Foreword: The 7th census of 2021 was exposed, and the number of marriages broke a new low. There will be more than 30 million bachelors who will not be able to marry a wife. On the contrary, the problem of leftover women in big cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou is particularly prominent. A life without marriage is an incomplete life, and a life without love is a pale and powerless life.
Let’s listen to the narratives of 34-year-old rural takeaway brother Li Guang, “It’s OK to find a second marriage” and 38-year-old urban white-collar Sun Xiao, “I would rather die alone than help the poor”.
Li Guang, 34 years old, takeaway brother
I am now 34 years old in a small city in Waimai, Henan Province. 34-year-old Li Guang is small and small, with a dark face under his yellow helmet. There are three sisters in my family. Their parents face the loess and back the sky and have been farming for a living. I graduated from junior high school at the age of 16 and worked at home. I learned how to cook and electric welding. I also followed others in car. At that time, the salary was low, a few hundred yuan a month, and I left enough for my living expenses to give to my family. Later, my father cerebral thrombosis couldn't farm the land, so he contracted out the land, which was considered income. In our rural areas, the average lads on the 18th and 19th became a matchmaker. The conditions in my family are too poor. I came to this city at the age of 28 and started to do takeaways. I rented a house for about 1,000 yuan a month. Excluding my daily expenses, I can save 4,000 to 5,000 yuan a month, but I have to subsidize the family. My sister is still going to school. It's not good. Speaking of marriage, Li Guang smiled bitterly and said that my neighbors, relatives and my age are all two babies. I am still single. Just find a second marriage. We don’t dislike others. We just need to live without a house. Rent a house first and believe that life will get better and better.
Sun Xiao,38 years old, urban white-collar workers
38-year-old Sun Xiao, slender body, fair skin, white-collar workers in second-tier cities. She whispered: My parents are both high school teachers and an intellectual family. I also graduated from college with a major in teacher training. Later, he joined a media company as a photography editor. I love my job and life. As for being single until now, maybe the fate has not come. I talked about an unforgettable long-distance relationship during college. Like most people, I broke up after graduation because I was not in a city. After joining the work, I went through a lot of blind dates and never met a suitable one. Stop and go, and in a blink of an eye, it's almost time for no doubt. Regarding the future, I have also thought about it. I really can’t find a suitable one and I will die alone. My parents have pensions and I have a salary. When it comes to whether he will marry in the county seat, Sun Xiao vetoed it in one fell swoop, and resolutely not. What I am looking for is love that is the icing on the cake, and I will never help the poor.
Conclusion: Goethe said that if there is no love in this world, will have any meaning in our hearts, and it will be like a span2. How can there be so many beautiful clothes and jade food in this world? As long as we are all working hard for life, love will come quietly and it will happen naturally.
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