asked: As a rural mother who has been accompanying my children in the county town since they were in junior high school, I have been taking meticulous care of my children's lives for the past six years, and my children have always worked hard in their studies.
However, after this year’s college entrance examination results came out, my children’s results did not meet my expectations and my children’s. This made me feel that all my efforts over the past few years were in vain. How should I adjust my feeling of loss?
Answer: There is an old saying that "Nine times out of ten things will go wrong as you wish." In life, most of our wishes are usually not fulfilled. This is the normal state of life.
Moreover, there are many factors that determine the level of a child's college entrance examination scores. It cannot be said that the child's college entrance examination results are not ideal. As parents, we have negated all the hard work and dedication of our children over the years.
In addition to the results of the college entrance examination, the child also reaped his growth and the hard work and sweat he continued to put in to realize his dream along the way!
In addition, as parents of children, no matter what we do for our children, it is appropriate. Moreover, you must be truly willing!
The college entrance examination is just a node in a child’s life. There will be a longer journey for children to travel in the future!
In the youth years when children need the most care and companionship, we truly accompany them through this journey. This will be the source of motivation for children to feel happiness in their future lives!
Efforts and efforts in life are never in vain, not to mention the "blood is thicker than water" affection between parents and children!
In addition, children’s test results are not ideal. This is also the time when children need to be understood and cared for by their parents the most. If we as parents pay more attention to our children, our own inner sense of loss will naturally disappear. It will be reduced a lot!
