Managing a relationship is not that difficult, but it is also not that simple.
Regardless of whether you are a couple or a lover, try not to do some things in your relationship, otherwise the relationship will not last forever.
For example, these three things must not be overdrawn: confidence, patience, and sacrifice.
do not consume the "confidence"
"or come to divorce this step."
The friend sighed deeply after saying this.
The sixth sense of women is sometimes amazing. Especially for the person who is most familiar with the pillow, a little unusual sign,It can be noticed immediately.
Determine the husband’s abnormality, starting from the moment you see the chat history.
She is used to going to bed early, but her husband often plays games until early morning. She goes to work during the day. Although she also resents that the other party often plays games in the middle of the night, it is true that only at night everyone has time to relax, so she doesn't want to talk too much.
until I accidentally saw the chat content and said "baby", she woke her up.
The two had a big fuss about this, and the husband did not hide it, frankly they were the female netizens who were playing games together, and they didn't pay attention to the chat. I also specially emphasized: "Not in the same city, nothing, don't make a fuss."
After finishing speaking, she also reprimanded her for not peeking at her phone and disrespecting her privacy.
At the end of the noise, the woman shed tears and the man sighed.
Since then, my friends have a hurdle,Can't help but want to look at the other party's phone. After that, the man appeared to be generous, but every message in the phone was deleted cleanly.
The confidence to get along for many years has been wiped out. Distrust takes root in the hearts of friends.
Regardless of whether a couple or a lover, the relationship between the two people is no longer strong since the first time their confidence is consumed.
After each opacity, the snowball of "you lie to me" is rolling sharply. The seemingly peaceful relationship will always break out once, and the relationship will break irreparably.
The more intimate the relationship, the less able to overdraw "confidence."
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not forgotten the "patience"
a couple,When it comes to eating, women always show an expression of impatientness.
The reason is that a man always shakes the top of the plate before picking up a dish before removing the chopsticks. Women think it's rude to eat like this.
Men insist that this is a long-standing habit, not that they can be changed by changing them, they will pay attention to it in the future.
After every meal, the woman will stare at each other's chopsticks as soon as the dishes are on the table, and he will give a reminder as long as he shakes it.
Men are also very angry, feel that such things are always talking about endlessly, the more they do this, the more they shake to show you. As a result, from eating a meal to any unpleasant details in daily life, the two had a fight.
Such scenarios are actually quite common in relationships.
Although the physical distance between two people is very close, the distance in their hearts is getting further and further because of the loss of "patience".
arguing over trivial matters,I'm stuck in my heart and want to play against the opponent to the end, whoever takes a step back loses.
Whether a couple or a lover, with the mentality of "annoying when you see him, you will get angry when you see him", this relationship is about to come to an end.
quarrels full of anger at first, and then indifference to lose their voice.
The patience disappeared, and when the problem occurred again, the two of them were too lazy to even quarrel, and only bored, and the rest was life.
do not live up to 'sacrifice heart "
the past two days have been thinking about things, quite It's embarrassing.
A reader friend, he resigned when he had a bright future, in order to help his boyfriend who wanted to start a business. I am reluctant to eat and wear, so I take out all my savings and accompany her boyfriend to develop business.
Falling in love with a poor boy is not for fame and fortune. They have been together for many years and accompany each other in their careers, starting from nothing.
Her biggest dream is to have a happy family with her boyfriend.
Now a well-known boyfriend in the industry, he feels that with his current status and wealth, the girl is no longer worthy of him.
This reminds me of my favorite actor, Chen Daoming teacher.
When Chen Daoming met his wife Du Xian, he was just a actor. At that time, Du Xian was already a well-known anchor of CCTV.
In order to support Chen Daoming's career, let him focus on fighting. In his spare time, Du Xian took on all the big and small things in their lives.
Later,Chen Daoming's career is getting smoother and busier. Du Xian once thought about resigning to take care of the family wholeheartedly. But Chen Daoming understands his wife's hard work and does not want his wife to sacrifice her career for the family.
So even at the peak period, he can hardly refuse some work and try to make time to take care of the family. He encourages his wife to go for further education, supports his wife's career struggles, and does what he likes.
For so many years, we have gone hand in hand, sacrificed for each other and achieved each other's achievements, which is really enviable.
In fact, if two people live together, there is always something to sacrifice. The lover's "sacrifice heart" is voluntary, but it cannot be taken for granted.
Being too self-centered and not considering the other party, it is natural to enjoy the other party's "sacrifice", which is the most chilling.
1span The more people who love to deposit in the bank, the more people who went to the bank, said:The richer you are, on the contrary, if you keep withdrawing money from it, your account will soon be empty.
Regardless of whether you are a couple or a lover, you must keep in mind that there are some things that cannot be overdrawn.
Confidence, patience, and sacrifice are such feelings that can last forever!
