Most parents name their children with some expectations or blessings, but naming their daughter "Zhaodi" will undoubtedly bring heavy psychological burden to their daughter.
When she is sensible, she will feel absurd because she actually assumes some kind of calling mission, and then fall into self-denial, thinking that her life is not important or even redundant.
In schools, workplaces, and social occasions, everyone cannot do without self-introduction. The name "Zhaodi" is easily labeled secretly, thinking that her family not only "refers boys over girls", but also superstitious. It is more likely to be arbitrarily judging that she has lacked love since childhood and has a problem with her personality.
Especially in marriage and love, because of the stereotype brought by the name, the man will resist her original family and even deny her entirely. The theme of her life may have become the pursuit of others' love, and even lose herself for the love of others, just like "The Life of Matsuko Despised".
From childhood to adulthood, they all have to bear the heavy pressure brought by this name. When faced with other people's jokes, most of them can only escape, which makes them look weird and makes others sure of their own judgment, believing that she has indeed grown up in a deformed native family and is difficult to get along with.
When they grow up and have enough ability, some people will resolutely decide to change their names. Although they have to submit various materials and spend their energy to lose the information about changing their ID cards, social security, bank cards, etc., they are not afraid.
According to statistics, there are more than 10,000 women in a certain province called "Zhaodi", of which the vast majority are over 60 years old, and only a small number of people born in the 1990s and 2000s are called similar names. It can be seen that this outdated idea is becoming less and less marketable.
But it is also worthy of being wary of this idea that it has not yet become extinct, and it may even be secretly upgraded. Some parents will use more obscure ways to name their daughter "Zhuaner" or "Changnan" and despise their daughter's rights.
No matter what, these phenomena are only a few now. As the times progress, names like "Zhaodi" are destined to become the dust of history.
