1. Don’t kidnap son-in-law or family love to son-in-law
Son-in-law is not obligated to support his parents-in-law. Although the law stipulates this, in real life, most son-in-laws still help their wives to support their parents-in-laws. Not why, just for the sake of my conscience.
Perhaps it is precisely because of the son-in-law’s love for son-in-law, that patriarchal or insensitive parents-in-law will be insatiable, and the lion will open his mouth and put forward more excessive demands, demanding that the son-in-law meet one by one.
, after being rejected, even offered to support the elderly. In the face of such rude parents-in-law, the son-in-law can stand by. But for the sake of his wife, the son-in-law will most likely be willing to be satisfied, even if he knows that this is a kidnapping by family.
2. His wife's monthly salary is 6000, and she pays 3000
When she fell in love, Lin Bo knew very well that his wife is a filial daughter. Even if she only has 6,000 yuan in salary per month, she will send it back to her parents 4,000. When two people live together, Limbo basically bears all the rent and living expenses.
When he got married, Limbo also worried about this issue, but he thought that after marriage, his wife would definitely put the family as the most important thing, so he tried his best to persuade his parents to agree to this marriage.
The marriage house is bought by the parents with a down payment, and the mortgage is paid by Limbo, so the pressure on the couple is not too great. More often, Limbo's salary alone is enough to support the whole family. The wife’s salary is saved for her own expense.
In the first year after getting married, Lin Bo learned that not only did his wife not converge after getting married, but instead got worse. The parents-in-law asked her to honor 3,000 a month, and the wife still had to be responsive. Even after having children, his wife has not changed.
until after the son is born,As the expenses increased, the two of them were stretched out immediately. The wife can no longer subsidize her parents and younger brother as she likes before, and the parents-in-law also have great opinions on this.
3. The 58-year-old mother-in-law forcibly moved into her son-in-law’s house, only to obtain the down payment for her son’s house purchase
Later, the son became ill and needed a large sum of money for surgery. But she was driven out of the house by her mother-in-law, saying that other people's daughters had posted money to her natal family, and the wife asked for money from her natal family.
Later, Limbo’s parents sold a small house, and only then did they collect the surgery fee and let his son turn the crisis into peace. After experiencing this incident, the wife's heart for her natal family slowly faded. The parents-in-law made various requests as always, but the wife selectively met them.
When the parents-in-law once again asked his wife to give his brother-in-law a down payment of 300,000 yuan to buy a wedding house, the wife simply refused, and did not answer the phone call from her mother-in-law for ten and a half months. The mother-in-law was not reconciled, and simply moved into Limbo's house with luggage.
Looking at the uninvited mother-in-law, Lin Bo couldn't drive people, so she could only accept her mother-in-law, hoping that she would go home after a few days of trouble. As a result, after the mother-in-law came, there was no peace at home.
The mother-in-law asks for money from his wife for three days, and she does not leave the money. Even after the wife refuses in angrily, the mother-in-law still confidently said that this is the obligation of the daughter-in-law. .
Regarding the mother-in-law's stubborn face, Limbo can't do anything about it. Because of his feelings and reason, he couldn't drive his mother-in-law out of the house. After all, once he was burdened with unfilial filial naming, he would be laughed at for a lifetime.
In the end, Lin Bo compromised. He discussed with his wife that if it doesn't work, he would borrow 100,000 yuan from his friends and send his mother-in-law home.Because Lin Bo is really unreasonable to make trouble with his mother-in-law.
But this time the wife is very stubborn and persistent, saying that this time she has compromised, there will be countless times. What's more, this time it is buying a house, next time it may be decoration, and next time it will be the younger brother's betrothal and wedding, and the mortgage for raising children. Even if they borrow from relatives and friends, they will not be able to fill the hole in the natal family. She really doesn't want to be an ATM for parents and sons anymore.
Hearing what his wife said, Lin Bo couldn't help being afraid for a while. It's just that this stalemate is not a solution. In the end, the wife cruelly threw the mother-in-law’s luggage out of the door and severed her relationship with her mother-in-law, and the matter came to an end temporarily.
The mother-in-law often calls and scolds his wife for being a white-eyed wolf and ungrateful. Although his wife didn't say anything, Limbo could still feel her chill and sadness. But his wife has never compromised, and Lin Bo loves his wife, but has nothing to do.
4. Parents are kidnapped by family, and it is the daughter who hurts most often. Stop loss in time. Perhaps the wife finally understands that she has become an ATM for her parents to raise her son. No matter how much she pays, the parents will not be satisfied.
Parents’ unreasonable troubles, and it’s the daughter who hurts the most. For the sake of her family, her daughter risked being divorced and gave money to her parents to support her younger brother. But in the end, when I was in difficulties and needed help, my parents chose to stand by.
The kidnapping of the parents’ affection will push the daughter and son-in-law further. Because they can't blame their parents for not, but they can avoid their parents' kidnapping. Although it seems unfilial, this is also their helpless move.
Today's topic:
Do you support Limbo's wife?
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