Wenwen (pseudonym) was very moved when she first met her handsome boyfriend, who also showed that he liked her very much. But after getting along for a while, she found that her boyfriend is a person who likes to make promises but always fails to keep them. For example, he said that we went to a certain "Internet celebrity" restaurant for dinner together on weekends, and we dated a few times, but we didn't go to that restaurant; he said that he would send me a bottle of a certain brand's new perfume as soon as it came out, and it has been a long time. No movement. "There are many similar situations. I think he is not very reliable and wants to break up."
Wenwen's boyfriend is likely to be a boy who likes "mouth hi". "Kou hi" is a buzzword on the Internet. It originated from the live broadcast platform of the Internet. It is mostly used to describe people who are full of hype but can't fulfill their promises.
Who likes "mouth hi"
In life, there are mainly two types of people who like "mouth hi": those who don't keep their promises and those who don't care about other people's feelings.
When dating, women are often regarded as the one who needs to be taken care of due to their physical fitness and some social and cultural factors. Some women obtain promises from their boyfriends by acting like a spoiled child, flipping through each other's mobile phones, and getting angry, and expecting them to fulfill their promises. Some men who like "mouth hi" know well that some women like to gain a sense of security through commitment, and they rely on sweet words to make women happy. They are impetuous and exaggerated. In fact, they have neither thought deeply about what they promised and how to fulfill them, nor are they incapable of taking responsibility for their commitments.
There are also some people who like "mouth hi" for the purpose of impression management. Psychologically speaking, human beings have a tendency to protect their self-worth. They like to hear other people's flattery, and they don't like to hear unfavorable remarks. Therefore, there is a part of life that will favor those who can speak well. In the fast-paced, high-stress modern society, people tend to prefer to deal with enthusiastic people,"Hi" is very helpful to bring the distance between the two sides. However, some people only want to exchange a good impression of others at the lowest cost, but do not want to make substantial contributions. In their opinion, it is enough to gain a short-term goodwill from others by "mouthing" and achieve their own goals, even if others It is also a matter of the future to find that the expectations are not fulfilled, and you don't need to worry too much.
Correctly understand the phenomenon of "Hi" Some people don't speak sweet words, but they can sincerely give for others; some people don't make promises easily, but they do what they say. Therefore, we should not be confused by appearances, but pay more attention to the people around us.
In love, people with sunny dispositions, positive attitudes, and humorous speech are very popular, but no one likes the slick and inconsistent boyfriends who are "talking". In contrast, being down-to-earth, keeping your word, and being responsible to yourself and others are the most noble qualities of a person. Therefore, the "talking" type of boyfriend should realize that the pleasure brought by sweet words is temporary, and going back on the word is the destroyer of the intimate relationship. It should be corrected in time to avoid the breakdown of the relationship, and it is too late to regret it.
Of course, in Wenwen's situation, it would be unwise to choose to break up just because her boyfriend likes "mouth hi". In the vast sea of people, it is a kind of fate to meet each other, and it is not easy to find people who make each other's heart. Wenwen can express her opinions and urge her boyfriend to make corrections in time to help him become a person who keeps his word.
text/Shen Qi (national second-level psychological counselor)
However, some people only want to exchange a good impression of others at the lowest cost, but do not want to make substantial contributions. In their opinion, it is enough to gain a short-term goodwill from others by "mouthing" and achieve their own goals, even if others It is also a matter of the future to find that the expectations are not fulfilled, and you don't need to worry too much.Correctly understand the phenomenon of "Hi" Some people don't speak sweet words, but they can sincerely give for others; some people don't make promises easily, but they do what they say. Therefore, we should not be confused by appearances, but pay more attention to the people around us.
In love, people with sunny dispositions, positive attitudes, and humorous speech are very popular, but no one likes the slick and inconsistent boyfriends who are "talking". In contrast, being down-to-earth, keeping your word, and being responsible to yourself and others are the most noble qualities of a person. Therefore, the "talking" type of boyfriend should realize that the pleasure brought by sweet words is temporary, and going back on the word is the destroyer of the intimate relationship. It should be corrected in time to avoid the breakdown of the relationship, and it is too late to regret it.
Of course, in Wenwen's situation, it would be unwise to choose to break up just because her boyfriend likes "mouth hi". In the vast sea of people, it is a kind of fate to meet each other, and it is not easy to find people who make each other's heart. Wenwen can express her opinions and urge her boyfriend to make corrections in time to help him become a person who keeps his word.
text/Shen Qi (national second-level psychological counselor)
