Quiet Life
[Personal work and miscellaneous talk]
Social Observation·Who can become a "talker"?
Small talk
"Who" might want to be a "talker" or even a "talker master"? Successful people or those who fall into the altar? Or the general public? ——Cut, it's a joke to say that. Even if "who" has that wish, I am afraid it can only be "wish"; although "who" does not have a wish for this or that? It's just that we often doubt our abilities and motives, or look forward and backward, fear the front and the tail, and talk about him. However, we can't give up easily because of the long distance between our wishes and realization, right? Although there is always an insurmountable gap between desire and reality, it often lies in front of many people.
private conversation
Although "talking" must use "language tools" to be able to appeal to reality (in the scene). Language is not only the "medium" for everyone to communicate, communicate, communicate, cooperate and coordinate with each other, but also the direct reality of emotions, ideas, or thoughts. It is precisely because of such a "weapon" that human beings stand out from the crowd, become the overlord of the biosphere, and covet discoveries in outer space. Therefore, many people always have endless words and are eager to express their own things; even if it is inadequate words, nonsense or endless talk; as for the hustle and bustle of people, how much genuine content is there, in fact, people I don't care much, as long as I don't shut up, I'm very happy. And many people are always chattering, speaking insincerely, while still thinking about things, some even forget the way under their feet, some even fall into the trap of unknown people, and they can't figure out what it is. what happened.
Happy Family
People always have to talk.Therefore, most constitutions in the world today have "freedom of speech" clauses. Of course, saying this by no means means that everyone can speak nonsense unscrupulously. Because, even if it is an ordinary common people, facing such a world and the colorful social life, there will always be many or all kinds of emotions and ideas that need to be expressed.
As for people who have a richer life experience or a good sense of themselves, there are many things they want to express. Therefore, the world has become more and more noisy, even deafening. Of course, there is no shortage of "talkers".
is still that family
and the so-called "talking" here usually refers to those who are keen on talking big, emptying cannons, gossiping, bragging, or making mysteries, and so on. It is often the most annoying; in real social life, some people may bring tangible things to some people, such as tickets, cars, house chairs, and women; while others may only give some people Take away the illusory things, such as suggestions, ideas and thoughts, and concepts, ideals, and dreams that seem to be useless.
But what is useful and what is useful? There is no universal or universal standard or model. Everything will vary from person to person.
Urban Sunrise
Maybe I dream of becoming a "useless" "talking master", or indulging in the vast fantasy sea of "personal dream-like grand narrative"? Or try to bring "warm breeze" or "Qingyuan scenery" and "spiritual inspiration" to people at least some people; or to bring appropriate "warnings" to many "lost people" . Yes, maybe it is. And if this is the case, I am afraid that it will go against the mainstream consciousness and orientation of the times? No, it's "a departure from the south". I thought it might not. Because I don’t have any qualifications or talents that can compete with the life and customs of the times; moreover,That is also "rigidity or ignorance that is overwhelming." After all, thoughts and thoughts cannot always be equated with specific behaviors; although people's behaviors are always related to their thoughts and thoughts, that is, thoughts always restrict and dominate people's actual behaviors.
quiet city
If there are only two options: "the giant of thinking, the dwarf of action." and "the dwarf of thinking, the giant of action." I would rather choose the former than to be the latter. Although both the former and the latter are abnormal and abnormal. If you can have both, then of course it is the best state of life. I am afraid that it is a pity that there are few such "lucky ones", except for those who are rare among the dragons and phoenixes, they may become "the proud son of heaven".
In fact, even if anyone can become a hypothetical "talker", at best they may be a "talker", and it is impossible to "self-elevate" to become a "talker"; after all, " People who are arrogant and arrogant are "questionable and disgusting." Moreover, it is difficult to "be worthy of the name". The so-called "under the prestige, it is actually difficult to be worthy" is what it means.
Intellectual Life
Sometimes, if we open some ancient books such as articles by hundreds of scholars, and articles written by many people in the pre-Qin, Han, Tang and Song dynasties, we have to stand in awe. For example, I occasionally read "Selected Works of Zhaoming" yesterday, and I had to admire many of them and their articles; of course, the social mystery of the Wei and Jin era has already blown into the corner of history. Those articles, regardless of their ideas, narrative or discussion methods and techniques, the use of detailed and beautiful materials, the skillful, compact and rigorous language, or the colorful literary talent, can be said to be beyond the reach of those who are very conceited today. From this perspective, don’t those people who are “flying in the sky with hydrology” really know what it means to be ashamed?
zoom in
Some people may argue,In any case, those things are already outdated and can only become historical rubbish. Yes, although history has passed, we must not deny subversion or divide it in general. After all, people today are also making history.
Besides, because social life is becoming more and more prosperous and colorful, people naturally have endless words and even endless emotions. The so-called "clear talk" here actually means nothing more than the speaker's highlighting of "speech" without restriction. Society is a "big market", and there are naturally many rules and restrictions in it. Moreover, "audiences" are not all fools. Even if they have free time, they don't necessarily like to listen to those who are not very acquainted with "talkers". "Talking chats, talks, speeches, and reports, etc.; even if they hear it, they will naturally have their own discrimination, discrimination, and judgment. After all, everyone has a scale in their hearts, right?
incomprehensible
Some people, especially those who are successful, are always eloquent, eloquent, eloquent, like to talk, so as to be a teacher; while some people are cautious in their words and deeds, pushing the deaf. Dumb, cherish ink like gold, rarely confused, knowing that many words must be wrong.
Enthusiastic art?
So, for some people who like to "talk", it is better to talk as little nonsense as possible; because everyone is very busy. If you really have any insights or good suggestions, you should also pay attention to the effectiveness, artistry, or thought of the conversation, and also look at the occasion, object, and atmosphere of the conversation. As for the fact that there are certain people with distorted minds or bad intentions in society who are so idle, unable to bear loneliness, looking for opportunities everywhere, venting their own bad emotions irresponsibly, slanderously and ostentatiously, harming others and harming the society. It won't work. If you don't make it right, you will be punished by social rules and laws, condemned by public opinion, and spurned by people. That is your own fault.
ancient blue cloud
Colorful Life
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