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Many parents pay great attention to their children's test scores when they are in elementary school, and even told their children before the exam that if you get 100 points in the exam, you will be rewarded with something. For example, you will be rewarded with money or you will be rewarded with buying a toy.
I especially do not recommend such reward forms for parents, because the material reward will soon lose its attractiveness for children.
or child has a higher and higher demand for material things. You will be rewarded with 100 yuan for this exam in , and you will be rewarded with 100 yuan for the next exam. This will actually make the child think that I took the exam to get money!
The most important thing is In primary school, parents pay attention to academic performance is not very effective.
Many children have good grades in elementary school, but when they go to junior high school, they find that their grades are really -like declines in . Why?
We learn about 1.3 million knowledge points in primary, junior and high schools, but in primary school, these knowledge points only account for 3%!
You should know that takes 50% of the time in primary school, but only 3% of the knowledge points, Therefore, what children learn in primary school is actually very limited. What is more important is the learning ability of children in junior high school and high school, and children in primary school mainly cultivate habits.
During the 6 years of primary school, parents should cultivate their children's five habits, and improve their grades quickly in junior high school and high school
The first: Reading habits
We will find that those top scorers in the college entrance examination will mention two words in sharing their learning experience, that is, "reading", likes to read books and likes to read.
Because books will have a lot of knowledge, books can also let children learn to think about , and books can also improve children's language organization and language understanding ability.
Children have strong language comprehension and reading abilities, and can also be transferred to other subjects, such as understanding math problems, physics, and chemistry, all require understanding of words.
The second: regular living habits
Our children and adults have biological clock . Many children go to school and go to bed early and get up early, but sleeps in from the weekend, sleeps with their parents until 12 noon.
This can easily disrupt the child's biological clock, so the child develops good habits on a Friday day and is broken in two days on weekends. Such an irregular life of will actually cause the child's overall condition to become very poor.
suggests that parents should cultivate good living habits in their children. Whether it is on weekdays or on weekends, they should also arrange and plan time, and do whatever they want to do during the period of time, and try to have an approximate time as much as possible.
This way the child will have stronger immunity and less illness.
The third one: Cultivating the habit of time concept
The concept of time is very important. Children with time concept can write their homework faster when doing their homework, and and they are more planned when doing things.
There is actually not a lot of homework in elementary school. When he goes to junior high school, he will have more things to do. He can learn to plan his time in elementary school, and his time plan better in junior high school.
Everyone has 24 hours a day. Only by using 's limited time to better utilize can children learn more.
So when your child is in elementary school, learn to let the child plan his time and how long it takes to write this homework, and then you can use the "Tomato Clock Countdown" method regularly.
The fourth: exercise habits
A foreign school conducted research. After a period of time, children were asked to arrive at school early and then run and other exercises. Many parents complained about , but after a month, they found that their children's academic performance generally improved.
Because exercise can improve children's metabolic ability , which can make children more energetic and focus more, so that children can learn more efficiently.
So children should develop the habit of exercise from elementary school. Exercise in elementary school is not only conducive to learning, but more importantly, when children are in elementary school, if they exercise regularly, will also help children grow taller.
The fifth: Habit of concentration
Children with strong concentration are more efficient in learning, faster homework, and better use of time. Therefore, in the primary school stage of children, we must learn to cultivate concentration for children.
Children have strong concentration and strong sense of time, and you will find that you don’t have to worry about your children’s studies in junior high school and high school at all.
So children should not focus on grades in elementary school, but should focus on habits. If they grasp the habits well, they will not have to worry about their children’s junior high school and high school. is more likely to become a top student and it is easier to get into a good university!
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