Introduction: Children's education issues have always been the top priority, and parents will spare no effort and make good efforts. Different ideas and ideas will also differ in education methods. However, with the development of society and the progress of the times, parents' educational methods are also changing.
Today's young people must have a big difference from the "older generation"'s educational concepts. It is definitely not possible if the "older generation" ignores the ideas and suggestions of young people because of their personal identity. After all, the times are different.
In the past, due to different environments, a family would have multiple children, but now they are mostly only children, and if conditions permit, there will be only two or three at most. In order to prevent their children from feeling lonely in childhood, some parents often keep small pets at home.
Grandma cooked the "pet", and the sad seed was forced to eat it. "Hell" education was criticized
Over time, children established deep feelings with these little pets, but not every parent can understand this feeling.
There was a child who raised a little crab as a pet, but grandma was not aware of it. She cooked the crab and asked the child to eat it. The child was so sad that she cried loudly.
Grandma also thinks that the child is unreasonable and is kind enough to cook a crab to improve your food. Why is it so popular that the crab has a nutritional value! The more I talked about the children, the more they cried.
simply ignored it and pulled off the crab legs, tear off a piece of meat and put it into the child's mouth. Perhaps grandma thinks that as long as she tastes the taste, she will probably not cry, after all, the food is hard to resist.
Many netizens are very confused about this behavior and are even angry. But many older generations don’t agree with it because they educated their children like this before.
Young people think this compulsive education method is really offensive, so why don’t you take into account your children’s thoughts and feelings? How sad the child will be if he blindly does his own thing.
For this kind of education, some netizens call it "hell" education. Children are originally little babies in the family and should be loved by them. Seeing the children so sad and painful but without any reaction, it is a bit unreasonable.
Children show sad and painful expressions for these behaviors. The elderly not only ignore them, but also think that they are not obedient and disobedient. This kind of education often makes children become cautious, and gradually becomes the "sensible" children in their minds. In fact, these children seem to be sensible, but in fact their childhood is very depressing.
Seeing this phenomenon, many netizens complained, saying that parents can directly ignore their children's feelings, and have a righteous attitude, especially those "older generations" don't think there is something wrong with their education methods? The reason why
This phenomenon occurs is because the times are different, and the concepts and ideas are different. You should know that the living standards and material conditions before were not on the same level as the current level. Before the crab, it was delicacies and seafood. You may not be able to eat a bite all year round. It would be a waste to use such a precious thing to play with.
And some people think that what they eat is what they eat, and what they play is what they play, which should be distinguished. It is not necessary to play with the food for fun, you cannot be pretentious, and you cannot be spoiled.
Some netizens do not support this idea. Even if it is used for eating, you should tell the child that it is for eating and that it is not suitable for playing, and that it cannot be a friend. It is very necessary to let students understand your behavior before doing it.
Children are innocent in their minds and are prone to invest in their emotions. If parents ignore it and post it online as a "joke", they will definitely be public outrage from netizens, and children also need to be respected and understood.
It would be fine if I met those children who were open-minded, but I would pass it and would not take it too seriously. At most, I was sad at that time.But some children are different. They care more about it. There will be a hurdle. They will be able to distance themselves from their parents over time. He may even become more and more shy, introverted, less talkative, and not good at socializing.
Nowadays, young people are more attentive in educating their children, paying special attention to details. This kind of forced education basically does not exist. Young parents are more good at listening and care about their children's thoughts and feelings, so their children rarely have sad and painful emotions.
When the child says "NO", young parents will ask the reason, instead of ignoring it, and reasoning based on the reasons. Even if the child follows you, the child will understand it and will be willing. Parents will think that it is important for children to express their ideas bravely, and such children will become more and more confident in the future. Blind obedience will be detrimental to their children's growth.
So young people nowadays will not value their elders too much. Sometimes parents and children need to establish a relationship between friends, and mutual respect and understanding cannot be ignored.
After all, the concept of family education is very important, which plays an important role in the growth and future development of children. Parents who know how to keep pace with the times and make appropriate changes will be more effective in the cultivation of their children. Children who grow up in this environment will develop in a good direction, be friendly to others, be patriotic, and be grateful.
