Foreword:
What do you think about living together? Do you think this kind of relationship is a couple or a couple? Aunt Zeng broke up with a man for 10 days, and then Aunt Zeng said, "We are not a husband and wife if we just live in a partnership. Why do we have to fulfill the obligations of husband and wife?" What's the matter? Let's take a look.
Aunt Zeng's narrative:
I am a woman who pays great attention to dressing up. I think that as a woman, I must make myself beautiful, and my wife is also very supportive. He said that he is responsible for making money and supporting the family, and I am responsible for being beautiful and beautiful. As long as I am beautiful, he feels very happy, and then he has the motivation to work. After getting the support of my wife, I dress myself more carefully. When I have free time, I go to do beauty treatments. I often go shopping with friends. Women really rely on dressing. I used to be a pretty ordinary woman, but because I dress myself carefully, then I become more and more It's getting more and more beautiful. Once I met my old friend, my old friend was very surprised. I didn't expect me to be so beautiful now.
My husband and I are also very affectionate, he said that he likes me very beautiful, and I like him very much, because he takes care of me very much, and is very tolerant of me, I think we are very good match , Our two personalities are very compatible, we rarely quarrel together, and we will consider each other, in the eyes of many people, we are a model couple.
and my husband and I are planning our life after retirement. We plan to go back to the countryside after retirement, rent a house in the country, and then live a life back home, raising some chickens and some vegetables. , Simply, I think this kind of life is very good.
But before we retire, my wife passed away,The world is really unpredictable, everything was planned, but in the end something like this happened. I was really sad at that time. I washed my face in tears for three months, and finally came out slowly from behind, and then began to face life. .
At that time I lived alone. My son wanted me to live with them, but because I have not retired yet, so there is no way to go. At that time, I was busy at work, so I was not so lonely. I retired later. After retiring, I went to live with my son’s house for a month, but I was very uncomfortable living with my son’s house, so I went back to my own house and lived there. When I was free, I went out to play with my friends. Sometimes I would travel, and I met Mr. Zhang later.
Mr. Zhang looks gentle, looks like an intellectual, and is very polite to people. I think he should be a better man and think he should take care of me. I also asked my friend what he meant, and my friend thought he was pretty good, so I tried to associate with him later.
At that time his sons and daughters did not agree with me to be with him, because her sons and daughters think their family's financial situation is better, they think I am coveting their family's money, so they are with their father and heard them like this When I said it, I found it ridiculous. Although my financial condition is not as good as theirs, I am not short of money. I also have a pension. My own pension is enough for my old age, and my son is also very obedient. Now I work in a big city and have a salary of more than 20,000 a month. He will send me money every month, so I don’t have to worry about money. I don’t know what they think. I feel that I am greedy for their family’s money. , Maybe you feel too good about yourself, right?
I followed Mr. Zhang to live in a partnership. The two lived together, but they didn’t get a marriage certificate. Her children felt that this way was not bad. The two lived together without financial disputes. , Is to simply take care of each other.
I thought I had compromised so much,It will bring happiness, but later I found out that I was wrong. No one would care about your compromise. They even thought that was what you should do. After I lived with Mr. Zhang, Mr. Zhang’s children sent their children over. Let me take care of him, and they come back to eat all day and let me cook the family’s meals. I complained to Mr. Zhang, but Mr. Zhang said that this is a husband and wife obligation. I married him and I have to take care of him. family.
When I heard Mr. Zhang say this, I felt a little strange. First of all, I did not marry him. I just lived with him. It stands to reason that I have no obligation, and even if I marry him I did not have the obligation to take care of their whole family. The couple lived together, and the housework was originally one and half of the housework. Later I said to Mr. Zhang: "We are just living together as a team, so why should I fulfill the obligations of husband and wife?" Mr. Zhang because I was angry when I said that. I thought I was too careless and kicked me out later. I thought it was funny, but I think it’s okay to come out. I don’t want to live in their house at all. I partnered with Mr. Zhang. For ten days, through these ten days of working together, I have seen through Mr. Zhang's family. Their family is selfish and considers their own interests in everything, and is completely ignorant of others.
Concluding remarks:
Mr. Zhang and his family are really selfish. They all consider their own interests. It is better to separate.
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