once had such a story: you are studying, others are traveling, you are studying, and others are gathering. At the end, you are worse than others in the exam. Why is this?
Some people will say that it is because the child has not worked hard, but he has already devoted all his time to learning, why can't he surpass others?
is not because the child is not serious, but because his learning is not efficient. The distance between the children may have been lost on this starting line.
Combining work and rest with
People who can't rest will not work. If a person has been doing the same thing for a long time, it will not be efficient. Studies have shown that the concentration time for children aged 5-6 is about 10-15 minutes, for 7-10 years old is 20-25 minutes, and 10-12 years old is 25-30 minutes. Even an adult can only do it for 20 minutes when it is highly concentrated on one thing. Once it exceeds 20 minutes, it will start to make mistakes.
So how to adjust attention is also crucial. After a child has been studying intensively for a long time, he needs some time to rest, which is also the reason for the schedule of school courses. For most schools, teachers often intersperse some interesting interactions during class. This is to allow children to distract and get appropriate adjustments so that they can concentrate on learning later in the course.
and children often cannot do this at home. The family always hope that their children will study endlessly, thinking that besides studying, other things are a waste of time. In fact, this is not the case. Children often cannot concentrate when facing homework for a long time. Although they seem to be studying hard, their thinking has gone beyond the horizon. Rest at this time is very important for children. The fundamental of the combination of work and rest is to relax the long-time tense spirit to adapt to the next gathering. Children who know how to rest will find their own way of adjustment. As parents, you need to give your children a certain amount of space so that they can learn to combine work and rest.
Learning motivation
The main thing in learning is to find one's own goals. Learning without a purpose will make children develop a sloppy personality. In addition, interest in learning also plays a key role. Children will pay more attention to the things they like and pay more attention. Choosing the right way, so that the child can learn in a happy atmosphere, can improve his efficiency. Parents must learn how to know their children's interests.
Of course, the motivation for learning is not only the goals and interests determined by the child, but also the cultivation of the child's mind. Parental guidance has become extremely important in developing children’s self-confidence. The family environment affects children, and the development of specific measures can effectively stimulate the motivation of children to learn.
In addition, praise from parents is also an encouragement to children. Children can see their own progress in the words of their parents and strengthen their confidence in themselves. Compared with hitting the child, encouragement will let the child understand his own value, awaken the dream deep in his heart, and guide the goal of voluntary struggle. Respecting the child not only protects the child's curiosity, but also allows him to find his own way of learning in an unscrupulous space and learn to think independently. This is not only for his own goals, but also to respond to the trust of parents.
Good habits
In addition to motivation, good study habits are also crucial. Some children start to shrink as soon as they encounter problems, and are unwilling to learn what they don't understand. This is also due to a problem of habit. Suppose he previews or reviews before doing his homework, and then starts writing, then he will get twice the result with half the effort. On the contrary, it will make the child run into a wall everywhere, killing his interest and self-confidence. Therefore, developing good habits will benefit the child for life.
Many parents have a misunderstanding when cultivating children's learning habits, that is, they think that doing everything well for their children is good for their children. Parents check the child's homework and point out his mistakes. This method is incorrect. Right and wrong should be checked by yourself, so that children can develop the ability to think alone. What parents need to do is to cultivate the children’s whole set of process habits from doing questions to checking, and then correcting mistakes, so that they can develop a regular learning method, rather than point out everything to them, which will make the children form a kind of Dependence, without one's own opinion, once separated from the help of parents, you will become overwhelmed.
Sometimes children are extremely procrastinated when doing things. Homework that can be done in half an hour has to be delayed to several hours. For this habit, parents should correct it according to the actual situation of the child. Some children are because they want to play, some are because they are not interested, and some are because they are not skilled. For different situations, parents need to find suitable methods, and sometimes the behavior of parents will also affect their children. Therefore, parents can also contact the teacher to communicate and take correct measures to change the child's bad habits.
Children are not very efficient, which not only affects children's learning, but also affects their lives. Ask the child to change from being daunting to being active. Parents use their hearts and learn to control their emotions. Encouragement is always more useful than blame. Understand the child, pay attention to the child. Let children change habits autonomously, improve learning efficiency, and go further and further on the road in the future.
-The End-
because the course is interesting, so children like it;
because the children change, so parents trust. The changes of
children are obvious to all. The gratification of
parents is from the heart,
and we will always take "Let Chinese youth and children synchronize with the world" as our own responsibility,
is the programmer!
