Use these 3 tricks to snub a woman, she can't help but chase you

2021/05/1122:51:22 emotion 1113

Want a girl to chase after you?

Well, men must first learn not to chase .

This is the same as going hunting in the forest. A smart hunter will not keep chasing the prey, but will set traps in advance and enjoy the success.

And I don't know if you guys have noticed one thing, it's really hard to chase girls!

You talk all kinds of sweet words, women think you are a scumbag;

You make up your mind to make a vow eachother, why do women think you are so vulgar?

You pay with all your heart, women treat you like a dog, and in the end you have nothing!

In the past, everyone felt that as long as they had capital, they would definitely have advantages, such as money, good looks, good technology, caring and so on.

Indeed, if you have a certain amount of capital, you can walk a little easier on the road of pursuit, but it is not a one-size-fits-all pursuit! The key still depends on whether you suit the appetite of other girls.

You say you are rich, you are willing to chase after her and give gifts, but people like men with good skills, results in you are extremely fast for 10 seconds, no matter how rich you are, people still don’t like it.

So, if wants to make love easier, you might as well learn to do it in reverse, make yourself the person girls want to pursue, and use all your capital to match the person who happens to like you. In this way, women become the demand , and we are the suppliers, isn't this a successful wave of anti-election?

So how do you make women take the initiative to chase after you? It is mainly divided into two aspects: ①Learn not to chase and keep and balance; ②Provide girls with your value to guide the pursuit.

There are always strange things in our day and age.

People who become friends are not necessarily real friends. Strangers can also see the and circle of friends of each other. There is no need to go through the process of falling in love, just type on the keyboard.

is easy to make men have an illusion.

Well, she chatted with me, she must have a crush on me too!

She liked my circle of friends, she must be following me very much!

Just across the screen of the mobile phone, the small abacus in your heart is very obvious, so without talking twice, the sentence "I like you, be my girlfriend" came out.

what? Do you think I'm bad?

That must be because you don't understand me!

So, you start to give the girl some takeaways and all kinds of good morning and good night greetings every day, and obey her every day.

There are thousands of roads, you have to force yourself to lick the dog!

Often the final result is: you treat her very well, but you get nothing, get a good person card, or even get blocked and rejected.

You have to complain to buddy . I am so good to her that I have lost everything. Do you think she is raising fish?

But have you ever thought that the two of you don't know much about each other, you can express your love easily without even figuring out how many people in her family, like it so quickly, and give up so quickly, who would dare Believe in your sincerity?

Let me speak from the point of view of women, in their eyes, it is just one sentence: "Chasing girls is like a weasel greeting a chicken for the New Year, and smart people know that they are not at ease."

You think you are madly courting, but in fact, the more you do it, the easier it is to arouse their disgust. Because girls know too well, your goodness to her is a "sugar-coated cannonball" with a purpose!

So why do I keep emphasizing not to let everyone chase girls?

Because you choose to be with a woman, the most basic requirement is: get along well with .

Think about it, when you like a girl, once you If the purpose is too strong, the other party will definitely be disgusted, then there will only be two situations, either you will not be able to control your mentality because you can't get the results you want, and you will be very impatient; or you will be unwilling to pay for her, feeling I really lost a lot of money.

You have been placed in a "low position" by her, and your relationship is destined to embark on a deformed road, and it is difficult for this relationship to have a good outcome.

There are also many videos of "licking the dog being rejected by the goddess cruelly". They carefully arranged a romantic confession. As a result, the girl refused directly in front of everyone's eyes. The man didn't give up and threatened the other party: "You won't agree to me. , I can't get up on my knees here!"

Do you think that in such a relationship, even if a girl is willing to give you some pity and touch, can you have love together?

So, when you meet a girl you like, don't rush to do it, do the following three things first:

1, keep a good attitude What exactly does that mean!

You say she likes me, but often ignores me inexplicably , you say she doesn't like me, she sometimes takes the initiative to chat with me, what kind of medicine is sold in this gourd?

want me to say, the answer is very simple, is not a woman's heart is hard to guess, but you are too nervous.

When she takes the initiative to contact you, you go boldly, and when she doesn't look for you, you just do your own thing and relax a little, so that you can be in a happy state.

2, don’t be too flattering to each other

Let me give a small example, the girl you like invites you for dinner temporarily today, you immediately asks the boss for leave, specially made a new hairstyle, and agreed with your buddies to have a drink together at night The bureau was also quickly dismissed. You felt that this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Even if you were asked to wait for her for two hours, you would be willing.

Seeing that it's the weekend again, you think that the girls took the initiative last time, and this time you took the initiative to ask her out, but they replied directly: "There is something to do tomorrow", you can only silently say: "Okay, Then wait until you're done."

Slowly, all the arrangements between you have to accommodate her time and wishes, so don't always ask me: " Yuchen, why did she hold me so tightly? "

" because you handed over the initiative to the other party! "

So, in the process of getting along with a girl, you don't have to focus on her and let her decide everything. You have no bottom line for yourself, so how can others take you seriously?

So you might as well reply when she is looking for you temporarily: "Ah, but I have a party today, how about I invite you on the weekend? "On the one hand, he expresses his social value, on the other hand, he prepares the ground for the next invitation, and also saves face for women.

3, don't seconds immediately return she

some big straight men, sometimes even chatting. I was in a hurry to meet immediately. As a result, I couldn’t find a suitable topic when meeting, and I couldn’t pick up what the other party said. The atmosphere was awkward, and the relationship between the two was over.

Everyone said that sharpening a knife is not enough By mistake, you have neither sharpened your knife nor practiced your kung fu well. It is all wasted effort.

So I suggest that you start chatting to get to know each other slowly, know each other's preferences, and what you have in common with each other. Points, future plans, etc., and no matter what time it is, don't rush to reply to her right away. Unless you are very confident in your emotional intelligence and logic.

Because men and women think completely differently, they don't like it Boys always make comments straight and straight, but like to use some obscure and curvilinear words to let boys understand by themselves. :play games.

man: what are you doing?

female: You guess

, so if you can guess her thoughts, then the two of you are souls that fit together. If you have a good understanding of each other, your relationship will naturally be closer. Time."

Try to put away your bluntness, think about the meaning behind every word she says, and how you should answer to get extra points, it's much more effective than saying something that makes her angry in seconds.

As long as we do the above three points well, basically we will not make too many mistakes. In order to promote the development of the relationship, must guide women to take the initiative to like you and stimulate the urge to be with you.

has a core, everyone remember: provides your value for girls.

I know that when I write here, there are brothers who want to be discouraged and say that I am poor and worthless!

are big men, don't give up so quickly, okay?

Everyone has their own value, maybe you just didn't find it.I have summed up these points, you can try it out:

If good looks are your value, then you can help a girl match her clothes in getting along with her, discuss dressing skills together, and even exchange them. Dressing and matching can bring the distance invisibly;

If you are a little introverted, but very considerate, then you can directly express your shyness to girls, which will be better than hiding and tucking the other party's bad feelings Many: "I rarely go out with girls. I'm a little nervous this time, and I don't know what to say. Why don't we watch a movie together to ease the atmosphere?"

Then you can use your intimate advantages to complement your introversion , such as buying hot milk tea in advance, reminding her to pay attention to the steps in the dark passage of cinema , maybe this is also a good opportunity to hold hands.

If you are very professional and do a good job in your field, then you can also use your value when chatting with a girl, for example, she complains to you: "I'm so tired recently, I really don't want to do it anymore. !"

Many men immediately began to do the same thing as the domineering president: "It's okay, you resign immediately, and I will support you."

Maybe you really have the courage to support her, but what she needs now is someone to comfort her emotions, Tell her the solution, not a trivial word.

So you can say something like this: "Your boss is so blackhearted, watch me lurking to beat him tonight!" - ( a little joke, soothing emotions )

"I know you are a little uncomfortable right now, But for work, it all needs to be run in, you should deal with it first.... Then... I believe you will do it well, try again, if it doesn't work, we will change it."- ( provides the method with your experience)

You see that these values I said are all your own advantages and the real you, and can easily make your relationship closer and closer, once If a girl can be attracted by you, then it is natural to chase back.

To sum it up, it is a sentence: value creates attraction, and attraction determines the relationship.

Finally, I want to tell everyone that no matter what time, does a good job of itself, It is the hardest capital in the relationship.

But I know that some brothers don't want to change themselves, but they don't find their own problems at all, and they don't know that they have stepped on a minefield invisibly.

This can't be blamed on you , but you must not go wrong one step at a time.

friends, you can directly message me, I am willing to help you find your own shortcomings and make you more popular.