mother sees, what kind of growth process it will bring to the child will directly affect the child's growth.
Question: Children around two years old like to throw things, or throw things directly on the ground when they are upset? How can I tell my children that they cannot throw things?
Reply: This mother only saw the child's throwing behavior, so she wanted to stop and correct the child's throwing behavior.
If there are other mothers in the group, they say that this is the child's space-sensitive period, and the behavior of throwing things can promote the child's development. It is a normal behavior and it is good to satisfy him. These mothers see their children's physical and mental development needs, so they want to meet their children's needs, not stop them.
is also the behavior of children throwing things. Everyone sees from a different angle, but what you see will bring about what results.
Mom only saw the child's throwing behavior, and felt that the throwing behavior was wrong, so she should stop and correct it. This will strengthen the child's behavior of throwing things. The child was originally throwing things because he wanted to explore the space, but the mother entered the concept of throwing things in his brain. You can’t throw things when you’re upset. Take this behavior. put on label. The next time a child is unhappy, it is easy to think of throwing things. When he thinks about it, he will make the same behavior because he has already put throwing things=not right, when unhappy=throwing things, the two are connected together. After
is labeled, not only the child's spatial perception ability is not better developed, but it will make the child's behavior easy to follow the direction of the label.
Other mothers see their children throwing things because they want to feel the space. At this time, they naturally want to meet their children's needs for spatial development and help them develop themselves better. The children whose needs are fully satisfied will improve their corresponding abilities and lay a good foundation for the subsequent physical and mental development, and the children will develop themselves more fully and confidently.
What mom sees will bring the child's growth process, which directly affects the child's growth.
Mother’s parenting wisdom determines the gap between seeing the child. Only the mother who is constantly learning and growing will know how to see the true needs of the child, will strengthen her inner thoughts, and find the right way of parenting for herself and her child. It’s not just what people say, it’s easy to be influenced by the comments of others, always in anxiety, and don’t know what to do.
