A good relationship, many people don’t know to cherish it when they have it. They take the other half’s goodness to them as a matter of course, and only when they lose do they know and understand the sentence: “There is no if in the world, love each other How happy you are when you are, how painful you are when you lose."
There is such a story.
The male caller is Xiaolin. Today is the 30th day of his breakup and the 9th day of continuous insomnia. Xiao Lin is a person who can fall asleep immediately after touching the bed, but now he stays up all night every day.
Xiaolin’s ex-girlfriend is Xiaoxia. They met at a friend’s gathering. They left contact information with each other that day. After getting in touch with each other later, Xiaoxia confessed to Xiaolin and then they were together. She is a very sensible and a girl who loves Kobayashi very much. Xiao Lin felt that he didn't like her so much when he was with her, but he just liked the meticulous care Xiao Xia took to him.
After half a year, the two have lived together. Xiaoxia takes care of Xiaolin's daily life in every possible way. She is very caring and listens to Xiaolin's words. Kobayashi feels that this kind of relationship, even if it is not so loving, is still very enjoyable. It can be said that it satisfies the vanity of most men.
As time went by, Xiaoxia began to take care of Xiaolin's life. He was not allowed to smoke or drink, and he was asked to go home in time after get off work and not to always go to parties to drink and sing. This situation lasted for a while, and Xiaolin finally couldn't bear such boring days. He ignored Xiaoxia’s advice and started an unrestrained life. He went out to play all day and enjoyed the feeling of not being strictly controlled by Xiaoxia’s wife. Enjoy the joy of freedom.
became too many times, and Xiaoxia couldn’t control it anymore, and never managed Xiaolin again. Later, Xiaolin went out to play.There was no more phone call from Xiaoxia to urge him home, and no message to send him home. After a while, Xiao Xia proposed to break up. Xiao Lin felt stimulated. He felt that without Xiao Xia, he could live better, he could be left unattended, and he could meet more young ladies, and then he readily agreed.
After breaking up, Kobayashi invited his friends to have a dinner at home. The wine bottles and cigarette butts were thrown away. He felt that he would never have to clean up. After several days of dinner parties, the house was messed up, smoky, and Kobayashi went well. I added a few girls' WeChat accounts, but when I wanted to chat, I didn't know what to talk about. When some girls wanted to be with him, Xiaolin also felt that food was tasteless and not in the mood at all.
Twenty days after the breakup, Xiaolin was walking down the street after get off work. When she didn't know where to go, she saw Xiaoxia. Looking from a distance, she and a boy walked and chatted happily. When approaching, Xiaolin wanted to muster the courage to say hello to her and ask her how is she doing? As a result, before she spoke, Xiao Xia walked past him directly, like a stranger. At that moment, Xiaolin felt very cold and gloomy.
finally returned home, looking at the messy living room, the dirty clothes piled up everywhere in the room, only to realize that Xiaoxia was running their small house so carefully. After she left, I thought I would live it. Very good, but the result is getting worse. A ghostly messenger, Xiao Lin clicked on Xiaoxia's circle of friends, and only when he saw that he was not informed by the other's friends, he realized that all of them were taken for granted and self-righteous. In the end, he still lost her.
In an unbalanced relationship, time will tell us that the relationship can be weakened, what has been said can not be counted, and people who have loved can change again.
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