife Meng Ran. He believed that he was doing his wholeheartedly for this family, so he had to go out often, who doesn’t Knowing that "wife and child are hot on the bed" is comfortable, I don't understand why Meng Ran doesn't understand herself so much.
However, Meng Ran seemed to have more grievances when facing Yin Ruining, and even choked to speak. She said that a woman from this family was like an outsider who gave birth to Yin Ruining and took care of the elderly, but her husband saw him all year round. If you don't meet, your in-laws won't wait to see you, and even your children are suspected. Can you not be angry? "There is a saying called'the hatred of the confinement is not shared with the sky.' I will never pass this hurdle in my heart" .
However Yin Ruining retorted: It makes a lot of noise on that occasion,This makes me and my mother think. This marriage really can't go on anymore, let's get a divorce.
For Yin Ruining's divorce, Meng Ran seemed to be prepared for a long time, saying: "The divorce is okay, then 30% of this house belongs to me, and I will leave immediately. "But Yin Ruining disagreed: "Why, I bought this house with my parents in full. You didn't pay me for it, but now you want to empty the glove White Wolf?" " Meng Ran said bitterly: "Then needless to say, listen to the court's judgment.
Yin Ruining, 33 years old this year, and his wife Meng Ran met through a friend's introduction 5 years ago. Yin Ruining is two years older than Meng Ran. She is tall and has a relatively high income. has only drawbacks. I was working in another place, . However, Meng Ran felt that this was not a problem at the time, so he felt good to him through the matchmaker, and Yin Ruining was very satisfied with Meng Ran’s appearance and family. It was determined within a month of meeting the two of them. After getting married, I decided to get married in less than half a year.
After getting married, Yin Ruining continued to work with friends in the field, and only occasionally went home once. Usually Meng Ran lived with her in-laws. Soon Yin Ruining listened. Said that Meng Ran was pregnant, which made Yin Ruining very happy. After returning home to praise his wife, he returned to the field and worked harder. After all, he was already a father man and had to work harder, so he went home every month. As a result, the amount of money has become more, but as a result, the number of times to go home has decreased. During the pregnancy period, Meng Ran and his in-laws were almost always living.
Seven or eight months later, Meng Ran gave Yin Ruining a daughter, and she was promoted to father. The whole family was immersed in the joy of importing people, but the mother said something at this time “Meng Ran’s date seems to be more than a month earlier, but the nurse said it was full-term. Don’t you think it’s weird?”
Yin Ruining understood what the mother meant, but kept saying that there were more mothers My heart, Meng Ran’s daughter must be his own, but the old man always finds this matter strange. In fact, when Meng Ran lived with his in-laws, the two sides had conflicts many times, and Yin Ruining was not there, so this contradiction has never been resolved.
After this time when the mother-in-law had doubts about the ancestry of the child, she became even more indifferent to Meng Ran. When giving birth to a son, there is no confinement, why are you so hypocritical." The tired Meng Ran didn’t take care of her body. This made her tired easily and got sick easily in the future no matter what she did. These Yin Ruining only learned later.
mother said too much about the child, Yin Ruining also began to doubt, and then he asked about a paternity agency, , whether the result is true or false, can check whether it’s true or false. The child is indeed Yin Ruining's blood. Yin Ruining and her mother-in-law breathed a sigh of relief at the same time, but Meng Ran had no intention of letting this matter happen. For this reason, the whole family had a big quarrel. The end result was that the parents moved to a nursing home to live in ,Yin Ruining does not go home for a long time. Most of the time, only Meng Ran lives with her daughter.
The child grows up day by day, Yin Ruining earns more and more money and goes home less and less. This also leads to almost zero communication between husband and wife. Every time Yin Ruining goes home, the two will inevitably quarrel. , Which also leads to a worsening relationship. However, at the beginning of 2020, Yin Ruining was unable to go out to work due to the impact of the big environment. There was one more person at home. Yin Ruining thought it could ease the relationship between husband and wife. However, Meng Ran did not expect Meng Ran to post it on the bedroom door. A QR code, as long as you enter, you need to pay, and what you do has a different price, which makes Yin Ruining feel unreasonable. However, his wife's attitude is firm, and eventually Yin Ruining has to agree, but the relationship between the husband and wife has not been obtained. ease.
After that, the nursing home where the parents-in-law lived can no longer live in. The family moved back to this house. The husband and wife conflicted, the parents-in-law conflicted, and the few parties could not meet each other. When they met, they quarreled. A direct illness in an anger resulted in death, which made the relationship between husband and wife worsened to a freezing point.
However, Meng Ran felt that he was right. In response to the cynicism of Yin Ruining's family, he even made a big funeral, let the whole family's ugliness be exposed to everyone, and finally made this marriage a must The point of divorce.
Divorced property can be divided equally, but for the house, Yin Ruining always said that it is his own. After all, the house was bought by his parents and himself at the beginning. owns 70% and father 30%. But Meng Ran came up with a real estate transfer agreement.
It turns out that there was a father-in-law and a cerebral infarction before the child was born.At that time, the situation was very dangerous. Later, the family suggested that the property rights of his father should be transferred out. Meng Ran asked to be transferred to her name after hearing this, and correspondingly gave the father-in-law 120,000 yuan in cash, so he signed a real estate transfer agreement. , And also did a notarization, but after all the procedures were completed, Meng Ran kept dragging his in-laws away from the money. After that, Yin Ruining thought he was a family, so he didn't ask for it again.
Now that she is about to divorce, Meng Ran suddenly came up with this agreement, asking Yin Ruining to pay 30% of the current house price of her house, which is about 150,000, which makes Yin Ruining unacceptable. Yin Ruining said: "Although I have cared less about her during the years of marriage, the money has never been worse. It adds up to more than 500,000 yuan. Not only did the house not give me money, but now I have to take it from me. Money, how can this be true, this woman is in the eyes of money."
but Meng Ran only replied: 12span strong9span_strong span_strong span_strong. The former husband, the father of the child did not say a word.
can see that two people who got married in less than half a year can also be said to be "flash marriages". This also causes the two to become husbands and wives without too deep emotional foundation, and lose a lot of opportunities to reconsider and break in. Let conflicts continue to accumulate, which is the root of the separation of the husband and wife.
Although it lasted for five years, but the feelings did not become strong, but thinner. This is related to Yin Ruining's wave of "god-like" operations, such as working away from home for a long time, although my mind was to give his wife Women have a better life, but do wives and daughters know? Especially the wife, what does she care more about, has Yin Ruining ever asked?
For Meng Ran’s pain,It can be seen to the naked eye that after marriage, she did not have a husband to feel distressed, and she was always in the conflict between her mother-in-law and in-laws. After pregnancy, she could only rely on herself. Her husband was not around for a long time and felt lonely and disappointed. After giving birth, she was suspected of having children. The blood relationship of Meng Ran is the most painful insult to a woman. Although in the end she was victorious and drove her in-laws to the nursing home, how could the hurt in Meng Ran's heart be so easy?
Therefore, whether it is the matter of "paying into the house" or the "white wolf with empty gloves" in the house, it feels like revenge on my heart, and I feel uneasy. Impulsive and improper, so divorce is not accidental, but inevitable. Some people may have different opinions, but if you can’t figure out many things, you can switch your identities. If you put this kind of experience on yourself, how would you do it, I feel that it’s very likely that you won’t persist for so long like Meng Ran. .
But a slap can't make a slap, which makes the marriage of the couple become the situation it is today. It is by no means a single person's problem. Yin Ruining has it, and Meng Ran also has it. Marriage is not a trivial matter. What is most needed is the joint management and communication of the husband and wife. After all, marriage is a matter for the husband and wife. Even for the sake of life, the husband and wife must not be separated for a long time, because this is harmful to the relationship.
If you love someone, you will love with your heart. If you do not love, then decisively separate. This is to let the other person also let yourself go, trusting, understanding and communicating with each other is a guarantee of a long marriage. The most important bridge, otherwise it will only be a loneliness after years of hard work, which is the pain of a lifetime. Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it!
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