Children's success is the hope of every parent, But how can children become talents , this is the most concerned issue of parents .
There is an old saying: three-year-old sees old, seven-year old sees old.
This shows that educating children should start at a young age, not at a certain age.
Children’s education is mainly divided into two parts: school education, family education .
School education: there are certain training goals and management systems, mainly for the learning of all kinds of knowledge
Family education: refers to the education of family members (fathers, mothers, etc.) to their children, mainly to learn various social aspects behavior.
Of the two, the influence of family education is particularly important , which can affect a person’s character, behavior, and behavior.
There is a saying: would rather have poor grades than scumbags
This is something that a professor has heard before retiring Reason, now think about it, it is indeed the same thing.
"Bear children are used to their parents,A habitual child is like killing a child. If you want your child to become a talent, you can control your child's three points in "death"! ”_P7p
1. "Controlling" the child's temper
We usually treat a child's temper _ as a laugh. _P7p But if you don’t care this time, your child will develop a habit. Span2span will speak and do things without knowing to converge. is what we usually call a black-mouthed person, it is easy for to offend others without knowing it . Such a person is obviously not very EQ. There will be some unsatisfactory aspects in dealing with people.
2. "Control the child's desire
"Children have a strong curiosity, and ask their parents for things they like. Some parents are very accustomed to their children and buy them if they want.
If you always agree to your children's requirements unconditionally, Children will have a mentality of for nothing. In the long run, children will think that everything can be easily obtained, becomes self-centered and does not cherish the fruits of other people’s labor.
So we want "Controlling" the child's desire, nothing can be easily achieved,To learn to use labor in exchange, understands that no one should pay for it.
3. "Controlling" the laziness of the child
Genius is only one step away from mortals. This step is hard work.
This sentence is a famous quote I saw in a book, who made me forget it. But the difference between hard work and laziness is so big, lazy people are always making excuses for themselves.
For example: I can also do this well, I just don't bother to do it.
Is this sentence familiar? Yes, this is an excuse. If I control the child’s laziness, the child will become a mediocre person, which is not the result that parents want to see.
Therefore, if you want your children to become talents, parents must "deadly" control these three points
Isn't it?
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