My mother-in-law celebrates her birthday, and my husband wants to be "filial piety". I strongly oppose it, but my mother-in-law praises me for being shrewd

In today's society, with the improvement of living conditions, people's consumption level has also increased a lot, that is, at this time, a vulgar culture has penetrated into the countryside. The most obvious of these is a low-quality song and dance troupe. It plays the banner of a folk art troupe. Its performances have nothing to do with culture and art. Some even rely on some vulgar performances to attract eyeballs in order to make money. Purpose.

What makes people even more puzzled is that some people use money to invite such performances as a means of filial piety. The old man passed away, in order to show his "filial piety", he hired a certain song and dance troupe with a lot of money to perform in front of his house and perform various vulgar performances. When their parents passed their birthdays, some people would not hesitate to spend money to show their "filial piety", and use various vulgar performances in front of their homes to satisfy their vanity.

My husband and I live in the city, and my in-laws live in the countryside. My husband’s family is a big family, and there are often various things we want to participate in. In fact, they are all courtesy matters, and there is a special kind of showing off wealth. When children get married, folk song and dance troupes are invited to perform various kinds of performances, and the old people die, and folk song and dance troupes are also invited, which are also some untimely performances. To move to a new home, or to spend money to invite those so-called folk song and dance troupes. And some people actually take pride in spending more money.

Some time ago, my husband went back to his hometown to attend the funeral of an elder. This deceased old man had three sons and his life was fine.

It is said that it is difficult for the old man to see his three sons coming home during his lifetime. They all say that they are busy with work. Although the old man does not worry about eating and drinking, he will be left unattended if he feels sick.

Now that the old man has passed away, his three sons have shown their "filial piety". At a high price, a well-known folk song and dance troupe was invited. I also invited various juggling, blowing, playing and singing, and various performances in front of the door for five days.

After that, people followed suit one after another, showing their "filial piety" and showing that they were "not bad for money." The old rural simple life was destroyed and distorted. .

Recently, an old man passed his birthday. His son also showed his "filial piety". He invited the most famous folk song and dance troupe around him, set up a stage at the door, and performed various performances all day long.

The old man is in the backyard and doesn't know what he is doing outside. I just heard that my son prepared a big "filial piety" for him outside, and that's it. Often the "filial piety" of children can be reflected in this.

Mother-in-law’s birthday is also coming. My husband is discussing with a few sisters and is preparing a gift for her mother-in-law to show her filial piety. Of course, this gift is nothing more than following the customs.

Seeing that my mother-in-law’s birthday is getting closer and closer, the final decision is about to be finalized. The plan is also to ask the folk song and dance troupe to toss in front of the door for a day to let others see our family’s life, and it’s not bad for money.

I can't get used to this kind of mental state, and my personality is also straightforward. I directly attacked my husband: "You don't have that filial piety. What's the use of having so many fake filial piety? You deceive yourself."

husband is a little unconvinced. I can’t have less money than others.”

I continued to say: “Your filial piety is for others to see, and your understanding of filial piety is wrong. Who told you to spend money to invite a song and dance troupe to show others. Is there filial piety? I didn’t understand what filial piety is.Still clamoring to do their filial piety all day long. "

husband was reminded by my words: "It is really meaningless, but other people are like this, I will be laughed at by others if I don't do this"

I directly stated my attitude: "You can be filial. But this method does not work. This method just spends the money in useless places, and the slightest filial piety is not fulfilled.

I went on to say: "Your so-called filial piety is what you think. Have you ever asked your mother-in-law whether he likes it or not?

's husband was shaken by what I said. He called the eldest sister to discuss, and asked the elder sister to ask her mother, do you like to spend money on those singing and dancing troupes on your birthday?

My aunt told her husband later that she didn’t like those things and she didn’t understand what kind of art it was. It was more vulgar than the other.

The husband finally changed his plan and got the mother’s opinion. From Jane, for birthdays, the whole family can be happy and lively, why bother to compare with each other?

The day my mother-in-law knew that I had prevented my husband from spending money to invite a folk song and dance troupe, she was so happy that she couldn’t keep her mouth shut. I praised that I would live a life, and I am a shrewd daughter-in-law.

Actually, I don’t know how to live, but I really can’t figure out whether I have filial piety. What does it have to do with them?

Advice:

Some people’s filial piety is for others to show.So it is easy to yaw.

Filial piety is our traditional virtue. If it is biased by some other things, it is losing our tradition. Lost our roots.

I’m Xiaohai, just follow me if you like it!

welcome to comment below!