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My man and I are destined to be enemies who love and kill each other. Today, the protagonist of this article is me and him, my two children, he is a Scorpio man.
In the past, I disdain to learn about constellations. I feel that this thing is a deceptive thing. It is purely because someone is full and has nothing to do to relieve boredom.
I had a whim that day, because I happened to see the constellation video column on Douyin, and I felt it. Several million fans of the constellation column were read from beginning to end. It was really rewarding. It will be of great benefit to the rest of my life.
Ask everyone a question: Do you really know your significant other? Do you know his weakness? Do you know what kind of state you usually use to get along with him? Do you know why you quarrel endlessly? Do you know the true emotional state of people like them?
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After that incident, I had too many questions in my mind. I kept thinking about it every day, turning myself into a hundred thousand why? I often can't sleep in the middle of the night, and when I am angry, I will send him a small composition. I am uncomfortable, so don't think about it!
He is very guilty of his mistakes and is always making up. As long as the things I send in the past are not particularly excessive, he can respond in time and patiently answer them. When I got home, he looked at me in a depressed state, the whole state was not good, and said, if you really can't let go, if you really can't get through, then I will go! He really drove him away, and he was shameless again, dragging him to leave.
What should I do?
I feel that I have fallen into a dead end, my future is dark, there must be no way out, because that damn incident took away all my joy and smile! I hate him, I have always spoken bluntly to him.
What is even more terrifying is that I fell into deep suspicion of him. I felt that he was a liar in disguise. He couldn't do anything to trust me. Without feelings of trust, what should I do? Do i know him? In the past, he was a very simple man, he was not bad-hearted, his mind was simple and not complicated. My daughter and I often laughed at him as stupid—but that was before.
Who is he now? I don't understand, but it feels terrible. I have a feeling of being stabbed by the person next to the pillow. I nicknamed him the Guru of Stabbing. I sneered at all his intimacy and flattery, he took the initiative to show his favor, and I immediately blocked it with his amorous encounters.
I am a proud twin! What's wrong with me? How can he be defeated by the Scorpio man?
I have been married to him for 21 years, and he has told me more than once: "You woman is too smart, not good!" You can really see through people's hearts at a glance, be a woman, be a little confused, and be a little stupid to be happy!
It’s a pity that I didn’t deliberately try to figure out people’s minds. I usually rearrange all the details, find important information from them, and then get the results I want. This seems to be a Gemini person, and life Innate talent! A Scorpio has a strong desire to control the other half, but he is mostly powerless when facing a Gemini woman.
During his derailment, I was aware of it. However, we have already passed the wedding and honeymoon period for too long, too long. We have daily concerns, but the connection is not close.
I believe that all Gemini people know that they are a very entangled personality. They have a light feeling about everything, a little hopeless, otherworldly, and then they are entangled to death. For feelings, you can be crazy about love, but you will love less and less, and you will be crazy for the people you admire. Most of the days, you just hope that the people around you leave yourself as far away as possible.
In life, the most common vocabulary I say is: I'm so bored! Keep away from me, I want to be quiet!
Scorpio’s personality characteristic is that their attitude towards people is like a mirror, he will give you all the things you give him, no more, no less just right. If he feels coldly received, he may not say anything, but he will slowly pull away until he disappears.
When we were in love, neither of us was the best choice for each other at the time. Regarding this relationship, neither of us admitted that it was our own initiative.
In the eyes of outsiders, he and I are weird people, but when we were young, we had a good relationship with the opposite sex. We had a lot of pursuits before marriage and we had first love. I am the woman with the best comprehensive conditions among the women he can reach, and the Gemini woman also looks at her face when choosing a mate, paying more attention to feelings, and selectively ignoring other necessary conditions.
The evil result is that after getting married, I kept emphasizing to him that his condition was the poor financial condition of my predecessor. At first, he laughed and joked with me, and his smile gradually became a little stiff. , Sometimes there will be repetition and aftertaste, I haven't thought about it carefully, how lethal these words are for him?
A Scorpio man, dating and marrying him, is really abusive. They are a crazy species with extreme selfishness, overwhelming possessiveness, unpredictable personality, and hot. They need constant care and love from their spouses. They need hugs and constant confession. Sometimes, they give people a feeling of insanity, and I was born. One thought: We must have cast the wrong baby, I should have been a man!
For a long time after getting married, this man is very unconfident, afraid of betrayal, afraid of being dumped, afraid of being coldly treated, afraid of being ignored, constantly stimulating you with words, sticking to you every day and getting tired of you. My cell phone is basically silent, because there are not many calls, but when you make a call, people will listen with their ears. Watching the news secretly in the bed at night, people will come from another room and snatch it in an instant. They want to catch him and see which man you are sending messages to?
Thinking that he had been betrayed by others, I will bear it! I took everything as an expression of his love for me, and I was a little bit happy.
We have had fierce quarrels, have tortured, and we have come to the edge of divorce several times. Fortunately, Gemini is a cold-hearted person. There is no special love, no special hatred, no special There is nothing I can't live without. His coercion and temptation are useless to me. I am just a little scared. I am afraid that he, who has an extreme personality, will really do stupid things.
Scorpio’s character is really difficult to deal with, especially with a pure-hearted woman like me,We all feel tired when we get along. But Scorpio people are very persistent, they will not easily fall in love, once they fall in love with someone, unless the other person betrays themselves, otherwise they will love for a lifetime. Their love will not fade away over time. They hope to use all their strength and the rest of their lives to pour their love, protect it, and get the satisfaction of their own love.
I don't understand him, at least in the past 20 years, I only feel tired, feel too bitter to be entangled, and question the correctness of my choice! I don't want him to stay at home. I feel more at home when I am alone.
I have been together for a long time, and the mood between husband and wife is the same. They are too able to guess each other's thoughts. Are you enthusiastic or indifferent to him? Everyone knows it!
When we were together before, he would play coquettishly in front of you, hug you around and stalker and ask you: Do you love me? Why never say it? Otherwise it is: Why have you never heard you call my name? Also: When you were in love, what did you think of me?
Do you love me? I have always skipped this question selectively. Don't want to pry open the mouths of the two children and take out this sentence, about who you love or not? They don't know it themselves, it's possible, they don't even love themselves very much, they are surprisingly cold, and they don't even love others! So my 19-year-old daughter said that being my husband is very unlucky because I always have an indifferent attitude.
What is the name? How do you call it? Kiss baby, husband, brother? Can't say it! I was born in a family with very strict tutoring. I used to behave sternly. When I called him, I added an old character before his last name. I was not satisfied. My brothers in my husband’s family often teased me. He also works all year round. Not at home, but later ignored, without a title, just talk about something. Now, it is still the case.
He called me, and when he was particularly angry, he would yell at my name, and I would generally be furious with a look of contempt on his face. When he is happy, he will call my nickname just like his parents. This is really possible! I like!
When you are in love,What did he fancy, who took the initiative first?
Who is the first to take the initiative? I am also very curious about this question!
Gemini and Scorpio have the same characteristics, that is, people they don't like, and they are not particularly fond of objects. No matter how you fanatically pursue them, it's useless, unless he wants to! Therefore, the two of us can only be regarded as attracting each other. At this point, we do not win or lose, and we quickly reach an agreement.
What did I fancy him?
I can only say that I took a fancy to his alternative, I took a fancy to him to be different from other men, I took a fancy to him not blindly licking a dog, from his body, I saw myself Of the same category! This is fatal to me.
There is a great psychologist who said that the person who gets married is mostly looking for the self that was missing in childhood. I believe it!
I really saw my own shadow from him, I saw that lonely, not very gregarious person, some versatile, some arrogant and alternative, a bit unruly, but I really want to return to normal. Crowd, we are all people who lack love!
We used to really love each other deeply. Even if we let go, we will entangle each other for a long time, because we still have nostalgia and unwillingness.
I used to use the curse of wheel warfare, and almost forced him to collapse. He was furious and replied: Stop swearing! Don't make me swear! I know I was wrong, but even so, I can't help you toss like this endlessly. If our marriage breaks up, you will drive me away. If I decide to let go, I won’t be able to pull back ten cows!
As a person, I can lose anything, but I can't lose face, and then he scolded him back. He replied a few words, and then stayed still for a long time, no longer accepting moves, and ignoring me. At night, send me a text message: Come back later, leave me the door, thank you!
In my opinion, the proud Scorpio surrendered. This is a symbol of his softness to me.I decided to give him a step down, and I returned him a text message: Are you still there? Almost thought you would not come back from elopement!
In this way, we have an intermission, preparing for the next round of tearing.
I once asked him a question, he gave me a specious answer, and now I have an accurate answer myself, I will keep it, and will not use it for revenge.
I asked him: They all say that men are not willing to give up a relationship. There is a high probability that this relationship will not end. I ask you, under what circumstances would you choose to divorce?
The answer he gave is available in other articles.
A Scorpio man generally has two manifestations: He has invested all his enthusiasm and sincerity in a relationship, but he feels more and more passive and cold, and the feeling of disrespect, neglect and slowness is getting stronger and stronger. At the time, they will question each other’s love, fear that the other person will abandon themselves, and fear that the other person will empathize with each other. When the two parties negotiate to no avail, they will not be able to get out of this relationship for a while, and will choose to empathize. The way of love comes first to escape. If you encounter the right person outside, Scorpion will break up with the person at home. It's just that Scorpion doesn't love it anymore.
Another kind, the most intolerable thing for a Scorpio man is the betrayal of the other side.
Regardless of the situation, as long as the Scorpio man firmly chooses to break up, it is generally a true breakup and never look back! I know that if he does not stalk and fight, I will let go. As for whether I will regret it after the divorce? I'm really not sure!
Tsundere's twin children, in fact, also have weaknesses. They look crystal clear, and their performance is light and windy. In fact, they are very fragile inside. Even if they want to keep each other, they will stubbornly refuse to speak, and would rather miss it, no hesitate! Even if it is low self-esteem to stay, words are more like declaration of war and threats. Only those who understand her can truly enter their hearts.
So, even though there was a problem with our marriage, we decided to fix it and move on.
Because I understand, so have mercy! Because of cherishment, so be compassionate! Because I still love you, I am not willing to let go easily!
Thank you for your support.(The picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted)
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