Marriage Life Story 3: Should we forgive the infidelity in marriage?

Should an infidelity in marriage be forgiven? Let me introduce a few cases to you first, let's judge them together!

The first couple, they have been married for thirty years. It dates back to the early 1990s. When his wife was almost 8 months pregnant, it was discovered that the husband cheated on his female colleague. At that time, the wife wanted to kill the child and divorce her husband. However, both parents tried their best to oppose. One is that the husband swears to change his past, and the other is that the child is about to be born. It is really distressing and a pity to get rid of it. The third is that the two people still have feelings. The wife weighs the pros and cons and decides. Give her husband a chance to change and forgive him. The husband was grateful to his wife and vowed to be a good husband and father in the future. He did it. Since the birth of the child, he has become a top ten dad and a model husband. The wife only cares about breastfeeding the child. He takes care of all the rest. He takes care of his wife in every possible way. Thirty years are like a day. If there is no derailment at the beginning, I think this wife is the happiest. Woman!

The second couple have enviable careers. The husband is a small leader of a state-owned enterprise, and the wife is a national civil servant. When the child was 5 or 6 years old, the husband cheated. The wife is a face-saving person, and she is also very self-cultivation. Taking into account the occupation and status of both parties, as well as the young children, she decided to forgive her husband. At that time, the husband was also very grateful for his wife's generosity and vowed not to make mistakes. However, two years later, the husband derailed again. At that time, the child had just entered elementary school and his wife was still good-natured, so he forgave him again. In this way, the husband caught his wife's psychology and cheating became commonplace. Time and time again, the wife’s heart was broken. Finally, when the child graduated from college, the unbearable wife no longer cared about face and filed for a divorce. According to her, everyone in the city knew about it. I'm still deceiving myself, what's the point? When will this kind of life be possible? Get out of the siege, give yourself a new life, and live a wonderful second half of your life!

The third couple, the husband is the owner of the restaurant, and the wife is a company employee. The family background is very wealthy. Since the husband is busy operating the restaurant, he has no spare time to spend time with his wife, children, and children. At first, the wife was very satisfied with her life.The restaurant doesn't need to worry about her, just consume it. It’s a great time to go to work, go shopping, beautify and beautify! However, after a long time, I felt tired and crooked. I contracted mahjong. After coming and going, I cheated on a mahyou. After the husband knew, he didn't give her any chance or listen to her half-word excuses. He immediately divorced and never forgave him. !

What do you think of these three cases? Do you have an answer in your mind?

Whether you should be forgiven for infidelity in marriage, in fact, I don't say that everyone knows, there is no definite answer, whether you should forgive or not depends on your heart! Whether it is a man or a woman, one party cheated, and the other party gave forgiveness on the surface, but what about the heart? Can it really be turned over? This is a history that cannot be erased. You may not mention it again, but it will always exist in that corner of your heart. It will touch your heart from time to time. It may not be very painful, but it will definitely not. comfortable! So, what about the cheating party? If the other party forgave you, will your heart be at peace? Every day of yours is spent cautiously, always feeling guilty, no matter how good you are to the other party, it is hard to escape the suspicion of falsehood! This kind of marriage has been covered with indelible dust, and there is always a discordant note hidden!

So, those who enter marriage should cherish all you have. I am convinced that the most destructive thing to marriage is derailment! Regardless of men and women, you must manage your marriage with your heart. Don't lose your love, hurt your feelings, or lose your affection because of temporary greed!

Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it!